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 TS_69er

Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 176
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/25/2006 6:34:27 PM
lots of older woman loves the younger guys, when im in a bar I see a lot of older cougars hitting on the young ones..
 bucsgirl

Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 177
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Posted: 12/25/2006 6:40:29 PM
"when im in a bar I see a lot of older cougars hitting on the young ones.." And that isn't here is it? Most women have an age range of about 10 years. More than that, well it gets to be more like an age of a child and that's just weird on so many levels. Would you younger guys hit on your mom's friends?
 sleeplessin_brissie

Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 178
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/25/2006 6:43:01 PM
You may think this strange as i am 56 would rather go out with younger guys well from 46 to my age . I have been out with guys my age and they been boring or i must have got the wrongs ones . Maybe if I was 23 i might but i,m not ,sorry
 Huggles

Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 179
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Posted: 12/25/2006 6:51:12 PM
Depends on the maturity level of a "younger guy". I, for one, do have a limit of even entertaining the idea of dating a younger guy for numerous reasons and it has nothing to do with what is "socially acceptable" or "what would my family and friends think/say". I'm the one dating this person, not them. I've dated men that were 15 years younger than me...not together anymore... Why? We had different interests, conversation was lacking and, well..we'll leave the bedroom out of this....(it IS true that women do peak at 40)

 jane50071

Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 180
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Posted: 12/25/2006 8:12:01 PM
AcesDJD....... you are a lot more mature financially and emotionally than the 20 year olds that hit on me just because I am closer to their moms age. One kid even bragged that he liked hitting on and sleeping with his friends moms. Sorry, but guys like that ruin it for any other guy who is less than five years younger than me.
 MissBHavin2U

Joined: 12/16/2006
Msg: 181
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/25/2006 10:25:47 PM
Well, I am 46 years old and I have been dating a 39 year old! It's been wonderful! Let me tell you~~~~ it's just fine
 Hell Gibson

Joined: 12/5/2006
Msg: 182
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Posted: 12/25/2006 10:45:53 PM
Nevermind..... sorry, I woulda deleted this, but can't.


 The_Champ_Is_Here

Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 183
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/25/2006 10:48:05 PM
I guess dating women my age is for sure not possible? Oh well, there is always the palm sisters anyhow.
 onesnowman

Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 184
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Posted: 12/26/2006 12:58:09 AM
when I was 17yrs young ,I was going out with young ladies of 25 and older.Everytime that I was with an older young lady it was getting better and better each and everytime. You can never get tired of having a Great time of giving sheer Pleasure to each and everyone of them and they showing you and giving themselves all the time. Its the Passion of giving of one self to another for hours at a time,Yes ! Hours! Making sure that the ladies get what they deserve and they cum as often as possilbe. Knowing exactly where to touch and kiss and nipple over and over again. Looking at the way they Smile at you ,during the play time and afterwards.
 playtime6969

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 185
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Posted: 12/26/2006 1:53:19 AM
ya canadian women love younger dudes...i was 19 when i hooked up with the mother of my son..she is 9 years older than i...But i have always dated older women...im now 35...soon to be 36...and i still love older women....yummmy...taught me a thing or two....thanks ladies..
 WomanInProgress

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 186
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Posted: 12/26/2006 4:47:02 AM

Everytime that I was with an older young lady it was getting better and better each and everytime.

