| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/7/2007 4:44:00 PM | | No, I do NOT like being ignored. If he keeps quiet, then I'll assume he's not interested and move on. It's that simple. I don't like games, and this sounds like one! Why can't we all just be upfront and honest about how we feel? I lost the ability to read minds a few days ago, unfortunately, or else maaaybe the ignoring thing would work. :-P | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/9/2007 1:38:19 PM | Nope. Deliberately ignoring me only works in that I will show interest - in who else might be interesting for a date!
Grown-ups don't like mind-games.
Like SnuggleSmacks says re. times when genuine circumstances of being busy with life can get in the way, but good communication remains the key in such situations... Ignoring - is not one of those options | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/9/2007 2:05:51 PM | Yeah, um no...didn't even dig that in highschool, lol! I really like to continue conversation after good conversation has already been had!  | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/9/2007 7:35:17 PM | | It might work only if the girl already is VERY VERY interested in the guy. Well, this is my theory anyway. Guys/girls alike can state whether this happens or not. I think it's all about games so in most cases, the girl will be insulted or feel she doesn't deserve such behavior. But, if the girl already really likes the guy and he's never behaved in such a way, there is a chance she might be intrigued what's going on but don't count on it. Games are best left to real sports. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/9/2007 7:39:59 PM | Do we like? We freaking love it. Don't call us when you say you are. Don't show up on time. Never answer you phone on the first call either. I love that. Makes me want you more and more. I will start to think about you all the time and then obsess. Pretty soon I will be driving by your house to see if you are home and who are you with. J/k...
If you like a girl call her, let her know she's special. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/10/2007 7:30:52 AM | | I have to say, OP I would be happy for you to ignore me. It would save me the time of playing any petty childish head games...Please ignore those you care about...do them the favor. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/27/2008 12:20:12 AM | Women are oh so good for the most part at the ignoring part! hahahaha. Or they give subtle signs then ignore, or the reverse.  But there is one thing that women do best and that's play games. Come on you know it's true!  | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/27/2008 12:29:43 AM | Ya Know, its stuff like this that confuses the heck out of me.
We are told that if a guy ignores us then "he's just not that into you", and I tend to believe that. After all, if a guy really likes you, he's gonna let it be known, and i'd want him to show it.
Now if he's doing it on purpose, what a stupid "F". sorry, had to go there. I know if a guy ignores me, i'm not sticking around.
All these stupid, idiotic games. Can't we just be straight with each other, this is getting ridiculous. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/27/2008 3:23:42 AM | | couldusecompany...dont belive everyting u read in a book. if a man should like me but shows no interests then he will lose me.i for one dont chase men. they either like me or they dont. the author of that book is not a very wise man. she wont feel left out and come after you. she will move on to someone else who does seem interested. men need to ask themself one question...would you wnat to be ignored? the things you read in books are based off that persons opinion..hence he is the author of the book. that does not make it true . the only difference between ur belief and his is you didnt write ur opinion in a book and he did. does not mean his opinion is correct. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/27/2008 4:31:34 AM | Absolutely not. Not knowing where I stand or how someone feels about me would have the opposite effect of making me retreat not chase.  | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/27/2008 6:21:42 AM | I am interested to know whether women prefer to be ignored by a guy rather have him show an interest?
^^^^I would rather like to know where I stand rather than be ignored, leaves me hanging, if that person decides to ignore me, he just lost the best thing to ever come into his life! Cause I won't contact him again. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/27/2008 9:54:34 AM | This is why women request " no games please "
IMO - If you ignore me , I will assume you're just not that into me , and lose interest myself. I would suggest if you like some-one, show interest, but don't smother them either. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/27/2008 10:27:52 AM | HAHAHAHAHAHA! Are you kidding? I HATE being ignored. In fact, many getting-to-know-you situations have been cut off immediately when this kind of thing started.
I like a man who's into me, and makes it very very clear. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/27/2008 10:31:42 AM | You know what's funny.. I love how men tell their buddies.. "Dude, girls LOVE ***holeS"... NO WE DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why would you even ask a silly question like that. We don't want to be ignored.. nor do we want to associate ourselves with an ***hole.
If I'm talking to someone on MSN or IRL, and they ignore me... obviously they aren't that into me to begin with.. and it's  for them! | |
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Posted: 4/27/2008 1:35:56 PM | | I'm sorry but this is so funny. lol. I mean come now! You girls are saying "No games!", but this is the exact reason I decided to take a nice long break from women. All the games...I had too much stuff I needed to accomplish to worry about what to DO and what NOT TO DO with the whole dating GAME. I love getting to know women through conversation and if that's not enough I push her to the side. Since sex has no primary role in my life anymore, the concept of conversation is where it's at for me! :-) Have a good rest of the weekend all! | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/27/2008 1:51:41 PM | | jazmella. "No, I do NOT like being ignored. If he keeps quiet, then I'll assume he's not interested and move on. It's that simple. I don't like games, and this sounds like one! Why can't we all just be upfront and honest about how we feel? I lost the ability to read minds a few days ago, unfortunately, or else maaaybe the ignoring thing would work. :-P " If only more women shared that attitude. Props. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/27/2008 1:53:19 PM | The "ignoring trick" is somewhat effective with me, but it can become a competition where I feel like I have to "ignore" a person longer than they've been "ignoring" me, and...well...it can stretch on beyond the limits of either person's attention span.
Effective or not, by and large, it's a silly tactic. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 2:31:28 AM | Do women like being ignored?
However women find guy who are uncertain of how he feels, they find this behaviour both sexy and mysterious until later in the relationship.
I am interested to know whether women prefer to be ignored by a guy rather have him show an interest?
Pffft...it'll only piss me off cos its just fricken stupid behavior...so if you piss me off by doing that, you end up losing my respect and if you lose my respect...forget it. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/28/2008 3:08:38 AM | I agree that it doesnt work at all. I read somewhere in a book that it supposidly creates mystery and causes girls to chase after you (same as not phoning them anymore) yet of course, it had NO EFFECT AT ALL.......In case your wondering where i got this silly advice (which i never believed in, i only did it to test the thoery scientifically) it was the same book which the other poster on page 1 had read. I know because it also said the same thing! Well, ive tried it for you and it its a no goer.
I suppose it can be effective if a girl is already interessted and may prolong the attraction slightyl, but it wont cause the girl to start liking you.
Besides, i dont think anyone wants someone to like them for their "approach", but for who they "are".
Just for the record the book was written by a Mr Simon Heong who claims to have got loads of girls liking him by following 28 specific methods. Well i can definatly say that hes seriously inaccurate with most (but admittadly not all: some of the sensible ones such as being more confident do work) of these methods. And to be honest even if they did work, i really dont see how knowing the girl of your dreams is with you simply because you played games is gonna make you happy, any less then it would if you knew she was just with you for your money, but obviously thats for him..... | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/28/2008 3:10:49 AM |
Do women like being ignored?
Okay, I know this sounds like a stupid question to ask
^^^^^^Yep.....you pretty well summed it up
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/28/2008 3:13:04 AM | | If I am being ignored, I assume he has lost interest and will better direct my interest elsewhere. | |
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| Do women like being ignored?
Posted: 4/28/2008 3:22:27 AM |
If I am being ignored, I assume he has lost interest and will better direct my interest elsewhere.
^^^Yup ...thats the bottom line cos he likely already has.
Except Marius...cos when he ignores me...I know he's only playing hard to get  | |
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