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 Author Thread: Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
 Kissesfromheaven

Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 376
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 10/9/2007 9:41:36 PM
yes,, and yes,,, it is as the song once put it,, it is in his kiss,,
 beachesofnc

Joined: 4/19/2006
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 10/10/2007 10:14:42 AM
Kissing has always been important. If you're not good at it....it's a real deal breaker.
 earthflower

Joined: 4/5/2007
Msg: 378
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 10/10/2007 8:37:53 PM
Kissing remains the same as I've gotten older as when I was younger. It is still important and a prelude to other things. A sweet, lingering kiss, with no tongue thrust, is still the most passionate, in my opinion. It seems that there are some men out there that think that a kiss isn't a kiss unless the tongue is somehow involved. While there are moments that that form of passion is appropriate for, there are many times when its not. And a first kiss....simply isn't.

The forehead kiss, is a very intimate form of expression. Same as the kiss on the neck, just under the ear.....
 NatGoat

Joined: 10/15/2005
Msg: 379
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 10/11/2007 12:26:34 PM
It's _Always_ important . . !!
If I didn't like Kissing . . I wouldn't care if I WAS 35 . . and I'd _Really_ feel OLD . . !!!
 Nectur

Joined: 11/28/2007
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 12/9/2007 11:38:42 AM
This guy is way too young for me but take it from an older gal..young ladies..

He has wisdom beyond his years and would be an excellent guy to check out..
and No !!! he is not related to me in anyway..just read what he had to say and wished he was my age... I have learned that what you think is so cool when your younger is not at all what you find important as you get older...Kissing by the right man..done in the right way..is priceless...and for him to even be on to it at this guys stage is a big plus for him.. trust me... most men are slow learners...and life is short..
 dahliah1

Joined: 10/26/2007
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 12/10/2007 1:56:40 AM
Yes it is, very important to me. Passion slow kisses are the best. But, what is the motive to the kiss? What is the intent of this kiss? Fact is why the kiss? Issue is why the kiss? Rule of the kisser is what, where, why? Conclusion of the kiss is the result from it.
 redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 12/10/2007 4:22:06 AM
Kissing is extremely important. For me..the type of kiss describes the mood and the setting..as much as it does the person I'm with..or how much the relationship itself is growing. It also has a way of catching me off-guard on a first meeting..as I don't make it an expectation..but a welcoming surprise. I like being kissed from the first meeting on..as it shows me..I met a potential mate..not "just" a new friend.
 CincoDeMayoMandy

Joined: 10/27/2006
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Posted: 4/21/2008 11:34:57 AM
Posted By: teak46 - ...I'm not sure it CAN be taught.

Oh sure it can be taught :) I was taught a long time ago how my boy friend liked to kiss. Everyone likes kissing different ways and you learn to become in sync with your parter and they with you. Kissing IS an extraordinary experience, so teaching one another how you like to be kissed is time WELL spent.
Though, it is wonderful when you kiss someone for the first time (or have sex, for that matter) and your ryhthms/intensities automatically match as if you have been together for years and years...WheW!
 Chocolatebrowne

Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 384
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/21/2008 11:43:53 AM
KISSING, KISSING, WHAT'S THAT???????????
 poly_1der

Joined: 1/8/2006
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/21/2008 11:56:36 AM
Kissing is EXTREMELY important to me, though I'm not sure it's more important now than it ever was...perhaps it just took awhile for me to learn its importance. It is definitely at least AS important as ever was, and there will be no "good stuff" without some good kissing beforehand! For that matter, IMO, kissing IS the good stuff, and is best if kept up all day long
 poly_1der

Joined: 1/8/2006
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Posted: 4/21/2008 11:58:33 AM
beachesofnc, I SO agree with you!
Kissing has always been important. If you're not good at it....it's a real deal breaker.

I've had to end more than a few would be relationships, due to lack of kissing skills.
 jindelray

Joined: 1/30/2008
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Posted: 4/21/2008 3:44:26 PM
Kissing has always been important to me, still is. I to
 cds0688

Joined: 4/15/2008
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/21/2008 5:25:52 PM
I love to kiss, closest thing to the one other more intimate thing 2 people can share together.
 cdn*guy

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/21/2008 9:01:50 PM
Kisses can start relationships. Kisses can make it so relationships will never happen. Important ?? ... Well, yes.

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 maeflowers

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/21/2008 10:02:01 PM
...So we've revived the kissing thread have we? Not that I'm complaining, I for one don't mind savouring some of those sweeter moments now lost in time...*sigh*
Its been a very long time since I've been properly kissed.....