OK, I'm confused. Older or younger? Hmmm.
 fwblooking

Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 187
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Posted: 12/26/2006 5:10:11 AM
Who does not like to train puppies, indeed? Puppies, yes... young people? absolutely not!!! I find the majority of responses on this thread seem to indicate that older women do not like younger men... I should put that question to my 1st wife, since she left me for one. But on the upside, she has gone through at least 8 unfulfilling relationships in the last 4 years... and what about younger women longing to meet older men? The younger women I have met and dated are all interested in partying, kissing other girls, and showing their ta-ta's to anyone with a video camera in the hopes they will be on the next "Girls Gone Wild" video... and speaking like a sort of 21st century Valley Girl. "Oh my God!", indeed... I, personally, have instituted a quote rule when i date. If i can throw out a Shakespeare quote, and they can tell me it's a Shakespeare quote, then all is well, and I can have an intelligent conversation. Call me old-fashioned, but I like talk. If my mind is stimulated, then why stimulate anything else?
 The_Champ_Is_Here

Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 188
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Posted: 12/26/2006 7:29:27 AM
LOL I don't even know a Shakespeare quote. If a woman quoted one and expected me to also? I would be clued out.
As for the young women flashing their puppies and kissing other girls. That is what they did when I was in my 20's as well. Part of the fun and partying scene.
Now you have older women who are partying it up with guys 15 yrs younger and many thinking they are in their 20's again.
Funny thing is, I have been bashed by women my age for "partying with younger people" instead of acting my age, Yet they do the exact same thing and date the younger guys so end up hanging around more younger people.
Here I do not make it a regular thing to do, I will go out with co-workers for drinks for someone's birthday. But I find that it is ok for the ladies to hang out and date younger but if guys do it they are immature and only after younger women for sex.
Can't win either way.
 deadgirllivin

Joined: 9/22/2005
Msg: 189
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Posted: 12/26/2006 7:40:37 AM
I myself LOVE younger men. Men my age and older just give me the willies. I find men within the 10 years younger range are quite ready for a relationship, I have been enjoying dating them, I am not ready for a commitment or I would have snagged a few already. I have also dated as young as 23, some are mature and know how to treat a woman. I have been asked out by 19 yo's and perhaps, yes, that is pushing it. Take some time and don't look for women too much older than you at this point.
Have fun and be patient.
 whitedahlia

Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 190
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/26/2006 7:56:15 AM
I am 44, soon to be 45. Since reaching my 40's I have had more attention from guys in their 20's and 30's than I ever did when I was that age. "Where the h*ll were you all when I was that age?????!!!!" IN GENERAL - read in general people - young guys are too immature, have too many hang-ups, and are great fun to have a fling with when I am away on some anonymous vacation far from home. Great fun. Conversation????
'When you talk to me, shut up!!" They can be completely devoid of any ability to talk about more than their d*cks, their cars, and their beer. Men 5 years younger/older than I have similar life experiences, are better versed in topics beyond their wee-wee, and have fewer hang-ups in the bedroom. Now, before any of you want to slam me with exceptions, let me offer a few of my own and reiterate that I am speaking in general terms.

6 years ago I had a holiday fling with a "kid' who was 20. He was an art history major, played in a band - how cute - and was sharp as a whip. Had an opinion on a wide variety of topics. I had a GREAT time with him in and out of bed. The 18 years between us did not matter one bit and I am glad I did not dismiss him upon sight. Now, another man I had a short relationship with, a year older than I, was aging badly and his insecurities made him act like a 14 year old boy in a 45 year old body. He liked what he saw in me at first , but then it became pretty apparent that he was quite uncomfortable with someone his age. Too much of a mortal indictment I am guessing. Anyway, he is headed for an over-leased red Porsche, The Hair Club for Men, Viagra on demand, and making an idiot of himself the next time he goes to Hooter's Restaurant and tries to flirt with the waitress.......Sad don't you think??? This is why I don't like younger guys unless they're art history majors, play in a band, and can talk/speak/converse/interact/communicate/verbalize on a number of issues.
Cheers, WD
 Neysha61

Joined: 7/31/2006
Msg: 191
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Posted: 12/26/2006 8:10:25 AM
@ The Champ
You stalk these kinds of forums, don't you buddy ?
Remember what I said before in the other one, well it STILL GOES!
 The lastresort

Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 192
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Posted: 12/26/2006 8:18:12 AM

had a holiday fling with a "kid' who was 20. He was an art history major, played in a band - how cute - and was sharp


hummmmm i think i met the same 'kid' once!

i still go by what i previously had said on this thread.....
 The_Champ_Is_Here

Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 193
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Posted: 12/26/2006 8:23:14 AM
I'm comin to get ya Neysha!!!!

