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 xinix

Joined: 1/14/2007
Msg: 26
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How do you get girls talking on a date/pickup?
Posted: 2/15/2007 6:10:58 AM
just the other day a young lad came up tae me an' said,
'yo, ye're so hot, i could cook an egg on yer shadow!'

i fell over backwards, but it led into a fun conversation -
pity, but i haven't seen him since
 bandmanfun

Joined: 2/9/2007
Msg: 27
How do you get girls talking on a date/pickup?
Posted: 2/15/2007 6:24:37 AM
I might have been just trying to get me to buy her drinks, dunno. Anyway, That was just an example, the question was originally a little more open than that. I was really looking for techniques to use to talk about nothing, just to free up the conversation some.
Also, I didn't go to the bar to meet women, I went to find out the results of the chick charter tournament that I mated in. We got 3rd for heaviest tuna, but were disqualified because we fished 2 long. Oh well.
 bassgirl747

Joined: 9/5/2005
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Posted: 2/15/2007 7:48:37 AM
What worked for me is when he found something we both liked, he just started talking about his experiences, and then the questions and replies came from me in kind, and then this went on for over an hour . Gals you can help things along by forming at least a small interest in what he is contributing. Even if its an activity you dont like to do or something, ask things about it that get him to open up.
 *Tee*

Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 2/15/2007 7:54:53 AM

" I felt like I was trying to get to know her, but she wasn't really talking, so I just started asking questions, and after awhile she kindof turned of completely.


That should have been your first clue right there. Believe me, if a woman wants to get to know you, she'll make sure the conversation flows, so she can keep you around. If you're the only one doing the talking, thats your cue to move on JMO
 MDNinja

Joined: 1/9/2005
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Posted: 2/15/2007 7:57:50 AM
"getting to know each other" is for dating. Introductions is all about keeping it light, lively, and funny.

Don't focus on getting to know her, that will come. As you get to know her, focus on making her laugh.
 sunshine2900

Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/14/2007 10:43:56 AM
Hi Bandmanfun

Relaxed. Have fun. Dont ask her too much question..

I agree with Daisies. Engage in small talk. Talk about weather, movies and common topic. Pause and wait for her to reply/response. Cheer her up a little. tell a funny stories in one of the movies you just seen. Share a little joke. Make her feel comfortable and relax with you. Watch for her body language, eye contact and facial expression. Ask the weather is pretty nice today.. what you doing this weekend. If she share that you got to get the kill and invite her for a date this weekend then.

Be natural.. be fun and be relaxed. Smile a lot. When you smile, she will naturally smile at you.
 hudson hutch

Joined: 5/27/2008
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Posted: 6/21/2008 9:54:32 PM
pickup? Nice shoes!
 The Jabberwock

Joined: 5/21/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 6/21/2008 10:26:34 PM
Ask her what the results were of her last STD test.....
 AManofAdventure

Joined: 12/6/2007
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Posted: 6/22/2008 12:43:38 AM
Lots of ways but one that helps is not discussing predictable stuff. Predictable is boring.
 IamKaren

Joined: 6/15/2008
Msg: 35
How do you get girls talking on a date/pickup?
Posted: 6/22/2008 2:13:52 AM
This one is really easy! You talk about what i want you to talk about and only talk about what i say you can talk about. Also..you aren't allowed to ask me what i want you to talk about but you best know what i want you to talk about.

How did you like all these what you can talk abouts?? Wait..don't answer that...I am not wearing shoes either. For now the talking is over! This dear, is what women want
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