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 WeatherGuy80

Joined: 10/11/2008
Msg: 801
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 8:28:24 AM
I would have to agree with misshoney31...any type of kissing, oral sex, intercourse is a form of cheating in any language from most women and guys. Giving yourself in that way to another being(whether bisexual, lesbian, homosexual, or straight) is cheating if the other partner doesn't know about it or isn't involved. Cheating is cheating....how else can we put this people?????
 isolated1

Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 802
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 8:55:01 AM
yes it is unless u and ur mate made some kind of agreement prior
 Kinda-tired

Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 803
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 9:37:11 AM
Simple way to tell if it's cheating. Would you be up front about it having some other woman give you a bj?
If the answer is no, then it's cheating.

If the answer is yes, and you get hit in the head with a frying pan, then it's still cheating.

If the answer is yes, and you girlfriend doesn't care, then she is blowing some other guy anyway so it doesn't matter in the end.
 Easy Read

Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 804
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 12:31:36 PM
Hmm, My understanding, as per American Pie, it is NOT cheating if you are not in the same zip code. Peace out...
 cjames909

Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 805
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 12:35:17 PM
Eating is cheating...Plain and simple....
 ngat73

Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 806
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 12:42:56 PM
What? Arggghh.
 rjncharlotte

Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 807
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 1:15:09 PM
my thoughts are as follows oral sex is sex, IS HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER CHEATING? , WHAT IS CHEATING? IS MASTERBATING CHEATING ?
 gcdeb

Joined: 7/25/2008
Msg: 808
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 1:34:29 PM
Any sexual/romantic/intimate relationship you have with another person, that you keep secret from your partner is cheating, IMO.

If my SO was texting/emailing/phoning another woman, and hiding that from me, I"d consider that cheating. It would certainly be on the dangerous path to consummating the cheating, but it's still cheating, in my books.

It's the decpetion that defines it.
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 1:42:15 PM
Um Yes! unless you are Bill Clinton then it may not be sexual at all.
 Huntington24

Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 810
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 1:44:21 PM
If your gettin pleasure from someone else, then yeah its cheating.
 JeremyWillLoveU24

Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 811
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/20/2008 3:55:20 PM
yes without question
 penitentnomore

Joined: 12/14/2008
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/20/2008 11:23:53 PM
I seriously can't believe that it's taken 33 pages of responses to answer this question.
 flamesfan87

Joined: 12/7/2008
Msg: 813
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/21/2008 12:19:43 AM
Umm...seriously? Of course it is.
 lightening51

Joined: 11/13/2008
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/21/2008 4:13:02 AM
I say yes...and, I think his wife would, too.

:)
 Octobersixty3

Joined: 7/27/2008
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/21/2008 5:20:49 AM
Anything sexual that you wouldn't normally do in the presence of your partner-and that you know they wouldn't approve of- is cheating.
PERIOD
 Winston Churchill

Joined: 4/2/2008
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:22:07 AM
Only if u swallow.
 Kixxie

Joined: 12/4/2008
Msg: 817
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:32:02 AM

Is oral sex cheating?


I can't believe this question even had to be asked. It's called oral SEX. So, if you're having oral SEX with someone else..........ummmm it's not rocket science! Yes.... it's cheating!
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:35:20 AM
Cheating is defined differently for each couple and their relationship.

To one couple cheating could be considered an emotional affair online or with a co worker. It could be kissing , touching , oral sex .

For another couple cheating could be having sex with the girl you had a 3some with without your wife knowing .

For others Polygamy is appropriate .

Cheating in a relationship is as vast as people are . Each relationship and person is different .
 sharksnack

Joined: 12/10/2008
Msg: 819
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 8:47:38 AM
I think oral sex is about as intimate as you get.

To proceed with oral sex with a third person is cheating.
 zingwentthestrings

Joined: 11/5/2007
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 2:16:47 PM
Ahhh, well, ahhh this is Bill Clinton here
ummm, ahh, could someone define cheating for me?
 cheryls place

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 821
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:05:44 PM
The Clinton Debate Continues Any sexual act with a person other than your spouse is cheating. I watched last year a poly graph show. Where Monica was one of the guests. She was asked the same questions, ANd she passed with flying colors.She was telling the truth. I have no tolerance for cheaters and god forbid, you play me and I find out you are really married. YOu may find your hands superglued to your penis. Try explaining that to your wife
 des_angel

Joined: 11/4/2008
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:18:30 PM
cheating is cheating.

That goes for emotional, light intimacy and sex acts.

I say go ahead and cheat on me. Go find a piece of ass better than mine. Go for it.

You might even get away with it. You might get some and never tell me and I never find out about it through other means. But, if you get away with it once, that doesn't mean you will again. Usually when a person gets away with it, they're gonna do it again. And one of these times, you will get caught.

You best believe that once I find out you're cheating on me, I'm gone. No more trust. No more sex. No more girlfriend. No more anything.

So... if you're gonna cheat on me, you better be good at it, and she better be worth it.
 stew_67

Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 823
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:26:59 PM
pmsl yes its cheating .can not believe that you think maybe its not .
 GuyNextDoor70

Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 824
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 9:55:05 PM
Sex outside the relationship is cheating unless its an open relationship and both parties are fully aware of the actions of the other.
 Dragon1960

Joined: 6/14/2007
Msg: 825
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 7:16:16 AM
If you are having sex of any kind with anyone other than your partner it's cheating. How stupid can you be?
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