...maeflowers
 swedishdawl

Joined: 8/1/2006
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/21/2008 10:02:45 PM
Kissing reveals a lot about a person. Chemistry is of course crucial in kissing. Someone who is respectful at the time of the first famous kiss is good. If someone attacks you aggressively and it isn't reciprocative... now that's not cool! If they are sloppy, controlling, selfish, no thanks. I think kissing is indicative of intimacy. Yes, you can make some suggestions verbally or by gently persuading someone to kiss more to your liking I gues?. I love kissing someone I am really into, especially in the beginning of dating. Slow, passionate kissing like you mean it ,is like the best most pleasureable, intimate forms of expressing emotions. Kissing(xxxxx) is a lost art....
 swedishdawl

Joined: 8/1/2006
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Posted: 4/21/2008 10:05:15 PM
Ahhh. sorry I should've checked typo's....
 Beaugrand®™©

Joined: 3/24/2008
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Posted: 4/21/2008 10:19:54 PM
Well of course kissing is important. And it is an art, not a skill; a performance, not a routine.
Properly done requires frequent practice, contrary to the opinions of some; like lovemaking, the first time is not the most satisfying, but each time the experience is enriched by practice. I have to have three kisses, minimum, before I can properly judge whether a woman has mastered the art of the kiss.
 SandyB1957

Joined: 7/22/2007
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/22/2008 7:07:08 PM
Kissing my goodnes thats something I will never grow tired of. I sure hope that when I amold and in a ricking chair that I have the amn that I love beside and wanting to kiis me as much then has I loved to be kissed now........ Nope not in a relationship so dang it I am getting tired of the kisses from the puppy dog.... and men wanting to be kissed?
 1Lilly of the Valley

Joined: 11/2/2006
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/22/2008 8:33:17 PM
I have been told that my kisses are very powerful, he said my lips quivered when he touched his lips to mine and we kissed for who knows for how long, and it was very satisifing for both of us. And another time I was asked if we could just act like teenager and park and kiss it was exciting and fun because we had to drive around to find a place to park. When i as young I had someone who taught me how to kiss, so if I am with some man tha tis not a kisser but wants to kiss I want to give him a chance and I tell him " let me kiss you" and well you know sometimes it works and sometimes if do not! Kissing is an art, to me if They can't kiss well they can't.........

Just my expriences!




 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/23/2008 8:50:08 AM
I'd have to say that kissing is even more important now in a relationship as I get older because its such an important part of intimacy - or even the most important part.

I'm forever hopeful of finding that SO to share the passion with - as we grow old gracefully.
 rustytraveler

Joined: 4/30/2007
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Posted: 4/23/2008 11:28:41 AM
Poly_1der I need to ask you professional advice and I can't cause I'm a girl.
Care to write me?
 NCRosebud

Joined: 2/15/2008
Msg: 398
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/23/2008 12:08:25 PM
Kissing is definitely MORE important in a relationship IMHO. I, at 59, have just within the past two weeks encountered the best kisser ever to touch these lips....and "yes", he is on this website....and "no", I won't share his profile name. I don't want all the women trying to beat my time. The heat those kisses cause is amazing!

As we age and as we are in a relationship, sometimes the sex itself may cool or disappear completely because of medical problems. But, my gosh, a kiss can still stir up the emotions, create a tender closeness, ignite the body....even without the sex act itself.

Do you remember in the movie "Pretty Woman" where Julia Roberts played a hooker and there was a rule that the "girls" never kiss the "johns" on the lips???....too intimate. You know she's fallen for Richard Gere when she kisses his lips while he sleeps. There is such an amazing intimacy with a kiss that is like throwing gasoline on a fire in terms of taking the sex act to another level.

I love tender and playful kisses (some nibbling of the lips, etc.)....have been told I kiss "hungrily"...not sure if that's good or bad! The forehead kiss gets me too, along with a man taking my face in his hands as he looks in my eyes and kisses me tenderly....Geez! It's getting warm in here! Gotta run

Rose Mary
 itechman42

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Posted: 4/23/2008 12:25:41 PM
I think that as you mature then you begin to appreciate the power in the intimacy of the kiss. As a younger person, kissing is viewed as merely walking up to the plate to try to get to "first base" and beyond. But as you've experienced more in your life and see things for what they really are, you know that kissing is really so much more.
 PTcruiser1

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 400
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 4/23/2008 1:34:02 PM
I would have to say it's more important, same as holding hands. I think it's great to see
an elderly couple holding hands, you know there has to be something still there.
As for me, my ex had a great pair of lips but had little desire to use them.

So i have to reply bring it on, no matter what kind of kiss !!! The more the better
the deeper the better doesn't have to lead up to other things. Just wakes up
your senses.
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