| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 9:51:00 AM | Not sure where this guy is coming from, but... Dude should be looking at her as a SISTER, not a sex object... She's family. That's just sick. If my brothers-in-law started droolin' and pantin' around me, I'd slap 'em both upside the head.
If, for arguments sake, Dudette truely is the instigater here (and not just because she's wearing revealing clothes around the house... what is this, the dark ages? Why should she have to cover up just because he can't control himself??), then, ya... tell her to get control of her libido around ya, dude. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 9:54:17 AM | BECAUSE--IT---IS---HIS--HOUSE.
He should NOT be uncomfortable in his own house.
She is woman....he is man....she is of the same blood and, likely, many of the same attributes and habits as his wife..he married her for a reason. It is nature showing us how that works.
Get her out; or..hire me. ;)
An you are telling me that you never watch a man, and enjoy watching a man lose control or "teeter" on the brink? YOu never lose control over YOUR thoughts or labido? ever?
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:04:37 AM | Sunder - make sure that you guard yourself from temptation, any thing that shows any interest. Blood is always thicker than water. This girl may be setting you up for a big fall.
I know that some people on here will be communicating with a person. They are told, "you are the only one that I'm talking to." A friend on POF will send a mail to check out your response on behalf of the friend.
You have a wife - what are you doing on here anyway? | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:12:09 AM | First...don't call me friend.
Second...legally, in this country, that is incest.
Third...that is what happened to my marriage....I hope both your wife and her sister take off and leave your sorry JO ass behind...you deserve nothing less. PIG!
Squeak
Also...I find men from your general area are the worst when it comes to this stuff...You see that it is North American women on this site and think you can talk like this. Me thinks this dude is LYING.
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:13:25 AM | Do I enjoy watching a man lose control, or teeter on the brink... yes, Frrosty... OFTEN. Come on over, I'll show you. ;) hehe But NEVER my Brothers-in-law. It's just beyond comprehension to think of them in that light, and them to think of me in that light. I've spent plenty of time at their houses, and let me tell ya... on hot summer days I'm not wearing a turtleneck.... more likely laying in the yard, sippin a long, tall, cold one in my bikini. This has never been an issue. Why? Because they married my sisters, making me THEIR sister.
I lose control over my thoughts and libido daily... but never over my family, even if the relationship is only by marriage. That's just wrong.
He married into the family... if he married the wrong sister, that's his problem. He should NOT think of her in that light. EVER. Period. You would really have me believe that men have SO LITTLE control? That's bogus. I don't buy it, and men have been using it as an excuse for far too many centuries. Keep in mind, I say all this based on her just showing a little skin around the house. IF she's actually going out of her way to provoke him, then that's totally different. And, yes... if that were the case, I would totally be in favour of him sending her bodacious booty packing.
The thing is... we're, none of us, too sure WHAT he was saying, and can only guess at how to help 'the poor' man. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:14:34 AM | Is nobody blaming his wife for inviting family into his home?
Would YOU want YOUR husband or wifes' family living with you!!??
<--would not allow it for much longer than a month or two to get them on their feet. (end of story)
Lord, lead me not into temptation; if you allow the temptatioon to stay where I may need to fear..I wil kill it. (deal with it dude)
And I am saying ^ that he shoud reGAIN control, by dealing with the situation and getting her out. YOU did not spend every waking hour in the presence of your brother in law..and alone for hours; I am sure.
I cannot ever see a situation where I am alone with a sister in law..ever.
THAT would make me uncomfortable.
His sister in law is probably ALOT like his wife who he fell inlove with; nature is NOT tobe taken lightly here if I know anything about life.
Get rid of her. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:20:45 AM | When I used to hang out in Yahoo chatrooms, it was men from this area that were the worst. They seem to think North Americans are very loose sexually and will put up with stupidity like this. I had more indian men on iggy than any others. They are beyond pigs....
This is all a lie.....trust me. He did it so he could whack off....
Probably hasn't got a wife or sister-in-law at all.
Squeak | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:22:17 AM | Blondie, you seem to think it's cool to put people (men) to the test in perpetuity.
It's not. Be realistic. You think his wife is the only woman that arouses him, or should? That's unhealthy thinking if you ask me. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:23:58 AM | ROFL and god forbid some lonely guy goes online to get people talking in such a way as to provide masturbatory material for himself.
