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 sassyaquarius

Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 126
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Posted: 9/10/2008 6:59:19 PM
DA responded when asked who would ask believers to disobey God's law:
Happens all the time, darlin. Just ask a priest in Canada who was incarcerated for preaching the Word of God, as he was instructed to in the NT.
He was ordered to refrain from preaching and chose to disobey mans law because it forced him to disobey Gods Law..
Here is the truth of it:
"We don't set public policy or moral standards. We investigate complaints based on the circumstances and the details outlined in the complaint. And … if … upon investigation, deem that there is sufficient evidence, then we may forward the complaint to the tribunal, but the hate is defined in the Human Rights Act under section 13-1.
The priest wasn't incarcerated, he is being INVESTIGATED for crying out loud, you make it sound like the dark ages when you were killed for "heresy"

His preaching also took place during a debate on same sex marriage.

His beliefs, whether backed by biblical scripture or not has no bearing on the law. Same sex marriage is legal in Canada like it or not.

So are you sharpening up your sword? Wouldn't want to disobey God's law would ya?
 dunrich

Joined: 5/13/2006
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Posted: 9/10/2008 7:46:24 PM
His beliefs, whether backed by biblical scripture or not has no bearing on the law. Same sex marriage is legal in Canada like it or not.


Similar argument is being made in the States right now, actually there was a forum about that topic recently.

For me, when it comes to my morals or the mans law, I will pick mine if it is worthy of facing the consequences. In my mind, I am making the moral choice because I am willing to face the penalty, pay for my sin against mans law.

I do not believe a Priest should be forced to do something against his moral beliefs, or a Doctor, engineer what ever.

My biggest argument agaisnt same sex marriage was this one actually. Sooner or later some one will sue a clergy member, or in the other case a Doctor, for discrimination because of their religious belief. For me, personal religious belief is paramount. But then again, I admit I am rather jaded about vows of marriage anyway, do not understand why Gays want to to have a religious ceremony.

That is a moral dilemma for those involved.
 sassyaquarius

Joined: 4/10/2006
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Posted: 9/10/2008 7:49:19 PM

I do not believe a Priest should be forced to do something against his moral beliefs, or a Doctor, engineer what ever.
And in this I TOTALLY agree.

The priest being discussed in the link quoted wasn't being asked to perform a marriage ceremony, and just so you know DA:
TORONTO, JULY 8, 2008 (Zenit.org).- The Canadian Human Rights Commission has closed its case against Father Alphonse de Valk, the editor and publisher of Catholic Insight magazine. “After examining this information, the commission decided [...] to dismiss the complaint because the material is not likely to expose a person or persons to hatred or contempt based on sexual orientation.”
Its always good to keep your info accurate and current ;)
 JPubLLC

Joined: 4/5/2007
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Posted: 9/11/2008 10:21:43 PM
"I will offer one suggestion as to why christians act as they do. Imagine someone who has been blind all there life having an operation and being able to see. Imagine what a feeling it would be to see a rainbow the first day with your new sight. I can imagine the person being very excited and wanting to make sure everyone around seen it. Even though we've seen many of them and it is insignifigant to us, to the person who was blind it is something that needs to be pointed out."


That's a horrible analogy. Getting one's sight back is something they would have cause to celebrate, but if I one day became convinced that there was an invisible flying dragon living in my basement and went around to everyone to excitedly tell them about my new "friend", that would be quite different.
 tuckerjo

Joined: 5/11/2008
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Posted: 9/11/2008 10:23:59 PM
I believe that there are good and moral people everywhere of every faith or who have no religious beliefs at all. Do I want to live my life with someone of a different faith or who believes in nothing ? No I do not, as I want to share my entire life with someone , not just pieces of it here and there.
 Diva_31

Joined: 6/24/2008
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Posted: 9/12/2008 9:16:01 AM
A person can live a good life without believing in God. I am one of these people. I don't commit crime, I don't have affairs with others, I don't smoke, or do drugs....

But...I do believe in personal choices, personal faith, personal morals...sex before marriage.

