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 Author Thread: Is oral sex cheating?
 dickwaad

Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 826
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 7:23:31 AM

I say NO, as long as you aren't giving it! I have been in situations where the guy received and it was a pleasurable thing and that was it!


You're profile name says it all...
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling

Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 827
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 7:44:30 AM
Yeah, but is it worth it to you to cheat in any sexual capacity? If so, go for it. But sometimes the significant other may not forgive you so easily.

Like take for instance... this NOT SAFE FOR WORK site dont-cheat dot com. Not for the faint of heart. The pictures are graphic. It's the aftermath of what happened to a man who cheated and she bit off his penis.

So cheat away, but when it comes to back bite you in the a$$ errrr penis, don't act like an innocent victim!


 REDDRAGON.

Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 828
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 7:49:51 AM

Is oral sex cheating?


well riddle me this .....

is masterbating cheating??
 LonestarStar

Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 829
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:15:56 AM

I have been in situations where the guy received and it was a pleasurable thing and that was it!


So, you have some sort of fetish for giving blow jobs to married men?
I'm thinking you should let their wives decide if it's "ok" or not, BEFORE you put on your ruby red d*ck-sucking lipstick.
Does the "other woman" ever really think what the man is doing is cheating?
Your moral compass needs some calibrating, my dear.
 compleat_man

Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 830
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:21:19 AM
^^


hahah.. Lonestarstar..direct & to the point! :) I like it..
 Sweet.sensation

Joined: 12/12/2007
Msg: 831
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 1:59:00 PM
I think cheating is something you wudnt want your partner to do with another person......i think each couple has there limits......

I wudnt want my Bf gettin head from some chick id prolly blow a gasket....i kno he wudnt want some guy givin me it so thats what i mean,
 graniteconco

Joined: 11/21/2008
Msg: 832
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Posted: 12/30/2008 2:20:13 PM
i think that the fact that there r people asking questons like this means that the meaning of love and comitment of relationships has gotten lost somewere
 graniteconco

Joined: 11/21/2008
Msg: 833
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Posted: 12/30/2008 2:22:49 PM
oh yeah what is a OPEN RELATIONSHIP??????? a free for all ?????????
 RedSox9

Joined: 12/6/2008
Msg: 834
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 2:23:38 PM
I had a client named Cheryl. Opposing counsel said she'd been with 11 different men during the marriage, and would use the adultery as leverage if we didn't settle. I had to inquire. Turns out hubby went out Thirsty Thursdays and Cheryl went out Fridays. As with most attractive women, she'd flirt and guys would buy her drinks and... turns out three of the guys in question were just friends since high school and NO and five of the guys were real cute and she waas real horny and YES but the other three were just guys who bought her and her girlfriends drinks all night and she kinda sorta felt she owed them something and ended up blowing them in the parking lot but that didn't count. Ergo, the Cheryl Rule: a blow job in the parking lot doesn't count.
 catkin2007

Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 835
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Posted: 12/30/2008 2:25:06 PM
Cheating is cheating - period. If you are in a committed/exclusive relationship with someone and experience sexual gratification from someone other than that partner, you are cheating.... period.
 Ricci_baby

Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 836
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 4:25:36 PM
Is oral sex cheating?....Is that like smoking pot and not inhaling?

lol...just asking.
 Julya13

Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 837
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 4:32:12 PM
I see it this way...If there emotion involved, even for a second its cheating. Damn even holding hands. I know I am going to get a lot of $hit for this one, but think about it, even if you are interested in the slightest and you are with someone else other than that person. Its cheating, because if your mind has thought it you have already done it. If you are in a serious relationship you shouldn't want anyone other than your partner to do that too you. If they are shy or a prude and don't want to do that, maybe you should balance the pros and cons to your relationship and rethink it.

Julya
 Qrah

Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 838
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Posted: 12/30/2008 4:48:16 PM
is oral sex, sex??

if it's sex, and if its with someone other than your partner, then its cheating...
 Sure,Not

Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 839
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 6:01:04 AM
this is the single most retarded question i have ever seen...And some of the answers are just as retarded...

Oral sex is GREAT to give and sometimes great to recieve.. is it cheating... YES not because its a
form of sex
but because its a betrayal of trust!!
The only way it would be not cheating is if you and your spouce/bf/gf whatever, agree to another personal involvment. And then it wouldn't matter, sex or other wise, as long as your partner is knowing and agreable. And at that folks in such open relationships still do not want their partner to become emotionaly involved with others.. usualy.. But I guess there are those who want group type marrage too so ya ok....
But anyway, Nobody should have to ask such a question nor humble it with an answer but geesh... Don't people learn these things in life as they grow up???

Otherwise sex or other intamacies, that are reserved for love relationships, is CHEATING!!!!
 BlondE324

Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 840
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Posted: 12/31/2008 7:22:59 AM
Oral sex is DEFINITELY cheating. No ifs, ands, or buts.
 BlondeLady09

Joined: 12/24/2008
Msg: 841
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 7:48:47 AM
Had to laugh at that question, sorry. Of course!!!
 cfb62

Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 842
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 9:21:12 AM
Yes and WTF... is this some question on an entrance exam at Bill Clinton U?
 dickwaad

Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 843
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 10:48:18 AM

Yes and WTF... is this some question on an entrance exam at Bill Clinton U?



LOL!!
 HSJS

Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 844
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 1:16:22 PM

is this some question on an entrance exam at Bill Clinton U?


 VictorianRose

Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 845
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 3:30:01 PM
I say yes. What would you think if your man was having oral sex with another woman? Wouldn't you be hurt, isn't that a form of sex. What about going to the movies or something with another woman? Any kind of intimate behavior is meant to be between a couple, if you even question this then maybe you shouldn't even be in a relationship. Sorry, but you wanted an honest responce.
 tlm92

Joined: 4/5/2008
Msg: 846
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 5:28:18 PM
Are you kidding????
Of course it's cheating....why on god's green earth would you think not?
 blondago56

Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 847
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Posted: 1/1/2009 12:25:41 PM
Msg. 837.... that is a distgustingly through-the-legal-defense-argued justification....
"she kinda sorta felt she Owed them something"? How about 'THANK YOU' ? Would the Above Said Blowjob not count in The Parking Lot if it was YOUR 'lady' giving it to someone else? Tables (or Mouths) turned, Yes, it IS 'cheating'......
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 848
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/1/2009 4:51:49 PM
Is oral sex cheating?

Ya know this question is really common sense. It shouldnt have to even be asked. In all honestly it is about the dumbest question I have ever seen asked in the threads. I am completely impressed it has went 34 pages. it shouldnt have went past page 2. If anyone does not know the asnwer to this then let ur partner do oral on somene else and see if you like it when you find out. I bet you will then be able to asnwer this question all by yourself.
 Sure,Not

Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 849
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/1/2009 11:42:01 PM
This is the most stupid and redundant thread I have ever seen. It is absolutley pointless.

If you don't know what is cheating then your an absolute ideot!!!
 karmadarma

Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 850
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/2/2009 7:15:11 AM
I have to agree with that last post, of course it is wtf are you thinking. I dump that Clinton and save the dress.
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