| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:39:13 AM | The dude (OP) is from India...totally different world over there.
I will bet the majority of homes house more than immediate family.
Check his profile. This is a cyber story to see how much he can rile up NA people. His first post and it has grown so much in such a short time. Wanna bet he comes up with another whopper when this one dies?
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:40:00 AM | SOOOOO SORRY...
Just cause you have so little repect for women that you think it's ok to talk other women to your s.o. and she wasn't bothered by it only shows how you treated her. Jeez....not in my house!!!
Makes us all wonder why you guys defend these sickos and just what you get up to offsite....
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:40:54 AM | The dude (OP) is from India...totally different world over there.
I will bet the majority of homes house more than immediate family.
Check his profile. This is a cyber story to see how much he can rile up NA people. His first post and it has grown so much in such a short time. Wanna bet he comes up with another whopper when this one dies?
Squeak
Maybe he is trying to learn about NA culture..so? Isn;'t that called tolerance and understanding?
Perhaps you should try it out?
Youy really hate INdian people hu?
[quote]SOOOOO SORRY...
Just cause you have so little repect for women that you think it's ok to talk other women to your s.o. and she wasn't bothered by it only shows how you treated her. Jeez....not in my house!!!
Makes us all wonder why you guys defend these sickos and just what you get up to offsite....
we gonna see you "men" on the news?[/quote]
And YOU just keep this shit in the closet where none can see it UNTIL you act on it.
"Before you accuse me, take a look at yourself" Eric Clapton.
Acknowledging a problem is the first step to dealing with it; HE HAS JUST DONE THAT!
And TELLING a woman the truth IS respecting her!! | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:42:31 AM | Ok ok...I give up
Just **** her...................then
Oughta be interesting to see these guys defend that..............well, she asked for it...blah blah blah.....
Outta here.....
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:42:39 AM | ^^ same. (as eccentric)
[quote] Just **** her...................then [/quote]
THATS YER ADVICE!!?? HOW WRONG IS THAT!! Is THAT your final ANSWER!!??
gross.
All that yellin about doin the right thing....and you end it by telling him to "f*ck" her*
hhhhmmmmmmmmmmm
All of us "bad bad men" gave much different advice, thank you very much.
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:46:49 AM | Well, Frrosty... if you feel that would be a problem for you, then... I commend you for knowing yourself well enough to aviod a potentially dangerous situation. I just can't help but look at it from this perspective, tho... hypothetically speaking, okay... say we met, fell in love, got married... I HONESTLY can't see you having an issue with spending extended periods of time alone with my sisters. Unless you have serious issues with being alone with women period. And that just brings me back to 'are you really saying you have that LITTLE control?'
And, thanks... I think my fam is pretty cool. We have our probs, but when push comes to shove, we're tight. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:47:35 AM | | It's no wonder that alot women are disappointed by their relationships, it would seem that they expect a man to be perfect without flaw. Which is worse a man that says "hey I can't deal with that please do something about it" or a man that ignores the problem ends up drunk some night alone with her and does **** her. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:49:27 AM | yeah...hey honey guess what? i got this boner looking at your sister, isn't that nice?
regarding eric clapton....i really can learn a lot from a pot head terroist-funding burnout from the 60s...oh yes!
by the way...in this country...the home belongs to both husband and wife as marital property
he can leave too | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:53:15 AM | Well, Frrosty... if you feel that would be a problem for you, then... I commend you for knowing yourself well enough to aviod a potentially dangerous situation. I just can't help but look at it from this perspective, tho... hypothetically speaking, okay... say we met, fell in love, got married... I HONESTLY can't see you having an issue with spending extended periods of time alone with my sisters. Unless you have serious issues with being alone with women period. And that just brings me back to 'are you really saying you have that LITTLE control?'
And, thanks... I think my fam is pretty cool. We have our probs, but when push comes to shove, we're tight.
Are YOU telling ME that your sister, thus, your family cannot look after themselves and their OWN issues? (exacory) I do have control; and exerting my will and protecting the comfort zones in my house is a part of that control; thank you very much. HOw do we know that his sister is not stalking HIM and TRYING to make things tough? It DOES happen! Jealousy? Envy? nnaaa nevvvvver. *rolls eyes*
And I just do not see where any issues would arise that would require me to spend tons of time alone with your sisters were you my wife. I can handle myself and have control; when control is needed, however yes, I do know that I have limits to what turns me on. I am a man..I get horny. I ALSO, however, know many WOMENS limits!! They are women..they get horny.
nuff said.