So I don't believe in God or organized religion, does that lump me into the rapist category or make me a bad person? I think not.
 JPubLLC

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Posted: 9/12/2008 9:35:13 AM
Diva 31 said:

" I don't commit crime, I don't have affairs with others, I don't smoke, or do drugs....But...I do believe in personal choices, personal faith, personal morals...sex before marriage."

Hmmm......okay, so I just have 3 questions!

1. Are you busy Satuday night?
2. Care to relocate to the U.S.?
3. Where do you want to go for the honeymoon?



 mm2k

Joined: 6/17/2007
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Posted: 9/12/2008 3:36:24 PM
Well, look at it this way. Do all people without morals have no religion? There is no correlation to morals and non-religion. As well, since more people on this planet believe in a religion, then it's reasonable to say that there are more people who are religious that have no morals than those who aren't religious.
 trippy_hare

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Posted: 9/12/2008 3:49:30 PM
Hello again, Raziel. ^_^


So my question is, Do people without a religion, truely have no morals?


In my experience, it is usually the religious who have questionable morality. Without a higher power to sate with sacrifices or conversions, without threat of BAD afterlife and bribe of GOOD afterlife, a person is left with only themselves to judge their actions. This can make some people selfish, sure, but in my experience, it usually leads to the opposite. A desire to make one's life better, the lives around oneself better. The realization that without religion, we only have this one existence, and ought to cherish it.

One of the nicest people I have ever met was a Nihilist: her philosophy was "nothing matters, everything fades away. We have, in effect, only this ONE DAY to really live. So what's stopping us?"

It depends on the person, of course. But I have found far more religious people to be tyrants and bigots, and far more non-religious people to be compassionate and caring.
 dunrich

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Posted: 9/12/2008 9:15:40 PM

depends on the person, of course. But I have found far more religious people to be tyrants and bigots, and far more non-religious people to be compassionate and caring.


Depends on the person, yes.

More religious though? Maybe the vocal ones , but how many good religious people are quiet about their faith?

I kind of get a kick out of those who like to mention the hate spewed Evangelists, mention the crusades all the time. They do like to forget about the Lennins , Hitlers and Pol Pots though. Put a number, percentage on this? I do not think one can do this.

Comes down to there are good people , some believe and some do not , depends on the person.
 trippy_hare

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Posted: 9/15/2008 5:12:22 PM

Depends on the person, yes.

More religious though? Maybe the vocal ones , but how many good religious people are quiet about their faith?


A valid point. Though, if they are queit about it, the chance that I have spoken with them on this subject is slim, thus they are not added to the pool of my experience from which I draw conclusions. :-P


I kind of get a kick out of those who like to mention the hate spewed Evangelists, mention the crusades all the time. They do like to forget about the Lennins , Hitlers and Pol Pots though. Put a number, percentage on this? I do not think one can do this.


I fail to see the comparison you are drawing. Hitler's animosity was both ethnic and religious, Lennin did not think religion should be a factor in running a state, and Pol Pot's mass murder revolved more around regressing to a pre-industrial culture: forcing city-dwellers onto labor camps and collective farms, where little medical care was available and the inexperienced, modernistic urbanites had no working knowledge of how to produce enough food to sustain themselves.


Comes down to there are good people , some believe and some do not , depends on the person.


*applause* Brilliantly said!
 seattlerain11

Joined: 9/17/2007
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Posted: 9/15/2008 9:05:40 PM
"Morals" and religion are mutually exclusive... (that means one has absolutely NOTHING to do with the other).

There are "immoral" religious people and "moral" non-religious people.

The word "moral" should always be used in quotes anyway since the word is in constant flux and thus nearly meaningless. From my experience, those shouting the loudest about how moral they are are usually the least moral of the group.

We could have a discussion about moral relativism if you'd like. . . that is, "morality" is relative to a specific time and culture, but that's another can of worms, isn't it?


James, Seattle (sort of), Washington, USA, Earth
 seattlerain11

Joined: 9/17/2007
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Posted: 9/15/2008 9:14:41 PM

Dunrich said:
I do not believe a Priest should be forced to do something against his moral beliefs, or a Doctor, engineer what ever.