My advice to the guys my age..either keep trying and have patience, there may be a handful of women our age who will still date us, or give up. Dating is not the be all to end all. Lots more to life than being with someone, be it for sex or a relationship.
 maturetart

Joined: 12/22/2006
Msg: 194
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Posted: 12/26/2006 8:24:26 AM
Hi i.ve talked to lots of young men most are great its the few bad 1.s that cause the problems. like what you doing on this sites if you dont want sex. or you must be a slapper to go in chatrooms. i try and avoid young guys i dont need the grief lynn 1oldcow .
 AcesDJD

Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 195
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Posted: 12/26/2006 11:16:11 AM
Jane50071, you sound like you can tell the immature ones, so why make an arbitrary delineation when you can just use common sense? I pretty much like to date my age and older (no I'm not one of those guys who particularly goes for older women not that there's anything wrong with that) but I like the maturity that seems to be at least mostly there by one's mid twenties. However, as an example, the other day I got an email from a nineteen year old in my part of the world. I pretty much nixed it, but I said to myself well you never know lemme just check out her profile and see, sure enough it had immaturity written all over it. However, had the profile been a little different, I probably would have at least contacted her and given it a shot. I admit I would have been skeptical of anything happening, being that purely sex alone is not one of my interests.
 spiritedfox

Joined: 6/6/2006
Msg: 196
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Posted: 12/26/2006 11:27:37 AM
Some older women are really into younger guys!!! I've been there myself a few times. Some much younger 15 years, some just a bit younger 8 years. and I guess the bottom line is personality, mutual interest and accepting the other person. Some younger men, I've dated were great in bed, but when it came to responsibility, they didn't cut it. I love great sex, (who doesn't, right?) but there is so much more in a relationship than sex. I'm finally getting it. and right now I'm at an age where I'm only responsible for me, no kids to worry about (much), my job is great, I'm fit, active and fun loving etc... and finding someone (who loves life) no matter what age (ok within reason) would suit me fine.
 verygreeneyez

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 197
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Posted: 12/26/2006 11:36:16 AM
I date men my age or younger. I do have a very small window of range (no one younger than 35, no one older than myself.) I have many reasons for my preferences, none of them pertaining to sex.

Most of the men that contact me here on POF are older than myself ~ and the funny thing about that ~ many of them post here in forums that they don't understand why women date younger. I find that hilarious. They want to eventually date me, me being younger than they are, but they are offended that I date younger men. Go figure.
 michael_farmville

Joined: 10/15/2006
Msg: 198
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Posted: 12/26/2006 11:40:36 AM
Two quick thoughts. One, they are into younger guys. My wife left me for a boy 13 years her junior that our sons considered a big brother. And two, if your speach in person is as poor as your written word then I am sure that they think you are too imature and possibly a little slow. So my suggestion to you is to get a grasp of proper English language and keep trying.
 Ron9

Joined: 8/10/2004
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Posted: 12/26/2006 11:45:15 AM
Why are older women not into younger guys???

Pardon me while I barf .................

To the guys that think that - just wait around a few years and you will be in older girl heaven.

Almost all of the females that are in my target age range are actually looking for guys younger than they are. Cheer up - you have tons of older gals in your future.
 East European Girl

Joined: 2/1/2006
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Posted: 12/26/2006 11:50:59 AM
I have no problem dating men younger than me; and as a matter of fact the general trend is that I have dated more men who are younger as opposed to older than me. However, what I look for is not age specific, it's all about compatability; similar values, ideals and so on. I find it's challenging enough to find someone with a similar life's path, who is willing to take me as I am and of course vice versa! Nevemind the age difference!!!
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