[quote]by the way...in this country...the home belongs to both husband and wife as marital property
he can leave too
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so he can invite his buddies to stick around for a few months n you wont mind then? It IS both of their houses after all right?
P.S. I forgot that you are more of a role model than Eric Clapton; my apologies. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:54:05 AM | Exactly. I've dealt with the situation. I've had a couple of long term girlfriends that have had attractive sisters as well. Was I bad? No. But I'll tell you, sometimes it was a constant conscious effort to not see them as sexual beings. Because they were. And the sisters sometimes do try to titillate.My ex was aware of her sisters' ways.
If you think this makes me a pervo, I could not care less. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:55:51 AM | Hotbush....you forget...the OP is in India...where men are still whatever they are over there. And has anyone noticed he has not come back in? Hit and run thread me thinks. Probably some business men who are sitting back and laughing at us now......
I know - it's just me .....I am the only one who can smell a set-up - ah well, have fun everyone....I hafta go to work.
Squeak
Notice he never said how old his wife and sister-in-law are......over there, we could be talking 14 and 12. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:57:46 AM | ^ evil evil bitter lady,
And perhaps he has a job that requires him to not be at his computer 24/7
*shrugs* Hate him, and resent him for that if ya like too. No worries; you have lots of reason to hate people still, yer ok. Bitter wil remian alive and hea...well..alive anyways.
[quote]I just wish I knew what the heck he wants advice on... to f or not to f? or to confront or not to confront? which is it?[/quote]
None of us know, PROBABLY done by him on purpose. (I would almost guarantee it actually)
Personality tests of US maybe hu? ;)
That being said; he has gotten great feedback either way.
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 11:07:02 AM | | sunder 2 2000 : From what I'm reading you're physically attracted to your sister's wife. Even lusting for her. You think she's hot and sexy. I think even if she dressed conservatively you would still be attracted to her. This makes you uncomfortable to the point you might be tempted to cheat even though you never mention hitting on her. You could speak to your wife and ask her to have a talk with her sister. Perhaps she could dress down a bit when she's around the house because it's making you uncomfortable. Don't tell your wife it's because you want to f**k her. That probably wouldn't go over to well. If that fails and you're afraid of doing something you will regret later then it might be time to ask your sister in law to find somewhere else to stay. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 11:11:23 AM |
Pen down our thoughts about what? I think the Red Sox are gonna kick ass. As for your wifes sister, just show her your penis in the kitchen and see what happens!
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 11:13:26 AM | | HEY SPANKIE! A liberal hottie like you with an "open mind" shouldnt be saying that. I saw part of your boob, and it made me thirsty for a big mug a milk, now shut up. This guy is so stupid, he doesnt need any advice, and no, dont go telling the wife, what if we heard him wrong, or he was. If she finds out something bad, and talks to him about it or divorces him or cuts his penis off, thats normal. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 11:22:51 AM |
Are YOU telling ME that your sister, thus, your family cannot look after themselves and their OWN issues? (exacory) I do have control; and exerting my will and protecting the comfort zones in my house is a part of that control; thank you very much. HOw do we know that his sister is not stalking HIM and TRYING to make things tough? It DOES happen! Jealousy? Envy? nnaaa nevvvvver. *rolls eyes*
No... don't think I said anything about my family not being able to look after themselves and their issues.
AND, if you read my posts, I've already said... IF SHE is purposely provoking him, then ya... by all means... kick her butt to the curb. But if her only crime is revealing a bit of skin, he needs to get a grip on himself, and learn a little self control. By the same token, it wasn't ALL that long ago that, if a scantilly clad woman was raped, it was HER fault for dressing that way. Is that acceptible? I think NOT. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 11:27:00 AM | Are you telling me that you find it difficult to be around your female family members, if they're not covered up from head to toe?
YES
They have traditionally been covered and are not uised to NA culture!! HELLLO!!
And"
[quote]No... don't think I said anything about my family not being able to look after themselves and their issues[/quote]
exactly; so you and I would never be in this situation. ;)
And for the record: You and I are on the same side and share the same answer to his question here, ya know.
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