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Posted: 3/5/2007 6:59:51 PM | OK - Just so you all know - I am proud to be one of the "Goofs" so you may as well know it now rather than later - For those that do know me you'll know this to be true - PrettyGirl if you were a little older perhaps I would show you that there are some decent guys out there but since only time can resolve age matters then you'll have to learn from others.
Schedule permitting I will try to attend - I dont play pool and have no inclination to drink these days but socializing with some of the great people that I have met and continue to meet thru POF always signifies an awesome time.
Hope to see y'all there!
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Posted: 3/5/2007 7:10:52 PM | Not all guys are ***holes. I have met some great guys on this site. But I would watch out for some. They do pretend to be something they are not. You guys know who you are!!!!!
Besides that... these social gatherings are great ways to meet people. Just keep an eye out and always trust your instincts. Sometimes they can sneak by you. The ***holes I mean.
Have fun everyone. I would like to attend.. but have other obligations. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2007 7:44:54 PM | I agree with you Nb_Native all men are not A**holes...
Even though I have met a few of them in my life I'm not completly
against them or anything...they are a male figure or spieces of this planet
and we have to at least give them a chance.
To see exactly what they can do. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2007 7:47:23 PM | You know, its really too bad that people have to put up masks either intentionally or unintentionally. Unfortunately, there are a lot of sick people out there. We are all at different stages of maturity and growth, and I'm sure women are just as guilty of it as men are, although I was raised by women and am proud to be a good man. Yes, I'm not afraid of saying it. If you get to know me, how would Zabian say it, what you see on here is what you get, except maybe some more dancing and jigging around in person. haha. Deep and complex, thats the best way I can describe myself. No shit. So complex, I'm still trying to figure myself out. So deep I'm still diving into myself. Well, I hope we get a good turnout, and I hope the socializing angels are atop us all and we flutter around like butterflies mingling and getting to know each other.  | |
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Posted: 3/6/2007 2:35:23 AM | I really hope I can make it to this event...it will be my FIRSTTIME at a POF shin-dig but....I'll just be coming off of a 5 day tour and may be broke. I'm planning on attending, does lose faith in me yet!! lol
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Posted: 3/6/2007 6:23:24 AM |
how would Zabian say it, what you see on here is what you get
something like that....different words but same meaning...I just want people to know the real me online and offline as the same...My deepness comes from the beyond, and a mixture of my past experiences...can almost say I am in a trance or something....
glad the name tag thing is optionnal(those who know what I mean)...
looking forward to meeting everyone there...
I'm a guy, I made my mistakes, always will, not and never will be perfect and it's not like I try to be an ***hole at times either...but those who know me already know...I'm just really happy I have people helping me be more aware so I can constantly better myself.
I only drink once a year... X-Mas time and if you read my profile, you'll understand...Hopefully not every year will end up the same...but oh well...
Even though there is tons of stuff going on good or bad with POF, I'm really happy to be part of it all, because it's like a familly, even if we hardly hang out or chat or whatever, I guess everyone on here contributes to something in their own way, adding variations and well, you get the point...Well New-Brunswick people anyways, I never venture out of the NB forums area....
just got off work, I should be off to bed again...working in less than 10 hours again... | |
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Posted: 3/6/2007 3:01:27 PM | Everyone makes mistakes, and people should not hold things
against that person it makes no sence and life is too short ot hold
grudges. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2007 3:11:08 PM | | Lest not judge a judger, for then thee becomes a judger themself. This has been my biggest challenge to myself lately. You know, we can only control what we can change, and we can't change anyone else. We can only change ourselves. Look within before you blame or judge others. If something bad happens to you from someone, what have you learned from it. Don't hold grudges, just know that person is still sick, less grown than maybe you or I. Don't forget to forgive those for their trespasses, and we will be forgiven for our trespasses. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2007 3:38:48 PM | I've spoken to my parol officer and it's ok for me to go and stay past my curfew :) .....  | |
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Posted: 3/6/2007 8:37:30 PM | That's great Virgo,
Glad you can stay past cerfew, it won't be over until 2am cause there's
nothing much else really to do on a Monday night no karaoke is going on,
so I'm thinking this is a good day to have it...2 weeks away guys!!
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Posted: 3/6/2007 9:06:31 PM | well, i just had a very quick post it to post...but then i read what big sugar poted...and i was a bit offened..but maybe i read it wrong..if u thing that i am immature, just cause my young age, im going to be 21 march 30....ur very wrong......its kind like the old saying, one bad apple ruins it for the batch.....all the guys that just are users, ruin it for the good guys....... and then, there are all the immature stupid 20 yr olds that ruin it for the good people....ME! but i guess if someone judges a person by there age, before they even meet them thats fine... but none the less, each to their own right.....
and to everyone else, i may not be able to go, my baby needed perscriptions and shes running a bad cough and cold. so the money i had saved, and then some, had to go to that...which is fine, priorites first, but just saying i may not be able to go....haha welfare sucks...but i guess i am not too bad a person, putting my daughter before me.
