JASUN
| | Joined: 3/7/2005 Msg: 151 | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/27/2005 11:20:31 AM | well'' you people seem to be missing the most important part of all this.. if it feels right it is'' no amount of self brain washing'' babbling'' . will ever change what is human nature... too much energy spent on '' justifing'' we all know that if both people dont agree that ''they are comfortable with it. then no hard feeling's ! but'' if you both agree that you have that animal attraction ''well who's your partner ''lol i personally dont think that ''just because a woman will sleep with me'' means that she has slept with every guy she meets''' i mean really who comes upwith this stuff' ''lol'' wow'' ( ladys i give you more credit then that ) and i'm sure other guys do too ! | |
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JASUN
| | Joined: 3/7/2005 Msg: 153 | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/27/2005 3:38:44 PM | Okay, so the whole sex on the first meeting!! You know what why not!! I mean no expectations no dissapointments though!! Friends with benefits...I mean it's like the best of both worlds!!! You have your friends, and you get some!! I mean COME ON! Sex is natural and healthy!! And don't people always say we should live healthier *wink* | |
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JASUN
| | Joined: 3/7/2005 Msg: 155 | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/28/2005 4:23:33 AM | | Speshul_K long term relationship with someone slept with on the first night I have had a couple short and long term with people i did sleep with on first night. Even the short term ones they were meaningful relationships. I won't sleep with someone on the first date if I don't think itll go anywhere | |
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ticky
| | Joined: 5/28/2005 Msg: 157 | |
| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/28/2005 10:49:17 AM | | two or three consenting adults should do whatever they want to do...and if doing it on a first date is what you want to do then ...do it | |
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creter
| | Joined: 5/2/2005 Msg: 158 | |
| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/28/2005 10:57:07 AM | | Are you consenting Ticky? Id burn the tires off the car getting there. Not to mention pop a piston through the hood of the car. Oh what a world it could be | |
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pomik
| | Joined: 4/4/2005 Msg: 159 | |
| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/28/2005 7:40:28 PM | HEY CRETER WHO'S CAR YOU SETTING ON FIRE ?? Heck if you need a lift why burn a perfectly good set of tires ! and Ticky just might burn rubber to come get you !!!
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~KC~
| | Joined: 5/10/2005 Msg: 160 | |
| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/28/2005 7:44:34 PM | OK.. who's taking rubbers?? And Sex on a first meet...?? Damn..
Crap - misread it again.. my bad! | |
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creter
| | Joined: 5/2/2005 Msg: 161 | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/29/2005 7:46:00 AM | | Yeah but wallpaper will be the only thing your doing if you get some nasty a$$ STI/STD! | |
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~KC~
| | Joined: 5/10/2005 Msg: 163 | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/29/2005 6:45:07 PM | Sex is good for us. Spread love. If everyone was busy making love all the time, i mean everyone, there would be no room for 'war'... personally, i dont pursue sexual relationships as enthusiastically as most men, but i agree with those who share this point of view. Sex is good for the body, good for the mind and good for the soul. Religion has given us the expectation that we should only be sexually active if we are committed to our partner, but my partner is humanity baby, so lets make some love, and go on about our days. ahaha, i love laughing at myself. spread love people, spread it around. dont be greedy. is my logic flawed? | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/29/2005 10:13:53 PM | What ?? Sex on the first MEET !! OKay Okay what the heck did I miss out on ?? Dam I knew I was doing something wrong !! Heck sex on a first meet I never had that pleasure yet. And woo now you can never compare wall paper to std's for one thing!! Hell wall paper chafes the balls too much . And I never use a standard let alone drive a standard any thing !!LMAO And now I'll never get sex on a first meet with my lady as we're planing the third date now ! Crap I knew I was missing something !! Oh well whats a guy to do about that now !! Hmmmmmmmmm!! Any ideas pokim for the ol firmbear ???
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/29/2005 11:15:23 PM | | 2 or 3 consenting adults? What kind of dates would they be? LOL, sounds a bit wild to me. But seriously, I agree with you 100%, ticky.....whether it's the first date, or the 10th date, both parties will know if they click together, and they know if it feels right enough for sex. And if they agree to it, between the 2 of them, then it's righter than rain. | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 5/30/2005 8:49:16 AM | | nice..that was funny..and yeah i agree 100%..do what you wanna do, have fun doing it, but keep it clean and safe... | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 6/2/2005 9:05:16 PM | Well I guess you can call me old fashion...
I have never had the pleasure of having sex on a first date. I believe there is more to a relationship then sex and to be honest I couldn't respect a girl that would so quickly jump in the sack with me.
I have been reading alot of forums on here and am amazed at the amount of people who have had 1 night stands and sex on first dates. I'm 42 yrs old and have never been involved in any of that.
Maybe I need to wake up and start going with the flow, unfortunately my belief and morals wouldn't allow it.....
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 6/2/2005 11:41:27 PM | omg. topcraft. spread it on a little thicker. lol good for you dude. go with it. | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 6/3/2005 5:49:17 AM | lmao , well that depends on who i meet....but does love at first sight really exist ? well if u saw it happen in a romantic movie where two people talk for awhile and then finaly meet , if they made that passionate love on that first meet , what do u say ......do u get tears in your eyes and say how romantic..... but i guess that only happens in the movies uhh.....lol | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 6/3/2005 10:18:52 AM | | Jasun, only two months and you forgot? lol Wow, i don't even know if my parts work anymore! Even though it's been a year and a half since i had any type of sexual encounter, i wouldn't on a first meeting/date. I'm not looking for meaningless crap, In the end i'm looking for a real relationship with constitutes more than just getting your rocks off, but maybe i should change my ways, it seems to be pretty popular to "have fun" on the first date for some reason. | |
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~KC~
| | Joined: 5/10/2005 Msg: 173 | |
| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 6/3/2005 11:46:22 AM | kobie... of course I am of the mind set that just giving it up for no reason is no longer fulfilling. So why bother? But I am not going to deny myself of a chemistry that is felt and intensely desired.. regardless if it is first date or not. I have come to the realization that simply giving it up on the first date.. often means.. a one night stand. I don't expect a phone call or to date. But.. that hasn't happened in what seems like forever.. so.. I don't worry about it.
Again.. perfer to have a meaningful encounter than a frivolous one.. but won't judge myself for a one night stand either.. just be smart and SAFE! | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 6/3/2005 12:36:22 PM | I don't know curls, i think i'm just weird when it comes to my views on these kind of topics lol 'tell that guy to stop clapping so loud, i can't think'. 'No you tell him yourself'. 'Shut up, you tell him!!!!' <------------- | |
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| Sex on the first meet? Posted: 6/3/2005 1:27:15 PM | Hey, just be honest with yourself and your partner. Listen, listen some more and then do what comes naturally. Always respect the one your with so No mean No and safety all around .... 2, 3 , 4 or more.
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