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 Author Thread: Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
 kidshelleen51

Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 26
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/18/2007 11:28:04 AM

As important as sex is, it's nothing without kisses


Really? Wait until I see Candy and Desiree, I've paid them both a lot of money and didn't get kissed once by either one of them.


It seems to me that a lot of men today don't put any emphasis on kissing,


My dear Bobbin, just how many men have you been kissing? I can tolerate a little hanky panky with the Magic Man, but just how many is a lot?

Somebody mentioned something about teaching someone how kiss correctly. As good as I am, I'm not sure I'd know how to do that. Then again, with a little thought it might make for a great book, Kissing for Dummies. If I only knew a writer.....
 BobbinAlong

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 27
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/18/2007 12:36:20 PM
Hmmm, will you buy that a lot to me is a couple? OK, three. Oh, all right. Four. But that's my final answer. And then only because I kept waiting for some cross-legged cowboy to come collaborate with me? Sounds like an awesome project, but...gee, it would sure take a lot of research. How much time you got?

~Bobbin
 summerbout

Joined: 9/20/2006
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/18/2007 12:56:58 PM
Kissing has always been important to me in a relationship, and still is.

As said before, it can be a build up to later passion. Or it can be just a kiss, to be close.

I think the way someone kisses tells alot about that person, as far as how open a personality they are, and how close they can be to another. Someone that does not want to kiss, or enjoy kissing, seems to me anyways, as someone that does not want closeness or openess in a relationship. A kiss should be an emotional thing between two people. And yes, the soft tender kisses are great.

And it is nice to greet the one you love, when you have been apart with a nice slow lingering kiss, to let them know you are glad to be back with them.
 kidshelleen51

Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 29
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/19/2007 4:20:28 AM

Hmmm, will you buy that a lot to me is a couple? OK, three. Oh, all right. Four. But that's my final answer. And then only because I kept waiting for some cross-legged cowboy to come collaborate with me? Sounds like an awesome project, but...gee, it would sure take a lot of research. How much time you got?


Where's that dang horse when I need him? Just call me Big Daddy, I'm on my way Bobbin!!!

Who's that sneakin' down the fire escape
Who's that peekin' through the garden gate
Who's on the loose, but can't be found
Big Daddy's Alabama bound

Big Daddy's Alabama bound
Big Daddy's Alabama bound
Police is searchin' but he can't be found
Big Daddy's Alabama bound

Somebody ran off with the Mayor's wife
Somebody tried to take the Police Chief's life
Somebody stole the Judge's ragged old gown
Big Daddy's Alabamy bound

Big Daddy's Alabama bound
Big Daddy's Alabama bound
Police is searchin' but he can't be found
Big Daddy's Alabama bound

Highway patrol and the F.B.I.
Is out huntin' this criminal
They got their hound dogs sniffin' the ground
Big Daddy's Alabamy bound
 claypot

Joined: 3/7/2006
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Posted: 2/19/2007 5:16:29 AM
Yep, kissing is the cat's meow, A GREAT kiss is the true cat's meow.

If I ain't got the kiss, they ain't got me. Someone mentioned toe crueling, OH YAH, that most diffently has to be present to receive a present.

Those who say they love to kiss for hours, heck how do you do that? LOL, if I'm involved with someone who can kiss, all I want to do is get lost in them. The outside world no long exsists for me, and hopefully him as well. I love the sensations my body gives off during a great kiss, and I'm not just talking you know where.

The feel of my arms as they start to tingle, my legs becoming weaker and weaker, even my hair becomes so sensitve to the touch. Am I strange, probably, but a great kiss is better then and happy pill they can throw at me. Happy pills only deal with the brain, a kiss, well that can swallow the mind, body and soul if you really let it.

