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 Scorpion_girl

Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 76
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 9:50:02 AM
Omg of course it is.. any form of sex with another person while with someone is cheating...
 oneofthefishes

Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 77
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 9:52:48 AM
I say if you don't want your partner to do the same, then yes it is cheating
But if you're okay with your partner getting it somewhere else, then no it isn't cheating.
I say to each their own...
 argfin

Joined: 7/31/2006
Msg: 78
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 10:31:51 AM
"I did not have sexual relations with that woman"

Yeah, right oh, Billie.

Course it is, der.
 Charlie Shift

Joined: 12/5/2006
Msg: 79
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 12:04:03 PM
Yes. If you're giving it or getting it and you're married to/with someone else, yes, it's cheating.
 tyson 7899

Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 80
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 5:32:49 PM
Is this a serious question? lol
 pedub

Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 81
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 6:04:13 PM
Is oral cheating. YES it is if your spouse is unaware of the situation my wife and I have been in the swinging life style for over 15 years, The Foundation of the life style is HONASTY with your spouse!
We have shard and enjoyed the pleasure of other sex partners but NEVER once with out the others knowledge.
Pedub
 JerryInTampa

Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 82
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 6:49:22 PM
Engaging in any behavior that you and your partner had agreed, by assertion or inference, would be exclusive is cheating.

If you two said "I won't hold hands with anyone else" than holding hands is cheating. If you two said "have sex with whomever you want" then having sex with other people is not cheating.

It's just like any game. You are cheating if you break the rules. What were the rules to your relationship?
 maryp1210

Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 83
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 7:16:15 PM
If you are in a relationship, you should first have enough respect for not only yourself but your partner not to stray. By that I mean, oral sex is cheating. any type of touching in any type of sexual way is cheating.
You may disagree but that's just what I believe
 garygary69

Joined: 1/14/2007
Msg: 84
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 7:39:19 PM
This is a stupid post/question. OF COUSE oral sex is cheating!!!!!
 Sefra

Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 85
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 7:59:32 PM
What kind of a woman in her right mind would perform fellatio on a man that is NOT committed to her?

I mean really... how disgusting.
 Anti*Hero

Joined: 12/4/2005
Msg: 86
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:15:43 PM
ummmm.... Yes...

Im not into sharing or having my SO share without me knowing...
 Pancake Mix?

Joined: 2/9/2007
Msg: 87
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:42:26 PM
Not to sound like a prude but if I come off that way so be it. I've done many things in my life, good and bad but in my personal opinion, any intimate act with another that you feel you have to hide from your partner is cheating.

That starts and continues on through every step of an intimate moment.

A secretive relationship where you are telling someone your most personal fears and desires or things about you that you hide from you S/O is emotional cheating.

A passionate kiss that you feel might upset your S/O is just as bad.

Moral of the story, if you have something to his on any level you are cheating.
 blondago56

Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 88
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:44:53 PM
i agree sefra...^^^...how sad... just because the "guy is recieving and its a pleasurable thing"...DUH... how we tend to justify things we want to do.... ~it doesnt matter WHAT orifice a man's c*ck goes into, you are the cheater or the enabler~ hugs to all...
 Sirowen

Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 89
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:56:01 PM
YES, if kissing is cheating, then oral is definetly cheating
 Ron9

Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 90
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:58:06 PM
"Is oral sex cheating?"

Nope - not if the guy is over 55 years old. It is part of the Sr. Citizen's Benefits bill of 2007.

You can also flash guys over 55 years old without getting *busted* for it. If a cop sees the flash - the Sr. Citzen needs to show his ID and the girl is thanked by the cop for doing her civic duties.
 BuzWeaver

Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 91
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 9:23:38 PM
Its intent and a reflection of the will oral sex isn't an accident.
 cassie2007

Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 92
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 10:31:42 PM
As long as it is with your significant other, no. With anyone else while you have a significant other...OF COURSE IT IS! It's sex isn't it? You are doing it with someone else, right? Bill Clinton messed up our heads! Just because Hillary didn't care doesn't make it not cheating!
 Thattallguy

Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 93
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/16/2007 10:37:17 PM
If you have to ask 'Is it cheating?', then most likely IT IS cheating.
 medicgirl911

Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 94
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 1:51:11 AM
OMG... this is just crazy!! hell ya its cheating! its oral SEX.. and SEX is cheating.. being intimate with someone is cheating.

Now.. I do have a friend who refuses to give her man oral sex... (sick girl I know!!) and she wants it in return all the time so she feels bad and has told her husband he can go get oral sex elsewhere and SHE is ok with it cause she REFUSES to do it herself. To each their own ... but it would NEVER be okay with me for my man to go elsewhere for anything!!!!!
 patricia694972

Joined: 7/21/2006
Msg: 95
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 2:11:17 AM
i think its worse, if i was dating someone and found out he was doing that i`d chop his d... off.
 bevans

Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 96
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 5:16:37 AM
Yes, it's cheating... Would you stick your cack in your sisters mouth or have your dad go down on you. Hell no, because it's wrong; because it's sex. Having sex while your in a monogamous relationship is cheating. Even a handy is cheating. No matter how you try to justify it in your own manipulative little way; it's cheating.

 ~curlygirl~

Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 97
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 6:33:04 AM
h*ll ya it is! anything beyond platonic friendship is cheating. sure, it's normal to daydream or flirt a little maybe...but the moment a person takes anything onto a physical level (from kissing/touching to hardcore sex) it's cheating. if someone makes excuses otherwise, they're just trying to deflect their own guilt and personal responsibility. if a person can't commit to an exclusive relationship, they shouldn't get into one...or get out of the one they're in before playing around with another person's emotions. people who cheat and play games like this are just being selfish.
 Mia828

Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 98
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 6:39:51 AM
In my opinion it is cheating. Those guys that claim are not getting head [oral] in marriage are lying. Let's face it they don't care how they get it as long as they get it.
I see it this way, if they were getting it before the marriage then their going to be getting it afterwards. In some cases even more then before. You'll be suprise what married people love to over share with us singles.
 wifeymaterial35

Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 99
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 6:42:17 AM

I say NO, as long as you aren't giving it! I have been in situations where the guy received and it was a pleasurable thing and that was it!


nah cause not...the fact that your girl has her mouth attached to another guys d**k or a your man has his legs firmly lodged between another females legs cant be cheating : /

duhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

i dont know why i even took the time to comment on this stupidity

wifey
 Phrygian

Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 100
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 7:57:39 AM
If I saw a girlfriend of mine suckin off some other guy....some heads would be flying.
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