| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 7/27/2007 2:40:08 AM |
As you've gotten older, is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship? Do the kisses you receive from the opposite sex today seem to have the same passion, intensity and sensitivity as the kisses you remember from your teenage years?
Ooooh.. Just because we have gotten older doesn't take away the same feelings that I had back then. Matter of fact.. we should be experts at it now! I love mad, passionate long kisses...intense as it can get... and then some!
Nothing has changed for the worse. It has only gotten better as far as I am concerned.
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 7/27/2007 6:18:01 AM | Okay everyone. What is your idea of a good kisser? I am curious to see what people say. I will start. A good kisser to me does not jump on my face like a leach. A good kiss is slow and soft and gentle and sensuos. Not jamming the tongue down your throat for a tonsilectomy lol. A good kiss is a dance of two peoples tongues meeting each other and softly moving in such a way to make the person want to come back for more. No slobbering all over my face. Or trying to fit my mouth and lips inside your mouth. I don't want to be sucked up like a vacuum. lol. Thats not kissing thats devouring the person. Not sensual at all. I dated a man who kissed like I have never been kissed before. I tend to base my kisses on how well he kissed and no one seems to measure up. All the men I have dated kiss like their trying to clean your face at the same time and just do the same thing over and over with the tongue. I need variaty and sentuality lol. Am I picky or what??? | |
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 7/27/2007 6:49:03 AM | I believe the two greatest forms of foreplay are dancing and kissing. Nothing get's me in the mood more so than dancing with my partner, holding her and looking into her eue. I reaaly enjoy gazing into a woman's eyes and see the warms and hopfully the desire building.
Then kissing. I am a tender guy...I like to kiss tenderly, a former partner complained that i wasn't rough enough. Hope she enjoys her caveman!!..lol. But gentle kisses thoughout the day and into the night ia a great turn-on for me. But I am not into public displays of affection. I keep that for home | |
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ankkka
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 7/27/2007 6:09:01 PM | ooooooo ankka, yes! When he kisses your hand and his eyes never leave yours...
Now that's sensual.
As far as describing my perfect kiss? I can't. It's something intangible, undescribeable...
You know it the moment his lips touch yours.... it's gonna be goooooood.... lol
Everyone is different, so the responses are gonna be quite varied. Some like that darting lizard thingie, others like a slow rhumba with the tongue. Some dig that bulldog slobber and others want it kept to a dewy mist.
I'm not tellin' what I like, but I will say this, if his lips are full and he can "kiss" me with a look, then it's prolly gonna leave me weak..... | |
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 7/29/2007 11:35:50 AM | I love reading some of the descriptions of kissing, SOME of you women give. It reminds me of a girl I knew in grade school. I was so sloppy and wet, I didn't need a bath til Sat night. Eewwww. But I didn't know about open mouth kissing, the. I kissed a girl on the lips, just like I would a grown-up, but held it longer.
Later, at recitals, I would sing, I Wonder Who's Kissing Her Now. and would think of her. | |
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 8/15/2007 4:04:32 PM | I wonder if this means that at our age a kiss signifies chemistry? No chemistry no next base, or date?
I wouldn't forsake a new relationship based on a kiss.
Of course we are not all in agreement as to whether chemistry is even important or maybe we are just not in agreement as to what chemistry is.
A kiss?
A touch of the hand?
A smile?
A common interest?
A shared laugh?
Religion or politics?
Or does it all boil down to a kiss?
Just pondering.....
(pondering in the pond....oh I kill me!)
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 8/15/2007 4:56:26 PM | Oh the sweet sweet sensation of that kiss. Kissing is very important to me. You can find out alot by the art of kissing. I have found the men that come on with the soft seeking lips. the slowly deepens. (shiver) knows how to make love.
The ones that jump on your face. and tries to inhales you. Is such a turn off it can be almost physically sickening
Don't get me wrong the tongue is a very erotic thing. But not just shoving it down my throat. or so wet I think you must not have swallowed all night.
Back to the kissing original questions
It is just as important as was then in the backseat of those camero's. or the cab of a truck. Now I am not is such a hurry I want to savor the moment. | |
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 9/14/2007 11:20:25 AM | | Kissing always has been, and always will be, a required part of the game for me. I love to kiss, and be kissed, and have broken up with women who were otherwise great in bed because they did not like kissing. As foreplay, and after play, and even during intercourse, kissing is the icing on the sex cake. | |
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 9/14/2007 5:13:14 PM | I think it is as important however maybe in a different way. I believe you can tell a lot by the way a fellow kisses. If responsiveness, give and take is in the kiss, well.... Kissing is subjective, what I like may not be what someone else likes. Those that consider kissing as a preliminary to the good stuff are missing out on the really good stuff. What is the hurry anyway?
Does it just take more to satisfy us now that we've been there, done that so many many times?
I don't know that it takes more to satisfy us. Maybe we have just learned the difference between the "real" and the not so real.
And me and my girlfriends did too say, geez he is a bad kisser! | |
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 9/14/2007 8:23:39 PM | Kissing is critical. The same type of critical it was in my mis-spent youth. Proper kissing can take you to places that are missed sometimes if other things happen too quickly. My honest opinion is that if a man can't kiss.. he can't do alot of other things. Sexual things. So, if I am interested in that end of a relationship, a kisser has a definite advantage.
To quote Crash Davis ( Kevin Costner's character), in the movie Bull Durham..
..I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses, that last three days... | |
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 9/16/2007 11:46:10 PM | Yes,I agree beachgirl. The kissing says it all. And I do like so much of what a lot of you have to say here.
funnygirl,celticmist,shipoker,teresa,sassysky,willow I like the erotic kissing descriptions. Yes, I want some of that too!
For me, kissing sometimes is reassuring and relaxing and sometimes it's stimulating. A wonderful aphrodisiac! I personally could not be in a relationship without lots of yummy delicious "kissing".  | |
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| Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 9/18/2007 1:40:01 AM | anjori
Yes it is true that in Alaska we do have longer periods of darkness in the winter.
Nothing to do with what I am try to communicate here.
We also have up to 24 hours a day of sun light in the summer months.
Darkness or lightness. What does it matter when comes to a "good kiss"? | |
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