A GREAT kiss is ohhhhhh sooooooo YUMMY!
 SapphyreSkye

Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 31
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/19/2007 5:20:16 AM
I wholeheartedly agree with Msg #6:
I've always enjoyed it, but how much now depends a lot more on who I'm kissing and how I feel about them...I've realized that if he's stimulated my mind with his intelligence, wit, and personality first, the kisses are a *lot* better...if he's gotten my mind involved, now it's enough to knock every coherent thought out of it ;)...As far as being preliminary to the 'good stuff'...I see kissing as part of the good stuff, and something to be enjoyed throughout.
Yep, I want so much more than "just a pretty face". The more I get to know who the person is, the more (or less) attractive they become.
 fiestyangel2007

Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 32
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/19/2007 6:46:32 AM
I remember back when dinasors roamed lol...with my late husband till the day he died when that man kissed me I melted. Man, he was a great kisser. Then I remarried was an awful to a non existent kisser mmm pooooooooooor me.

I really beleived at 50 guys just were not into that thing anymore and heck maybe the days of melting in a man's arms was long gone....NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The man I am with now is a dream boat and can kiss like no mans money, mmm he makes me melt, curl my toes and disappear into lala land...kissing is great at all ages and at 50 it makes u feel 16 again.

fiesty
 BobbinAlong

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 33
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/19/2007 11:56:28 AM
Isn't that the truth that kissing can transport you back to a "better time and place?" There is absolutely NOTHING like a good toe-curling, gentle, sweet, mind-tickling kiss. ESPECIALLY if it leads to "more" slowly, but surely.

Big Daddy, aim that horse south! I'll be waiting for you. Getting my lips warmed up as we speak! Let's see, I usually say something Southern like, "I've got the lights on and the latch string out for you" but in this case, it might be something else on, and well.....

*laughing*

~Bobbin
 CrackedHalo

Joined: 11/7/2005
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/19/2007 12:12:57 PM
Kissing is extremely important to me, it is so good to find someone that really knows how to give great kisses! Please........No slobbering or bad breath and teeth.......that just makes me cringe, I can't believe how many people don't think to brush their teeth or at least use some gum or something to freshen up the breath! Just my .01 cent worth
 the_gal_next_door

Joined: 3/22/2006
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/19/2007 12:32:34 PM
For me, kissing is the most intimate activity you and your partner can do.

There is nothing like the breathless feeling that can happen when you are being kissed by a great kisser.

Lips and tongue, barely moving, lingering, featherlight touching. Hot, deep, long, intense, passionate, feel like you're melting into each other kisses. Fun, playful, laugh while you are lip locked together. There is nothing else like it.
 TheScribe42

Joined: 3/30/2006
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Posted: 2/19/2007 12:56:03 PM
Well, if fantasies are any indication, kissing has grown in stature as part of my aging process. Perhaps because I’ve pretty much given up on ever having a woman condescend to actually having sex with me, I find that more and more of my modern-day fantasies center around long, drawn-out kissing sessions—the gentle touch of lips, feeling a woman’s breath intermingling with mine, her smell, her taste, the velvet softness of her lips like a pillow against mine. I could kiss for hours without it ever progressing to sex; and I can’t even imagine sex without an ample dose of kissing involved. I wonder sometimes if I’ve become less of a man in my old age, what with great kissing becoming such a centerpiece in my fantasies. After all, aren’t we men supposed to be goal-driven? And isn’t the goal located under a woman’s skirt? Still, I guess my greatest yearning these days is for the affection and tenderness that’s symbolized by the kiss—something that has become so absent in my life and such a distant memory. Sex would be nice (oh, boy, would it!), but my chances for it grow slimmer with each passing day and each sprouting gray hair. So my mind, it seems, has supplanted that distant and unattainable goal with something more manageable—a really, really good kiss. And there isn’t a night that goes by that I don’t long for and miss having a gentle, loving, meaningful kiss just before I fall off into my slumber.
 Annie 10

Joined: 6/27/2006
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Posted: 2/19/2007 1:01:30 PM
Reading these posts has brought to mind all that necking in the back seat when I was (much)
younger. Back in the days when there were drive in movies.

Oh Dear...my glasses are fogging up!!!!