hope u all have fun.. think of me! | |
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Posted: 3/6/2007 9:10:31 PM | | and yes pick on my spelling, but its been a long long day, being 9 mths pregnant is very hard, along with having a sick baby, so whow me someone who spells everything they ever write, right, and ill be sorry at that point in time...LOL. ill try harder. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 5:11:25 AM | Hey Pretty Girl. I admire your priorities and admire your perserverance (try spelling that one right). Its tough when your different from the stereotype isn't it. (You being more mature than a typical 20 yr old, me not being a typical Ahole). However, I wouldn't focus too much on trying to prove it, because the true people out there will see through it and wouldn't judge anyway. I don't if Big Sugar was so much as judging as saying if you were older he would show u what a nice guy he was. haaha. Which I have no idea what age has to do with that. I am sure you can show what a nice guy you are outside of bed. Well, sorry you couldn't make it, but I have a feeling we will keep in touch. winks winks. As for the rest of you, the countdown is on, yippee kayaa.  | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 11:28:28 AM | well, the good news is, i think nanny will babysit, lol....now, i just gotta find a super nice guy that will buy me my drink...WATER, that is! LOL...OH LOL...OH MY I KILL MYSELF......thats a sign that i realllly NEED sleep. OH LOL. this will be really the last time i can get out without kids and just relax, so i am determined to do it...ill just sit in the corner and watch everyone make fools of themselves...LOL....THAT WAS A JOKE! lol.. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 11:30:00 AM | | ps...i meant "last time", for a little while, a few months.... | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 3:27:45 PM | Ok, I am pretty sure Big Sugar did not mean no harm in what he posted. He is 36, of course he would think twice about a 20year old. He was being nice and considerate. Dont be to quick to take offense to people.
I do however think that it is immature to announce on here that you are on welfare and that it sucks! Where would you be right now if it wasnt for welfare? | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 4:24:57 PM | i hate typeing, texting and such, u really cant tell how the person really means it...tone of voice is everything.
all i meant by welfare, is that i wish i could fully support my own family. i thing the program is terrific. i have alot to be thankful for, my daughter is fed and healthy and happy. and it is thanks to them. oh, i totally didnt mean anything bad toward them at all. im just not the typical welfare person, i have been told that. i want to be off it, i want to support my family by myself. but right now i need it. and i have never and will never abuse the sysytem. im not on it buying drugs or what not. and all i really meant by the it sucks comment, is thats theres never really any extra "fun" money. but thats fine, like i said, babys healthy happy and roof over head..thats all that matters.
i really didnt mean to come across as immature, cause im not. and you wouldnt know if i was or wasnt untill u have actually met me. thats the same with everybody, u dont truely know what the person is all about untill u have the pleasure/displeasure of meeting them.
OH PS! LOL just thought id add, 36? thats young, and im babys "sperm donor", lol, is 38. now im sure that will spark a whole lot new comments, maybe im a slut now, cause i like older men. but i totally understand, that some guys just arent interested in younger ladys. LUCKILY there are a ton of guys that know the joys of being with a younger lady.....................
and xome off the high horse, i didnt mean anything by that comment either.
Have a great day. and everyone has to lighten up a bit! jeesh, LOL! | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 4:58:16 PM | I wasnt trying to be mean, I am not on any high horse. I certainly dont think less of you for dating an older guy, and I do understand life situations.
I was only responding cause you felt offended by what big sugar had said, and I know he meant no harm.
The welfare part..well...its there for people that need it. No harm in that at all. I just think it may send off bad signals the way you referred to it, although from your repsonse, I understand what you mean. You will get off the system eventually, but like you said your babies come first and thankfully you have the system to turn too. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 7:29:18 PM | | Allright, first of all, let me be the first to offer you that water girl. I'm not a rich man but I'm sure I can swing that. Second of all, I need sleep and my keyboard is acting up so goodnite. PS...If I buy u a water, do I get to rub the tummy? | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 9:49:29 PM | well, the way this baby kicks and is sooo dang active, id be afaid of "she" (not sure what it is, but i want another beautiful angel) may freaking hurt ur hand from kicking so hard..LOL! i just can NNOTTT wait till april 18!!! OH PS...., if anyone knows of any dressers, or change tables, or other baby stuff, real cheap, or even if someone can swing something for free..that would be great! so if any moms, or guys, can kinda keep an eye out, that would be the kindest thing in the world! you guys rock! thank you from the depths of my heart.
Sincerely, Erin | |
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Posted: 3/8/2007 1:27:01 AM | | By the looks of your profile reference by that guy "misunderstood" it looks like you have already found a fellow :) good luck to you! | |
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Posted: 3/8/2007 4:20:08 AM | | ok, that one confused me virago lady. Whos misunderstood and whose the guy and whose the fellow. haha. Anyway, keyboard working better this morning. Its a beautiful morning and I thought I would put my 2 cents in worth again today. Where am I going to post to after this event. Someone help point me in a direction cause as I said before, I am not sifting through 65 pages of nb forums. Well girl, I got some furniture I am getting rid of this month but its a couch, couple of living room chairs, kitchen table set, and some end tables, and a make-up vanity mirror thingy. I am cleaning out my storage and leaving it all behind me. I am in process of figuring it out now who and where its going to but my heart lies in donating it or taking a small donation from a friend. I will talk to Harvest House and my church about the baby stuff and see if anyone can do anything. Let me know if anyone is in dire need of anything I mentioned and depending on who you are and your need, we can talk. JJ | |
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Posted: 3/8/2007 7:48:14 AM | | that seems pretty cheap to play some pool.........as a member of Dooly's I would say there should be more people signing up......... | |
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Posted: 3/8/2007 12:55:59 PM | | virago lady......hi. as u well know, with words on a screen, no one can fully tell the tone of voice, or how it was meant. but as far as the very awesome gentleman on my profile, yes he and i are very close, and possibly something in the future, but right now i am concentrating on my baby. dont know if u were trying to start anything virago lady..but i can have my friends. im not dead. but anyway, have a great day. and maybe u didnt mean anything by it, thats cool. just clearing it up. yes i do like him alot, and ill see whos still hanging tough with me, and not pressuring me and still my friend around summer, maybe even the end of summer...dont know. | |
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