| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/2/2009 7:36:10 AM | | i don't think a threesome is cheating if your partner is involved in the threesome, and i don't think any sex is cheating if you tell your partner what your doing, oh and how do i find this women that thinks the same as me?? | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/2/2009 8:24:26 AM |
If you don't know what is cheating then your an absolute ideot!!!
And here, I though an idiot was one who spelled it "ideot."
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/7/2009 8:40:04 AM | | Loved your answer............dont know how many times I have heard the Clinton reference....LOL | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/7/2009 8:54:19 AM | *****
OP, yes it is cheating. Would you want another guy to give me oral if i were your girl?
it would't bother you at all?
also, i was married for seven years and that was part of it, didn't go away with marriage | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/7/2009 9:20:46 AM | And here, I though an idiot was one who spelled it "ideot."
We all make typo's . but sure,not's post was true . is oral sex cheating is really a ridiculous question. You would almost have to be brain dead to not know its cheating no matter how you look at it. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/7/2009 2:34:12 PM | Wow, i definetly think oral sex is ch eating if its done behind someones back.
I dont see how it wouldnt be! | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/7/2009 2:45:17 PM | | Of course, not! How can it be cheating any more than hugging someone would be? You don't risk pregnacy with oral sex. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/8/2009 6:45:15 AM | There is a guy who started a thread about himself here titled - "self sucking" ..
Sex and Dating > self sucking
Is he cheating?
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/8/2009 7:02:08 AM | There is a guy who started a thread about himself here titled - "self sucking" ..
Sex and Dating > self sucking
Is he cheating?
No becuase there is no other person involved. However he must be triple jointed and very lucky to be able to suck himself. I have never heard of anyone who can do that. He found a diff way to masterbate. but as long as a male/female is not helping him outside of his own partner he is not cheating. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/8/2009 9:34:03 AM | Arnold Schwarzenegger himself says:
"eating is not cheating".. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/8/2009 9:55:54 AM | To each his/her own...
But I believe if you are receiving from someone, or giving any stimulation to someone, that goes beyond friendship and innocence, it's cheating.
Example: Foot and or back massage versus hand job or oral.
Two could be innocent and friendly, two are clearly not innocent or just friendly!!
Many may not agree, or many may. I have no idea.
Frankly, I'm amazed these days what is NOT considered cheating.
Text I consider cheating. Depending upon what is typed, and the feelings and thoughts of the sender and receiver.
Why the hell should you go to someone else for oral stimulation when you're in a relationship? UNLESS it's an open relationship, I guess it'd be acceptable, but wow. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/9/2009 5:44:46 PM | my fav quote
inspired by bill cliton
it's only cheating if you swallow | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/12/2009 12:13:45 PM | | i think any girl who even thinks about sex with another guy is considered cheating | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/12/2009 12:41:06 PM | | Cheating to me is "not telling your partner (when you know you should)". It doesn't matter if it's sex, oral sex, holding hands, or crying on someone's shoulder. If you did it and want to hide it you are cheating. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/17/2009 11:49:57 AM | | Oral sex is a sex act... Um, DUH! Would you want your wife or husband to do it, with somebody while they were dating/married to you? Or how about your daughter. If your cool with that, then hey I guess it aint, huh? It's sex. Unless of course your firing blanks. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/17/2009 12:12:18 PM | These days people have all kinds of notions about what a "relationship" is. I figure that if you can imagine catching your significant other either giving or receiving oral sex to another person, would you feel hurt? Betrayed? If the answer is "yes", then yes, it's cheating. Although I can't imagine very many people that wouldn't be. Well, that's what I think, anyway.  | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/17/2009 12:17:54 PM | | If I'm in ,what I am to believe is a monogamous relationship, ANY contact with a person's genitals, other than my partners is cheating. PERIOD. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/17/2009 12:27:19 PM | | Hmmmm...It all depends on what the meaning of "IS" is.... | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/17/2009 12:36:28 PM | I say if a guy or a girl is having oral sex with someone which isn't their spouses its cheating. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/17/2009 12:49:57 PM | Yes, oral sex with someone else, outside of your immediate relationship is cheating. How do people not know this? If you are physically intimate with anyone, on any level outside of your relationship, it's cheating, period. I' m amazed at how people justify this as ok, by saying "well, I'm not giving it, so technically it's not cheating." To those people I say, you must be quit delusional then. Because if you're naked from the waste down with someone else other then your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, that's CHEATING.
If you're in an "open" marriage/relationship or you're a swinger, and your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend is ok/aware of it, or participating in it as well, that's different. But if you're keeping it a secret from them, then clearly, it's NOT ok to them for you to do.
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2009 7:07:43 AM | | LOL do you really have to ask???? kissing and above is cheating i feel. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2009 7:28:42 AM | If you put someone's genitals near your mouth, how is that not sexual?
If fantasising about someone is cheating, oral sex definitely is too.
Is that fair? | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2009 8:10:35 AM | | Are you kidding? Did you really ask that question? :) If you are in a committed relationship, married or not and you have sex of any kind that is cheating. Yes, oral is cheating. That is an intimate act that (my opinion) ............. well it is sex not matter how you look at it. If you are connecting physically and sometimes even emotionally, really connecting is cheating and if you are putting yourself in that situtation you need to look at what you are doing and what you want in life. Some people are not good at communication with each other. Work on that and the rest just might follow. Be honest in your own life. If it hurts the other person you need to evaluate what is going on. Just me. Then again, define your own relationship and do that with the one you are in "the relationship" with. That friends is what counts. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2009 8:14:47 AM | OP:
Of course is it cheating if one or both of the participants, have significant others...
Any kind of sex action is. Cheating hurts b/f , g/f ,husbands and wives. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2009 8:19:14 AM |
If you are in a committed relationship, married or not and you have sex of any kind that is cheating.
Wow, sex within a commited relationship is cheating? Now that's extreme! 
Sexual contact with a third party is cheating if your relationship has an expectation - implicit or explicit - of fidelity. I would even say that developing an emotional connection with a third party that interferes with or replaces an emotional connection with your partner is also cheating, in that it deprives your partner of something they have a right to expect. | |
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