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ya472
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Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 27 | |
| question about seduction for ladies and men
Posted: 2/25/2007 10:14:07 PM |
When you have a lady for the first or second time in your house.
She is not sending any sexual messages, not even teasing.
A woman entering a man's house is NOT SENDING any SEXUAL message ????
She must be gay. (There are no innocent or niave women.)
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| question about seduction for ladies and men
Posted: 6/30/2007 4:05:56 PM | You know what, I don't think I've ever experienced that. Any woman who would date me would go to bed with me. I don't mean on the first or second date, but if she wasn't interested in me that way, why would she continue to see me, and vice versa? That's the whole point of dating isn't it, to select a mate. As far as seduction is concerned, It has usually been the woman who made the first move, and not very subtlely either. The attraction between us was always pretty obvious to us both and not just sexual either.
As an example some years ago, I met a woman in an old bookstore, a favorite "haunt" of mine and started chatting with her. It was obvious we both liked books and of a similar type. She wasn't conventionally pretty, but I was immediately attracted to her outgoing aliveness intelligence and interest, so I suggested we go out for coffee. We seemed to hit it off very well, so I asked her out on a date. By the third, date I was completely captivated and wanted her in bed in the worst way. That evening, we were finishing a nice dinner at a local restaurant when she looked up at me and said, "I have to tell you, I have a problem." A little worried I asked, what her problem was and she replied, "I have a problem with sex". My heart just dropped to the floor. I thought well she isn't nearly as attracted as I am, or she has some sort of sexual hangup. I asked what her problem was with sex and she replied, "I like it, I like it a while lot!". Turned out her last boyfriend wasn't very responsive to her and became less and less so with time and she was worried about me. I said well, lets just finish up our desert quick and go back to your place and see if we can do someting about your problem. Big seduction scene, right?
We quickly moved in together and lived together for several months. The relationship eventually failed because of differences in lifestyle and objectives but the sex was always superb. I don't know really. I think the whole seduction thing is mostly a myth. I've never "seduced" a woman who didn't want to be seduced. | |
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| question about seduction for ladies and men
Posted: 6/30/2007 4:22:12 PM | Saying no once i'm already into it is pretty difficult for me. That's why I won't start making out with a guy when I know it's too soon. I can still stop once getting going, but it takes a ton of will power.
Obviously if I am not that into the guy then it is pretty easy. I just don't want to. But when my body is saying yes, and my mind says "I like this guy but it's too soon", I find it harder to stop. | |
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| question about seduction for ladies and men
Posted: 6/30/2007 5:29:18 PM | | I am a comedian of some note damn it. I wrote Carson's final joke on the tonight show as the curtain came past his face after a 30 year stint on the tonight show. So can i joke around here? | |
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| question about seduction for ladies and men
Posted: 6/30/2007 6:40:34 PM | | If you enjoy the intamcy and you trust the other person why would you say no? Unless you are just giving into your hang-ups in which case, you should just go home. | |
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