Where is my lip balm? I need to keep these lips in shape in case I find a good kisser.
 Raine

Joined: 1/22/2007
Msg: 38
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/19/2007 5:56:24 PM
Always important. It's what leads to everything else.
 maeflowers

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 2/19/2007 6:50:36 PM
...Yes, I still fantasize about those long drawn-out kissing sessions that sometimes led nowhere, but are still fondly remembered...kissing until my lips were swollen and laying there in my bed at night running my fingers across my lips reliving the moment. How I remember the anticipation, the passion and the promise of what tomorrow might bring.........



...maeflowers
 Celticmist

Joined: 2/1/2005
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Posted: 2/20/2007 6:30:58 PM
The kissing, holding hands, the stolen glances, the smiles, the hugs...all of that and more makes the experience. If all you're looking for is sex, you can find it anywhere. Love and everything it encompasses, is a whole lot harder to find.
 Faithnhim

Joined: 12/22/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2007 6:38:00 PM

For me, kissing is the most intimate activity you and your partner can do.

There is nothing like the breathless feeling that can happen when you are being kissed by a great kisser.

Lips and tongue, barely moving, lingering, featherlight touching. Hot, deep, long, intense, passionate, feel like you're melting into each other kisses. Fun, playful, laugh while you are lip locked together. There is nothing else like it.


Awesome feeling!!! Kissing is very, very important....always has been for me!
 TheScribe42

Joined: 3/30/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2007 7:00:38 PM

If all you're looking for is sex, you can find it anywhere.

Ummm, Celticmist, can you email me off-board with specific addresses? Cuz that sure hasn't been my experience. From kisses to anything greater, all has managed to elude me.

 ksue44

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 2/20/2007 8:32:01 PM
I love kissing, its a way of showing affection. Only downside about kissing is if one has bad breath. Ugh!
 maeflowers

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2007 10:18:52 PM
...Maybe one should stop playing on the soccer field and think about "playing the field"...then maybe those kisses may become reality and not just a fantasy



...maeflowers
 Celticmist

Joined: 2/1/2005
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Posted: 2/21/2007 12:15:34 AM
Scribe - the addresses wouldn't do you any good - you're in a different country. Maybe you should look for a female friend and companion relatioship first.
 lucidmoments

Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 46
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 2/21/2007 7:29:26 AM
One of my favorite lines from a movie, and a line I'd love to live by is:

"I like long slow wet kisses that last for 3 days"....from Bull Durham.

Kissing gets the whole thing started and if the kiss is there, the tingle starts, the arms quiver, then the rest...well leave it up to your own imagination.
But the Kiss.....is the ultimate starter fluid for a real fire!

And NOT one of these!

lucidmoments
 cas99999

Joined: 1/9/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 2/21/2007 9:22:59 AM
I live in south carolina. TO is an issue here....teeth optional
 mesa_view

Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 48
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Posted: 2/21/2007 9:58:38 AM
I enjoy all types of kisses. From the grandkids giving Grandpa a big hug and kiss, the kiss on the cheek from the friend saying hello, all the way to the passionate kisses leading up to hot, wet, lust sex.
I'd be missing out on a whole lot of good feeling if I wasn't open to being shown all kinds of affections.
 *buzz*

Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 2/21/2007 11:32:26 AM

Do the kisses ... have the same passion, intensity and sensitivity as the kisses you remember from your teenage years?

Well, I have to admit that over the years I learned taking the lead when kissing. Fuelling anticipation and yearning desire via nibbling his bottom lip, gently brushing his lips with small kisses and playfully turn the lips into softly parted lips ... to commence ... to progress ... and to finally s e a l IT with the kiss ... cannot imagine otherwise as I get -sh too
 The Magician

Joined: 6/11/2006
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Posted: 2/21/2007 6:09:15 PM

Fuelling anticipation and yearning desire via nibbling his bottom lip, gently brushing his lips with small kisses and playfully turn the lips into softly parted lips ... to commence ... to progress ... and to finally s e a l IT with the kiss

Darn,when's that next plane overseas? I just gotta have some of that kind of kissing
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