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Why you may ask....you have obviously answered your own question... is oral SEX cheating? You used the word sex to describe the act. Oral SEX, Oral SEX... get it... it is sex.
And of course it is deception. If you perform any type of sexual act on another person you have cheated. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 2:26:38 PM | Ya you can delete this, but i can tell you , for some of the men that have posted and got all Pissy about the question, and not all have.............if you were in a relationship and oral was offered to you, the chances of you refusing are slim, and there would be a justifying of the deed!!
Ask Bill! | |
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pinkk
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Msg: 28 | |
| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:30:28 PM | | HUH? oral sex IS cheating. This thread is a joke is it not? Why would someone give/receive if they were in a committed relationship? | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 2:33:51 PM | Crazygrl, No I wouldn't take the offer. Why? Are you offering? Justifications are just that... JUSTIFICATIONS!! It doesn't make it right. If I could vote for deletion again I would.
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:35:29 PM | Ok you three here are a little close midned arnt you...
There are "COMMITED" relationships that are "OPEN" if you have only been selectivly comprehending the posts in this thread. Open or Swinging relationships are becomeing more and more common this day in age... C'mon now... And im sure the OP doesnt wnat hate.. If you dont like the thread report it if you like. But really its not breaking any rules of the forums...
So yea... Cheers!
Added: Well said realdeal4u.. Loved the post. you words rang out like the 12 noon bells!
PS/. 3sums are acually qutie fun... exauhsting, but fun. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:39:10 PM | I don't like labels like cheating. The better question is how would I feel if I found out a girl I was with was doing that or wanted to do that with someone else.
I wouldn't like it. I'd have to walk. I wouldn't do that to somebody else, regardless of the label you put on it.
Besides, one girl can be tough enough to handle sometimes -- why would a guy want more than one. I'd go nuts.
Whether oral sex with someone besides your partner is okay generally -- or okay for somebody else -- that's their deal. I'm just interested in being me, and being happy. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:45:52 PM |
It is cheating, unless your Bill Clinton, and then it may or may not even be sexual.
FWIW - I think the Republicans and the Democrats are still divided on that issue.
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Posted: 2/15/2007 3:07:58 PM | Premise. You are in a RELATIONSHIP. You share everything. Oral sex- one of the most intimate of times you can spend with your PARTNER. Inviting a third person to share the moments spells disaster.
Excusing having sex with a third person because ‘he isn’t getting it in the marriage’, is a lame excuse.
Wow- this thread actually disgusts me!
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 3:10:45 PM | OH MY GOD!!!!! We actually need to enlighten you about whether or not this is infact infidelity???? Are you serious? No, this must be a joke. Where is Ashton Kutcher, I know I'm being 'PUNK'D'.
OF COURSE IT IS CHEATING!!!!!!!!! | |
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Sirpep
| | Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 35 | |
| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 3:20:57 PM | Really eh? PUNKED is right. Anything sexual ,oral whatever is cheating. No other words for it.
And just curious? why would you let another man touch you? | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 3:29:28 PM | I never once said I was doing it, ever! I am single, not dating not in a relationship!!!!
and I said "in a relationship", whatever that is to the individual.............each to there own!
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 4:05:40 PM | | oral sex, whether giving, or receiving is most definitely, 100 percent cheating! That's a no brainer!! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 4:08:15 PM |
The difference between a threesome and a sly slurrrp is that the threesome doesn't include deception.
If the sex is a secret - it's cheating.
If the sex is shared (either in fact, or verbally) with your partner - it's not.
fairly simple, isn't it?
I'd say this hits the nail squarely on the head. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 5:17:47 PM | OP.....you state that:
I have been in situations where the guy received and it was a pleasurable thing
and go on to say:
by the way, I am single and NOT looking for a boyfriend........so no sex, no cheating for me, it is only a question!
^^^^hey..you set the stage....and asked the questions..
Obviously, you wanted everyone to calmly agree that it was morally and ethically OK. Surprise!! Most people really want to find a loving exclusive partner!!
In my opinion, cheating is not akin to casual consentual sex between two unattached adults.....but if its the married/commited guy who is telling you that he isn't getting oral from his wife....or your partner telling you he needs a bit "more" outside the bed you share...forget about it!!!!!!!. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 5:32:40 PM | Having oral with someone else besides your SO is cheating. What the hell is wrong with you people? I can't believe why one would be fine with this. It sounds like you had an open relationship with this person which if that was the case is fine, but if it's not then it IS cheating. Just don't be shocked if you end up getting an STD and haven't figured out how or why you got it in the first place.
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 5:36:35 PM | This isn't in reference to oral sex, per se, but look at it this way:
Whatever you are doing...is your S.O. ok with you doing it in front of them? | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 6:21:49 PM | Are you Bill clinton in disguise?
After that incident it was written in the BOOK........as cheating and SEX!
P.S Flirting w/intent, kissing, etc. is cheating too. FYI | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 6:27:08 PM | Oral sex is still sex. Unless the other partner is aware and ok with it, oral sex is cheating.
Jenni
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Posted: 2/15/2007 6:29:09 PM | | I think if both parties are okay with this then no its not cheating but if your partner is in the dark about it, or knows and doesnt like it, then yes it is cheating. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 6:32:33 PM | | Of course it's cheating..goes without saying. Guess stating the obvious is fun...not sure. But...it's not enough to say..getting a lil on the side because I don't get it in my relationship.. the same would hold true for intercourse, and any other form of cheating wouldn't it? If something that huge is lacking in a relationship that you have to seek it elsewhere, then obviously the relationship isn't worth a damn to the one seeking it on the 'side'....It's only a matter of time before it all comes crashing down. People are only blind or oblivious for so long... | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 6:47:43 PM | Hell yes it's cheating, if my fella had another woman's lips around his manhood.
I'd rip his c0ck off and feed it to my cats.
And i'm pretty certain, if i had a fella, he wouldn't be pleased with another man giving me oral sex.
If he doesn't know about it, it's cheating, end of! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 7:08:45 PM | | Wow, this is a really long thread for something very simple: if it is outside the parameters of your relationship, its cheating! Now those parameters might be different for all of us, but you should discuss them with your partner. Some people on here think flirting is cheating, and if that is outside what the parties in the relationship have agreed to, it is! On the other hand, I have had, and indeed prefer open relationships... for me I would prefer a relationship where sex, oral or otherwise, is allowed... but do it without a condom and I'll have your balls! And, for me it is also cheating if a guy has a partner who isn't ok with what is going on, because I don't want to be placed in that situation. But those are the parameters I set, the limits I discuss with my partners. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 7:27:58 PM | | Myself, I would consider my SO giving/recieving oral as even more cheating, than an actual f*ck! | |
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