Jeez people can be so judgemental. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:25:10 AM |
When I used to hang out in Yahoo chatrooms, it was men from this area that were the worst. They seem to think North Americans are very loose sexually and will put up with stupidity like this. I had more indian men on iggy than any others. They are beyond pigs....
This is all a lie.....trust me. He did it so he could whack off....
Probably hasn't got a wife or sister-in-law at all.
Squeak
bitter.
And I agree with ills; totally. BOTH me and my wife will have those in life that turn our cranks, big deal. avoid the temptation and know the dangers or thoughts..and you are gold.
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:27:28 AM | Go ahead...feed his lie....
I am not bitter...I find it funny how gullible some people are...
The OP for believing North Americans will fall for this....
And...wellll.......enough said.
Squeak | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:31:38 AM | | I've spent many hours alone with my bros-in-law. They do stuff for me all the time. They're always joking, to their wives I might add, about having the responsibility of two wives with the benefits of only one. Key word here, they're JOKING... and not looking for fringe benefits from their sis-in-law. They love me as their sister, and there is no discomfort about spending time with them, with or without my sisters around. I'm sure they'll be happy to one day pass on the responsibilities of coming to pick me up when I have car trouble, or putting my air con in in the summer, or doing small renovations on my house... but for now, they're happy to do it cuz they love me... and cuz they're married to my sisters. I'm a lot like my sisters, but this has never been an issue in my family. Another key word. FAMILY. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:31:53 AM | Look here ya sick fuc....ker, you shouldn't even be noticing your wife's little sister...
Get the hell out and leave them alone
what's next... your daughter?
ITS HIS ****ING HOUSE!! SHEESSHH!!! GET "HER" THE HELL OUT!! SHEESH!!!
AND HIS SISTER is not his blood, as would be his daughter.,
I guess we are learning an awful lot about many people on here from THIS thread.
And I am not feeding a lie sqeak; I am giving hm advice based on my experience and good sense.
Unlike you;' who is, merely, attacking.
[quote]I've spent many hours alone with my bros-in-law. They do stuff for me all the time. They're always joking, to their wives I might add, about having the responsibility of two wives with the benefits of only one. Key word here, they're JOKING... and not looking for fringe benefits from their sis-in-law. They love me as their sister, and there is no discomfort about spending time with them, with or without my sisters around. I'm sure they'll be happy to one day pass on the responsibilities of coming to pick me up when I have car trouble, or putting my air con in in the summer, or doing small renovations on my house... but for now, they're happy to do it cuz they love me... and cuz they're married to my sisters. I'm a lot like my sisters, but this has never been an issue in my family. Another key word. FAMILY[/quote]
THAT I could handle. NO problem, that's a GOOD family in my eyes.
GOOD STUFF! (um..if I may say)
But my sister in law will not be staying with me in my house for extended periods of time; period. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:33:44 AM | I agree with downsouth ,tell her to cover herself up,if not tell your wife that this
is bothering you!
If you're debating jumping in the sack with her, then you ain't much of a husband,now are
ya!
Since you didn't say what you meant by what to do,we can only speculate what our answers
should be???????? | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:34:34 AM |
I agree with downsouth ,tell her to cover herself up,if not tell your wife that this
is bothering you!
If you're debating jumping in the sack with her, then you ain't much of a husband,now are
ya!
Since you didn't say what you meant by what to do,we can only speculate what our answers
should be????????
And THAT answer would satisfy us all....no? | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:37:03 AM | yes, he did marry into the family so she is his sister, but let's be realistic. There is nothing wrong with him being attracted to her, any married man that is honest will tell you that they have been attracted to people that they shouldn't. That isn't even the issue, its how he chooses to act on that attraction.
I agree frrosty, if its my house and you make me uncomfortable for any reason, you will move or change what is making me uncomfortable. In a perfect world it shouldn't be an issue, but the world isn't perfect and we can't control who we find attractive. I think that it would be very responsible of him to remove her if there is any chance that infidelity may occur. Its about knowing your own weakness and limit. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:37:04 AM | No, Human, I don't expect that his wife should be the only woman who might arouse him. Did I say that? I'm stressing the family issue here... SHE IS HIS SISTER-IN-LAW. THAT is family. And he should NOT look at her in that light.
Are you telling me that you find it difficult to be around your female family members, if they're not covered up from head to toe? | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:38:55 AM | | man, I'll tell ya, there are some cousins of mine...if only they weren't family. but that is because I didn't grow up with them, so technically they are family, but sometimes it can be hard to see them that way. | |
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