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albino_dino

Joined: 12/29/2007
Msg: 26

question-what to do if ur childs mom is a bad role model Posted: 4/16/2008 10:44:08 PM
Children need love and support, a good foundation to learn and grow from. Someone needs to step up and be a good role model and parent. If you teach a child right from wrong, to be social responsible and give them the tools for learning they will learn how to cope and how to relate to the other parent. Children are resourceful and intelligent.

simplelady66

Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 27

question-what to do if ur childs mom is a bad role model Posted: 4/17/2008 3:30:17 AM
An she was saying how she was glad that moms aren't looked at as closely as dads; cus she would always put her kid to the side so she could mess around online or talk on the phone and that she would just blow money on stupid ish and have her folks or baby dad bail her out. An she would go get wasted and then be yellin at her kid cus they would wake up early and be messing w/her; an she would be hung over. her baby daddy took her to court; but really had no proof outside of what he heard, an never got custody This is child endangerment, and yes the father would have had to have hard, concrete proof of it. If she has to have her parents play hardball with her, this tells me the tendencies are still there, and the minute someone relaxes their keen eye off of her, she would go back to the same behavior. Not sure what her age is, you don't say, but if she can't be a parent to that child, then yes, the father should get the child. It's really sad for the child, that this had to happen. No matter if it lasted just a short time period, it still had an affect on that child.

perfectredsky2008

Joined: 2/3/2008
Msg: 28

question-what to do if ur childs mom is a bad role model Posted: 4/18/2008 6:52:13 AM
And how would you be if you had your kids with the same amount of responsiblity of rasing them as she does? I think you are not over your ex and everyone has different ideas on how a child should be raised. Even couples that are together raising their children have different views and disagree about how they are raising their children. Not a bad person or a threat to the kid; but a parent who spoils them And you don't spoil your children at all? or a parent probe to outbursts yelling/screaming/pouting Have you never raised your voice before or felt bad about something? or one who is irresponsible w/her money. why is it your business what she does with her money - are you saying your ideas how to spend her money is better? Dates alot of different guys How many women have you dated? There is nothing wrong with dating different guys - it's not like she moves everyone of them in with her. You are way too hung up on what she does and the things she does sounds like a normal person to me that has already gone on with her life and has left you behind - hint- DIVORCE

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