| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2009 8:20:42 AM | Cheating isn't defined by what you want it to be or what others tell you it is. Cheating is defined by your partner plain and simple. Even if his/her definition seems unreasonable, if it's cheating to him/her then it's cheating.
If you have disagreements with your partner on what is cheating or their definition is too unreasonable to abide, you may have a compatibility issue in the relationship and should end it. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2009 9:31:37 AM | Ya what he ^^^^ said.
However if there is a "rules committee" I would suggest we
make the oral thing legal. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2009 9:54:39 AM | | If you feel you have to lie about it then it is cheating. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2009 3:07:32 PM | Oral sex is cheating....whether receiving or giving. I would not want a woman I am in a relationship with receiving oral sex from some other guy. WTH?? If the relationship is open then that is understandable.
It seems you are looking for people to validate your cheating as being ok. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2009 3:42:10 PM | Just a test to help out in future if it arises again,pretend your s/o is there with you would you do it then? If not then it may be cheating.
Of course you have different levels of morality in different relationships .
However if your s/o dont mind then go for it.If asked ahead of time Id wagger most s/o's wouldnt appreciate it. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/26/2009 8:19:18 AM | Any act that your partner considers unfaithful is cheating.
It is funny because when I was 20 I dated a girl who I confronted about a blow (&. She had given to another guy and was drunk at a party. She did not consider it cheating because it was oral and she was drunk.
Needless to say before I broke up with her I had sex with her friend, who was always hitting on me. I had no problem telling her that I did this because at this point in our relationship I did not consider it cheating, but she did.
I wonder if someone thinks something is not cheating why would they not just tell their partner they are doing it. It is simply a cop out. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/26/2009 8:35:03 AM | | I think if you engage in any sexual activity with a person who is not your partner/spouse and you and your partner are in the relationship on the basis you will both be exclusively faithful to each other, then any sexual activity done with a third party to the relationship is cheating regardless of who is the giver/receiver or who initiates the act. If you and your partner consent to the act with a third party though, I don't think there is any cheating. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/26/2009 10:03:59 AM | unless you are Bill Clinton
oral sex is cheating because it can also lead to vaginal intercourse.
any type of sex is cheating except for dryhumping.
get real any kind of contact behind the back of your mate is cheating ...even kissing ...flirting and dry humping | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/26/2009 10:13:25 AM | Oral sex or any kind of sex is only in the mind of those cheating or being cheated on. So if you can do it and not think about it while doing it its not cheating.
And don't ask me anything else as I'm just going to stick to my story... | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/26/2009 4:25:25 PM | In my personal opinion, oral sex, manual sex, kissing ect all are cheating if you are in a committed monogamous relationship and your partner has not consented to you doing these activities with another person.
I really do try to live by the only code that matters to me, and that is do unto others as you would have others do onto you.
Being in a long term relationship that has become stale is no excuse to cheat. Spice it up.
Try something new, or somewhere new, or role play or whatever it takes to get the funk back.
Do not cheat!!! Oh and I firmly believe once a cheater always a cheater. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/26/2009 5:06:37 PM |
Absolutely it's cheating! Are you kidding me?! What an insane question!
And for those of you who are clueless, fingering is cheating, and a hand job is cheating, and fondling a woman's breasts is cheating, grabbing a woman's ass is cheating, and kissing is cheating.
Have we as a society become so morally depraved we can't recognize what it is to be faithful in a relationship?
If your woman won't give you head, why don't you ask her what she thinks? You already know the answer. I think you are just trying to justify seeking satisfaction elsewhere by listening to anyone who might say NO WAY, go ahead, have fun. You probably thought Bill Clinton was a genius when he said it all depends on what the meaning of "is" is. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/26/2009 7:11:07 PM | "I say NO, as long as you aren't giving it! I have been in situations where the guy received and it was a pleasurable thing and that was it!"
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Isn't that a contradiction? | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/27/2009 5:43:27 AM | oral sex isnt cheating.................................... if your doing it on yourself!
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/27/2009 6:08:14 AM | hhhahhahahahahahahahhaaaaha
Nice thread...
And a airline stewardness says put this over your mouth and nose and breathe normally.
BTW if I had a GF who was getting off with some dude orally there would be serious issues... Like, she is NOT a GF anylonger lol??? Is this a real question? | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/27/2009 8:04:20 AM | cheating is determined by the rules set up in each individual relationship. In some relationships being on a site like this is cheating...I have been in relationships where in his world chatting to guy friends is cheating....I have also been in relationships where 3somes and intense swinging were not cheating.
That being said if your surprised she was giving a dude head then its probably cheating...if you are hurt because he met a girl and had sex with her...well chances are your relationship doesnt have rules about being open to extra partners. You and your partner know if its cheating...we have no idea what you guys agreed to. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/29/2009 1:51:02 PM | Ah I just love it when someone is looking for approval of something they know is wrong. 
If you are in a relationship you should focus on that person not be asking whether giving or receiving oral sex is cheating.
So does that mean if I have anal sex its not cheating since its not really intercourse | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/29/2009 3:28:11 PM |
He comes home from work..."Hi honey, how was your day?" She: "Great! Suzie learned her backflip in gymnastics; Ed stopped by for a blow job; and after that I went shopping for mother's birthday...How was your day sweetheart? Give me a kiss." Him: "Let me wash up first sweetie; I've been going down on the new secretary." What's wrong with this picture?
LMAO, the funniest thing I've read all day!
OT
Oh my, yes. It is most definitely cheating. | |
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| Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/29/2009 3:28:41 PM |
He comes home from work..."Hi honey, how was your day?" She: "Great! Suzie learned her backflip in gymnastics; Ed stopped by for a blow job; and after that I went shopping for mother's birthday...How was your day sweetheart? Give me a kiss." Him: "Let me wash up first sweetie; I've been going down on the new secretary." What's wrong with this picture?
LMAO, the funniest thing I've read all day!
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Oh my, yes. It is most definitely cheating. | |
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