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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 7:53:59 PM | Tom, your answer is a bit confusing, but let that be as it may,
To the OP, this is obviously not a real question, just an attempt to stir the pot and see what comes to the top.
Guess I fell for it too.
In my opinion, while everyone's situation may be a little different, only a moron doesn't know if he/she is cheating at any given time. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 8:02:08 PM | | If a US Pres says it is not, it is not. If your SO looks like Hillary it cannot be. The PC is incredible here. What is stated in public is not what is found in the world. For a guy to turn down oral he would have to have been dead and buried. Dead may still be a 'yes', it is all that dirt to get through that will slow him down until the mood passes. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 8:05:02 PM | | Goliath36; What's confusing? I don't want my woman giving oral, then coming home to kiss me goodnight! If anything, I would prefer she had upped the p--sy. Either one makes her a cheatin' Ho, though! | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 8:11:00 PM |
Either one makes her a cheatin' Ho, though!
Tom, that was my point. I don't see how one is worse than the other. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 9:40:09 PM | sex is sex: oral or penetrative.
cheating is cheating
and I can't believe that some people out there would actually believe that having oral sex with someone who isn't their significant other isn't cheating. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 10:53:20 PM | And here I thought small "l" liberal values of the western democracies would show their colours. Where relativism, or even liberal interpretations of utilitarianism would be able to make their case.
crazeegyrl: If you are asking people for their individual opinions, it seems you are getting them. I guess someone will have to do the count if the results are going to be submitted to a news poll or something.
However, the problem I find with definitively answering this question, as well as the similar kissing thread, is that everything depends on the personal values of the people involved. That is the persons having oral sex, and the SO's of those people. The nice thing about relativism is, that if all the people are cool with what's going on, then cheating is a non-issue. If someone involved has a problem with it...then there will be problems. Easy peasy. Goes for kissing, oral, full intercourse sex, cyber, hairstyles, clothing choices, fetishes, money matters, childcare, social choices, speed limits, BDSM, religion, pub nights, etc. you name it. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 11:08:20 PM | If you live your life by other people's morals and allow them to repress you, the only person you are cheating is yourself.
The only thing you will have in the end that matters is your memories.....go create some! | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 11:16:28 PM | You just soon finish what you started because your already CHEATING | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 12:01:12 AM | absolutely not.
but then again Ive watched - quite happily - while a friend gave oral to my s/o  | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 12:32:55 AM | | if my S.O. even KISSES someone else in a romantic or intimate way, that's cheating. if you love me, really truly love me enough to want to spend forever with me, you won't even WANT to engaged in extra corricular activities with someone else! | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 1:19:09 AM | | I consider making out with someone else cheating, so YES...any kind of sex (be it oral or intercourse) is cheating. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 3:42:03 AM | Ask Bill Clinton!  He NEVER had sex with that girl.
Honestly, who cares? It's wonderful.......giving and receiveing. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 3:46:50 AM | I had a S/O once that didn't think it was cheating until i walked in to the room and seen her doing it to someone.
Needless to say she had a reflex action and a 2nd comming of breakfast. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 4:34:00 AM | well technically it is cheating only its up to the individuals to feel that cheated and also depends on the dynamics of the relationship they are in
humans are strange beings, being loyal and loving one time to be cheated on by someone whos been selfish and unkind and then become the cheaters themselves because they are bitter and twisted and because they cant take it out on the person that done that too them they take it out on the gender like that woman and that bloke who had aids and screwed as many men and women as they could to get back at the gender
most people if they knew they could get away with cheating will cheat but then they have to live with that everyday of their lives and face themselves in the mirror
whenever i fall in love with someone i give them uncondtional love that way nothing they do hurts because you gave them the freedom to choose between you to make up their own minds, make their own choices and you are free to walk away if you cant handle it your partner is not a possession or a play thing you don't own them
i guess what im saying is that when you love someone unconditionally theres no need for them to cheat on you and usually relationships have broken up from natural causes rather then applying pressure or making unreasonal demands which forces them to see someone else
even so there are some people who swap partners and sleep with each other too and are still able to have a healthy relationship
i guess thats what i ment by humans being strange beings.... | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 4:49:04 AM | Your not serious right? Dah no of course it's not cheating just ask Billl Clinton | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 4:52:07 AM | Most definitely! In my opinion it's a *lot* more intimate than regular sex. But you're saying as long as you're receiving it it's not cheating (on your part) but only if you're actively giving???
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 5:04:17 AM | anything sexual with out the other partners knowledge is cheating!!!
if you are in the swinger lifestyle together and you know what is going on ... that is all good!
But Oral, especially if your partner is not in agreement with it ... well that is cheating | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 5:48:23 AM |
Ok in my lil opinion...if you are suppose to be exclusive with one person...any touch with another persons tongue on any of your pink parts would deffinately be cheating...unless your partner at that time was there and agreed wholeheartedly of the same..jeesh | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 7:52:46 AM | Huh--- are you serious......??
YES this is cheating and not sure if you are just telling yourself it's not so you don't feel guilty for doing it. My god- what is happening to this world.
Any INTIMATE contact with someone other then your significant other is cheating no if ands or buts about it! | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 7:59:49 AM | | Like Bill Clinton said....."I did not have sex with THAT woman!!!!"....LOL...A minor technicality...Yes it's a sex act and yes it's cheating....Ask Hilary... | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:08:10 AM | | Yes it is lol, it is a sexual act is it not. Sex is a pleasure thing and oral sex as well as any other form of foreplay is cheating. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:11:44 AM | | oh my god... how could you possibly think it doesnt fall into the category of cheating? if you want an open relationship than thats up to you provided both know... but i dont know how you can call it anything other than cheating | |
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