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 CadWhiz

Joined: 5/14/2008
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/17/2008 1:37:30 PM

It's still important, but not the crazy make out sessions that teenagers get into, since none of us are virgins anymore.

Lots and lots of good stuff in this thread! But this one stopped me in my tracks. I remember teenaged kissing as mostly fumbling and clumsy rushing towards The Goal Line. In my twenties, babies and the resulting exhaustion from lack of sleep conspired to cause me to rush past the kissing part to get to the "good stuff". So it wasn't until my thirties I realized that the kissing could be an end in itself.
Almost nothing is better than getting lost in a kiss - one that leaves you dizzy and incoherent and not quite sure where you are, unaware of anything outside the arms of the person kissing you ... Oh yes.
And as someone else said, it's one thing you can't do for yourself :)
My vote is MORE important.
Jules
 AK Transplant

Joined: 11/20/2007
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/17/2008 6:17:41 PM
There's no comparison between falling asleep after sex with a lover and falling asleep spooning after making out with a lover. There is SO much more feeling in the latter!
 Blueeyed61BBW

Joined: 1/27/2008
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/18/2008 6:16:47 AM
WOW! Kissing is one thing you cannot do by yourself & I miss SO much! IMHO, kissing is just as important now as when a teenager, since it is a sharing of one's self with another. Kissing lets you know how special you are to someone else, & let's you show how special that someone is to you.
 metreasureu

Joined: 8/8/2007
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/18/2008 11:28:02 AM
Kissing for me is very important .
If it's like a first kiss and it's bad I guess I would try again.
It's really hard to suggest to someone that they need to close their mouth a little or open it alittle,or that you need tender kisses along with the passionate kisses.
I ate to feel like I have just been slobbered on.
There is the perfect kiss,and when you find that then there is usually some connection. I consider myself to be a very good kisser one that loves to kiss for hours.
I kiss on first dates too, if the date went well, if not a hug and a thank you.
 ragdoll251

Joined: 5/27/2007
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/18/2008 11:54:08 AM
Yes kissing is more important to me now. At my age
I have become a people watcher. I have noticed that those
couples that have been together for a life time still
kiss each other often, still hold hands, still sit in church with his arm
around her shoulders.
When and if I am with someone again thats what I want.
And yes there seems to be some guys out there now that don't kiss well.
But lets not put the blame on them maybe the chemistry is just not there.
I am not really in a relationship but do have a couple of guy friends that
kiss me. The younger one is like kissing your mom but the older one
can curl your toes. If he ever get over how bad his wife hurt him and
gets where he can trust women again he would make a darn good hubby.
I think any good relationship begins as friend tho. I have heard him tell
people that I am his best friend. I meet him through POF.
I spent most of my life married < I thought I would be lonely single
but I have found as long as you have plenty of friends to do things with
it not bad at all.
 time4meandyou

Joined: 12/15/2007
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/18/2008 1:28:16 PM
Soft, slow, warm, wet and long. With the right man it would curl your toes at any age but better as you get older at least in my opinion. I want to enjoy every seecond.
 bostonsportsgal789

Joined: 12/4/2007
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/19/2008 1:58:03 PM
My feelings about kissing hasn't changed with age. I think it is important now. I thought it was important when I was younger as well. However I would consider myself to be a better kisser now than I was many years ago.
 AgelessWonder

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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/19/2008 4:08:05 PM
I think maybe I should put up a "kissing booth" and see who all the good kissers are..

This could be interesting

Worth a shot.. ... now where did I put my lip gloss.. ??
 Bellamariposa

Joined: 6/12/2005
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/19/2008 6:02:35 PM
Much more important. I appreciate sensuality more.........
 Bellamariposa

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Posted: 5/19/2008 6:02:49 PM
Much more important. I appreciate sensuality more.........
 angel_buns

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Posted: 5/19/2008 8:09:47 PM
I remember the first kiss I ever had
it was better than sex

Id just melt if I were kissed at this moment

its about passion and sensuality

and why does everything age has anything to do with it
Thats a cop out

Yes kissing is important and so is everything else
even holding hands the suddle touches the flirting

ahh the passion

I can only dream
I am unwanted and unloved


one more thing
I saw earlier about making out in a hot rod

why not still do that
what about on the car hood or blanket under the moon and stars all night long
what makes us say ok we are too old to enjoy life and spontaneous adventures

live life to its fullest and you will stay young forever
 Daria1956

Joined: 3/7/2008
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/21/2008 8:16:42 AM
Kissing is so impotant to me and the nicest thing on earth....not only in realationships..
It even happens sometimes on the first date...I have a few girlfriends I kiss, without having any kind of relationship..
 Fifi47

