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HzChld
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Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 27 | |
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| multiple sex partners when u have a friend w/benefits or bootycall
Posted: 3/12/2007 1:24:17 PM | | That's why I don't like friends with benefits really.. Because you're probably not the only person he's messing with. It would sorta bother me and disgust me that last night, he might have been somewhere messing around with some other female and comes to me the next day. Yuck! | |
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| multiple sex partners when u have a friend w/benefits or bootycall
Posted: 3/12/2007 3:06:54 PM | | A FWB would be ideal for me, yet I'd be the same as many other posters..it would have to be exclusive sexually. If they decided they wanted to move on, or start sleeping with someone else, I would want them to let me know so we can end that part of our friendship... | |
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| multiple sex partners when u have a friend w/benefits or bootycall
Posted: 9/13/2009 7:00:54 PM | I was in this position with my ex, he told me actually swore to me it was only me and him. However I found out he was with the town s lut and did so without protection knowing she got around with multiple men. He told me it was none of my business. I feel it was mostly because I was pregnant at the time and him swearing he would not have sex with anyone but me and even questioned why I did not believe him. He also told her that he was not having sex with me. So he lied to us both, or so she claims, however she knew the situation that I was living with him, and he had many times said we would work on things trying to make the relationship work, however guess he couldn't keep it in his pants.
He blames the women how they throw themselves at him, shes the only one who did as well everyone here knows her and no one wants to touch the woman well except him. He says its ok to act this way. Ya only if u aren't with someone, and everyone knows the situation, not people being kept clueless to it.
His newest excuse? I screwed up getting pregnant, so that made him sleep with her.
some men I tell ya, well and women like her. | |
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| multiple sex partners when u have a friend w/benefits or bootycall
Posted: 9/13/2009 8:17:35 PM | silentlonely
first i would hope that your group is double wrapping. by you talking it seems your playing more holes than a golfer on a pga tour!!!!
second in every fwb relationship their is always someone who is more attached than the other...and one less honest than the other. anyone asking the other not to f**k others is asking for a committed relationship....and should be ready to do the same! | |
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| multiple sex partners when u have a friend w/benefits or bootycall
Posted: 9/13/2009 8:31:28 PM | if the guy is fine with himself having other women he has NO REASONS WHATSOEVER to complain if the women wants to enjoy other men.
Who the hell does he think he is ...........
The guy is simply not worth being with. OH, let me rephrase that: you don't deserve being stuck with this controling insecure manipulative selfish jealous idiot moron.
For the girl it applies to, maybe all the "compliments" apply to this jerk, and don't stick around any longer.
Just use caution with unwanted pregnancy and disease. | |
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| multiple sex partners when u have a friend w/benefits or bootycall
Posted: 9/14/2009 8:27:50 AM | All's fair in love and war! If the guy wants his freedom, he's got to give it too.
"I don't belong to you...and you don't belong to me." -George Michael
I heard Mel Gibson is laying down the law in this very way with his soon-to-be ex-wife, Robyn. He can have sex with his hot Russian girlfriend, Oksana, but Robyn should not be "allowed" to date other men, because she's the mother of their children, and his view is mothers shouldn't date. Ahh, those patriarchal Catholics...it's BS. | |
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| multiple sex partners when u have a friend w/benefits or bootycall
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:13:28 PM | | It all dates back to the dawn of man! Its a little instinct tucked away in the mans brain. That he has to populate the earth and to dominate as many females as possible..That is were it all comes from ....So that would answer why it is a bigger issue for men, they do not want territory that has been dominating by them to be taken away.. | |
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| multiple sex partners when u have a friend w/benefits or bootycall
Posted: 9/16/2009 6:59:39 AM | | If I am sleeping with some one and even if it's just friends with benefits I am only sleeping with that person and I expect the same out of that friend with benefits. If he moves on to sleep with someone else then I'm not gonna be there for the next ****. Sometimes we just dont want to be in a relationship yet we all have needs but those needs arent obtaining an STD. | |
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2run
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Joined: 7/31/2009
Msg: 38 | |
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