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 MDNinja

Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 26
Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/17/2007 8:47:59 AM

mind says no to her and my heart says another


You are listening to to many body parts. You need to pick a side. And if listen to your hart in this instance, then you are picking the wrong side, my friend. You need to listen to your brain, and heaven forbid your penis as well. It sounds like he is getting lonely and could use a helping hand.
 teebo7

Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 27
Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/17/2007 9:26:12 AM
True you don't know her, but she doesn't have friends(except ex boyfriends) an i do have a great time with her but, someone else deserves the best of me. Someone who can take my bad with all my good qualities!
 teebo7

Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 28
Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/17/2007 9:27:00 AM
not necessarily lonely as to getting use to not spending 95% of my time with someone.....it's getting better!
 teebo7

Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 29
 Reddwine

Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 30
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Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/17/2007 9:45:57 AM
.....shes just not that into you
 lostsoul58

Joined: 6/21/2005
Msg: 31
Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/17/2007 9:53:54 AM
Hello

Maybe things just went to fast before you got to know each other.If you had of taken the time and gone slower,maybe you would have just been good friends. And not anything else. Maybe she feels a friendship bond.So now you can both move on meet other people and see how strong the friendship stays.Or if you will both mover on when that other person comes along.It was only 6 months.
 bella1968

Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 32
Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/22/2007 7:19:17 PM
Seriously!? It is just bad news for you. When you decide that you deserve better you will hear what you need to hear, until then you will remain her cat toy. Based on her past relationships and the major red flag "she has no friends" yikes.... walk away.
 pujakama

Joined: 6/12/2006
Msg: 33
Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/22/2007 7:32:08 PM
The old "freinds" line... this means "I dont want you, but it will be easier on me if we have our seperation more slow than you simply disappearring" This, however, will NOT be more easy on YOU. It will be hard to lose her, yes, but it will be more of a pain to lose her bit by bit as you hang on and be her friend while she finds a new man. If she is not your lover any longer you owe her no obligation to make the breakup easy for her.

Erase yourself from her life, focus on your own life. No calls, no visits, no nothin! As the title of this website suggests... there are plenty of fish in the sea, worry not over the one that got away.

J
 TSOMattlock

Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 34
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Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/22/2007 7:32:11 PM
Sure you can be friends. wait til you tell her she is to split the bills as friends do. She'll either not want to do those things or come on board. I thinks it's great to be friends after lovers, If you did it right in the beginning you were friends first. So no issue with stepping abck a few, But remember, friends carry their weight as well.
F.
 TSOMattlock

Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 35
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Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/22/2007 7:33:55 PM
That may be true but she is into herself. Cut the cord of she will not do what friends do. There is no such thing as a free ride Cash, grass or As_ No body rides for free.
F.
 TSOMattlock

Joined: 9/16/2005
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Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/22/2007 7:36:11 PM
Truer words have seldon been spoke. If she wants to be that friend she has to be that friend. No cutting corners getting and not giving. You got to play your position to be in the game.
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 carebear316

Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 37
Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying?
Posted: 2/22/2007 7:52:04 PM
Thats gotta be the worse thing any girl can say to a guy "I dont like you like that I like you only as a friend". Ive got enough frickin friends and they dont make me feel the way she just does by ripping out my heart and stomping on it. Someone said it before so many selfish women out there want their cake and eat it too. She will meet this great new guy and hopes you all can be friends. She doesnt care about anything but her own little world. I hate to say it but just cut her loose. It hurts like hell but time does heal all wounds. Surround yourself with real friends that make you happy or take part in things that bring you pleasure, Before you know it you will meet someone who will make you forget all about it. Goodluck!!:))
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