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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/21/2008 4:50:48 PM
I love to kiss, one of my favorite things in life. Could be because I am an orally fixated woman.
 1Pretty Woman

Joined: 4/13/2008
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:24:59 PM
Kissing is so much more than just the physical act in and of itself. For me, it provides total intimacy. I don't know, there's just something about being that close to someone and sharing the same breath....there's no comparison.
 kriashun

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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:36:51 PM
a good kiss is the Best part of foreplay, the alpha and omega of lovemaking.
the keyword here is "good"
I would like to add here also that "good" kissing would be impossible w/out good oral hygiene---yeah, thats a nerdy thing to say, but lets face it, its true!!
 rdcnorm

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Posted: 5/23/2008 2:57:34 PM

I would like to add here also that "good" kissing would be impossible w/out good oral hygiene---yeah, thats a nerdy thing to say, but lets face it, its true!!

Thats not nerdy,, it's true,, who wants to kiss when their breath is bad,, or their teeth are rotten,, etc..

I always say,, if we are out to dinner,, if you have a dish with garlic,, I'm getting one too.. it eases the pain.. LOL...
 Enchantment !

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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/23/2008 6:07:36 PM
Kissing is and will be very inportant to me. May i die with my hon's lip gracing my lips....Never loose that ....its the connection i dont ever want to loose.
 First Falcon

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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/23/2008 6:12:18 PM
I would consider myself to be a better kisser now than I was many years ago.


Sorry Boston yer gonna hafta prove it to me.

making out in a hot rod
why not still do that
what about on the car hood or blanket under the moon and stars all night long


I've got the equipment if you got the time.


Almost nothing is better than getting lost in a kiss - one that leaves you dizzy and incoherent and not quite sure where you are, unaware of anything outside the arms of the person kissing you ... Oh yes.


And I thought I was the only one.

It becomes especially important when its the only thing left that works.
 ankkka

Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 5/26/2008 2:41:58 PM
I forget...what does kiss taste... and smell...if you love somebody...
 gpb1953

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Posted: 5/26/2008 4:36:28 PM
Two of my favorite quotes about kissing ...

“A kiss that is never tasted, is forever & ever wasted.”
~Billie Holiday

"Kissing is like drinking salted water. You drink, & your thirst increases."
~Chinese Proverb

Gary
 sigridmac

Joined: 5/23/2008
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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/26/2008 4:48:02 PM
Kissing is more sexy to me today than it was when I was young. And, surprisingly, I find it more intimate than actual sex. Kissing can be so intense! I'm smiling just thinking about it
 itsjustme328

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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 5/26/2008 5:07:51 PM
After giving it some thought and reading some of the posts, I'd have to say kissing is more important to me now that I'm older.

I want my guy to kiss me softly, slowly, deeply, longingly and passionately.....and I want it to feel like we've been kissing for hours. I want to still feel it when I close my eyes and think about it the next day. Mmm...........
 marzimajine

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Posted: 5/26/2008 6:16:32 PM
Hell yeah.. kissing is really important to me. I actually feel if a man does not know how to kiss sensually then he is probably not a good in bed. Been my experience when I was young, and now that I am older. The art of kissing is not dead. I still love necking with a good kisser! And I am not afraid to mention tips to improve a kiss if my partner is lacking in that area.. No hard, tongue ramming, wet slobbering kisses for me. A real turn off. I like soft, sensual kisses, exploring kisses, gentle lips slightly parted, pressing kisses, lustful kisses..need I say more.. Definitely kissing is the foundation to great love making.. so guys and girls.. learn how to kiss with your partners.. you will have a better sex life if you do... find out what each other likes!
 1Lilly of the Valley

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Posted: 6/16/2008 11:24:18 PM
OMG I wish more men would let the women kiss them, I think a kiss can tell a lot about a person as a lover. I could just kiss all night, but a fab kiss could lead to more passion than just a kiss can fulfill lol! Kissing is an ART that has to be perfected to show your true feelings! I was once told that when i kissed My lips quivered and it was a real turn on! Wow he was great at it too!
 Oregondaisy

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Posted: 6/16/2008 11:40:19 PM
Kissing is fabulous at any age. There is also nothing worse than a bad kisser who is not willing to learn. When both people love the way they kiss, it's magic
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