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 BlueeyedBabe

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 101
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 8:02:11 AM
Remember op to have the dress dry cleaned okay!!!!! Heavens to murgatroy

No need for people to find a dress with stains on it.......Ya know what I mean?
 Bwitching_Bella

Joined: 12/11/2006
Msg: 102
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 8:15:19 AM
Just curious did you miss all the coverage on The whole...
Bill Clinton ...Monica Lewinsky thing?

If they tell a president oral is sex...
and sex is cheating ..no matter where the man ejaculates i.e. vagina..mouth.. hand or dress

Bella
 KIKNBAK

Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 103
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 9:02:08 AM
Everyone should read your response, you hit the nail on the "head" LOL!!
 michaels_girl

Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 104
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 9:17:24 AM
100% YES IT IS CHEATING>

No matter how you look at it - oral sex IS sex and it IS still cheating. If there is any kind of intimacy between 2 (or more) people when any one of them is in a relationship - then it IS considered cheating.

As for an earlier post. Someone said that if a man wasn't getting it from his wife then it wasn't considered cheating if he got it elsewhere? WTF is that?????? Have you ever heard of communication????? If that is what you are into then tell the other person. I'm sure if your wife loves you she will perform for you. Even women who HATE giving oral will still do so occasionally to please their man. And really you shoulda known this before you got married. If it is that big of a deal for you then maybe you shouldn't have married here in the first place.
 vahbsc

Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 105
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 10:01:22 AM
getting naked in front of someone who isn't a 2 month old baby is cheating, so oral is
 xXLosingFaithXx

Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 106
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 2:18:48 PM
yes...............................

yes......this is a dumb question.
 bella vista

Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 107
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 5:28:11 PM
Is oral sex CHEATING? HELL YES!
 000firefighter

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 108
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 5:34:09 PM
A guy at work brought this very subject up ,,his opinion was.... ORAL was not cheating,,,so I said to him...so its ok if I go down on your wife,,,he shut up pretty quick...
 Confident-Realist

Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 109
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 6:10:39 PM
crazeegyrl (OP),

I think you posted the message to see if anyone had any wacky responses. Seriously... getting a blowjob is cheating. Cheating isn't about certain physical "technicalities", etc. It's about giving yourself to someone else (making out, going out on dates, etc) or genuinely persuing someone else romantically. It's all the same as sex.

I'd rather have a wife on some drunken crazy one-in-a-millenium-but-still-no-excuse regretably sleep with a guy on a vacation with the girls during a horrible period of the relationship, than be with a woman who was dating but not "going too far" physically someone else. Hands down.
 stangsnthangs

Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 110
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 6:22:43 PM
Umm, Duh??

Anytime your SO is spending time with another woman, secretly, it's cheating. I don't care WHAT you are doing, if it needs to be a secret, it's cheating.
 CHUBBY CHICK

Joined: 2/8/2007
Msg: 111
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 6:29:00 PM
Yes..............................
 lyinggame

Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 112
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/17/2007 6:30:36 PM
Key word in Oral Sex is "SEX".
Yes it is cheatign because it is intended to receiev or give sexual pleasure that is not direct to or from your partner. Cheat cheat cheat cheat.

What a stupid question...
 blast3r

Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 113
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/18/2007 3:54:20 AM
If you are being totally honest with each other and both think it is okay it isn't cheating. If you have any kind of sex with another person without it being okay with your partner it is cheating. The type of sex doesn't matter.
 random97

Joined: 9/26/2006
Msg: 114
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Posted: 2/18/2007 6:13:24 AM
Here's your true answer...

It's not a matter of is it cheating to others or you - is it cheating to your significant other?
That's what you need to find out. To me, if my girlfriend performed oral sex on another guy or girl, it would be cheating. That's my feeling on the subject as it relates to my significant other.

However, if she told me about it... told me why... and the reason was logical (to me) then I might be okay with it. However (again) it's not up to you per se. It's up to the one you may or may not be cheating on.

My two cents.
 swimmerchick

Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 115
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/18/2007 8:13:45 AM
I did not have any sexual relations with that woman ! (errr.. hmm.. I mean "guy") ...LOL!
 misskk

Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 116
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Posted: 2/18/2007 8:24:42 AM


Like most guys say that when they get married that part of the relationship (oral) is not happening.................


Just a ploy by men to get stupid women to blow them. Why do girls fall for that crap?

And yes its cheating.
 callman

Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 117
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Posted: 2/18/2007 8:55:04 AM
what difference does it make, whether its cheating or not, i mean, as far as i am aware everyone is at it these days, can't trust anyone.. xx
 looking4princecharming

Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 118
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/18/2007 9:02:30 AM
It sure is...i broke up with my ex because he decided to stick his candle in someone elses mouth...
 junkyard

Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 119
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/18/2007 10:52:35 AM
Hell yes !

" Honey , I love you....really I do. "is it ok if I put strange****in my mouth" ?
 junkyard

Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 120
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/18/2007 10:56:28 AM
Hey random97 !

I didn't realise there was a "LOGICAL" reason for blowing an other man .


Thats funny.
 Anchises

Joined: 2/14/2007
Msg: 121
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/18/2007 10:58:31 AM
IMHO, any form of intimate sexual/romantic play or touch is cheating.
 Fall Line

Joined: 1/8/2007
Msg: 122
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/18/2007 12:14:09 PM
Cheating is doing anything with someone that you wouldn't want you're signifigant other to find out about.
 Scryer41

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 123
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/18/2007 1:12:48 PM
I won't be rude to you. But here's my answer. If you're in a relationship with one person and you give oral pleasure to someone else, then yes, it is cheating and it shouldn't be done.
 Dany1180

Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 124
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/18/2007 2:21:46 PM
Is this a serious question?
 grahamrawlings

Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 125
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/18/2007 2:58:01 PM
Yes it is if your with another person any kind of sex is cheating when its behind your partners back.
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