My biggest argument agaisnt same sex marriage was this one actually. Sooner or later some one will sue a clergy member, or in the other case a Doctor, for discrimination because of their religious belief. For me, personal religious belief is paramount. But then again, I admit I am rather jaded about vows of marriage anyway, do not understand why Gays want to to have a religious ceremony.

There's a HUGE difference between doctors, government, and corporations and Private Religious Organizations. By law, organizations that work with the general public have to treat everyone equally while churches and private clubs can discriminate all they want... personally, I don't even have a problem with that.

Why don't you understand why religious people wouldn't want to have a religious marriage ceremony? It seems quite self-explanatory to me. There are MANY churches who gladly and lovingly perform marriage ceremonies for same sex couples already anyway, so what's your beef?

James, Seattle, Washington, USA, Earth
 romanticoptimist

Joined: 10/1/2007
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Posted: 9/15/2008 10:17:49 PM
FYI: The Canadian law that allows same sex marriage specifically prohibits any person from being forced to perform a same sex marriage ceremony against their personal convictions.

Therefore, it is impossible for a Priest to be forced to perform a marriage of two same sex partners. And it's impossible for him to be charged with or convicted of any offence in relationship to his refusal.
 LMNTLMagick

Joined: 8/20/2008
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Posted: 9/17/2008 11:04:18 AM
I have tried on a few religions in my life and I have found that those in any religion (or non-religion) contains both saints and sinners, liars and wonderful people. I do not think a specific religion only attracts devout sweet people who have never lied, cheated on their taxes or had an impure thought.

I think all religions in their ideal form contain beautiful things. I practice a mish-mash of different philosophies but most people would say I am the religion of what my parents are, regardless if I practice or not. I never found a religion I agree with everything about.

I tend to date mainly very religious people and it never works out. I dated a Mormon this past year and he definitely broke strict church policy of pre-marital sexual relations. Ofcourse, he never admitted it to his church elders. He also seemed to like watching that Hugh Hefner show on tv with playmates when I came by. Not my thing but he was heavily into scantily clad women and (he admitted) strip clubs. But yet he said he was the perfect Mormon. He was born Catholic but left that church because he said Catholics were hypocrites (obviously not nice to say and he didn't know every Catholic person in the world).

It depends on the person, not the religion.

Even what I practice now mainly (I'm not telling but you can probably guess from my name LMNTLMagick) there are many different denominations that are very different from each other. I don't worship naked but several do. I don't want to have sex during a religious service but some do. It doesn't make someone bad for doing so, we're all different. I believe though, that many of us just take the religion we were born into and water it down a bit or don't practice it if we don't agree.

I think the morals and ethics get a bit corrupted due to religions becoming 501-c3's (non-profit) and are obsessed with taking money from its parishioners.

Communication with spirit should be free. Trees and frogs don't pay to enjoy a sunny day or God, why should we? And trouble begins when different faiths believe "My God/(gods) can beat up your God/(gods).

I like the religion of nature. Just jump around, enjoy the sun, have romantic interludes on a dark night outside with the crickets chirping and enjoy good food when you can. Have you ever noticed animals don't tend to cheat on their taxes, lie to others, nor stab someone (in the back) out of jealousy or for a $20? Religion does have morals in their texts usually (or at least practices/beliefs for people to follow). I think religion sort of acts as a spiritual government/police force so people won't get into nasty mischief and thus the rules: don't kill, don't covet, don't lie, etc. At its heart, religion wants people to have morals.

My real religion is myself and how I live my life. Only one member: me. Definitely not a 501-c3. Thank goodness.
 ichi-bon

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Posted: 3/22/2009 2:04:54 PM
I think all humans have a basic inherent knowledge of right and wrong. But morals like anything else have to be taught, cultivated, and adherred to.

There is a very different set of morals for this generation like no other, and our parents thought the same of ours.

I lived with my first husband before we married and I always felt guilty about that....even to the point it affected our marriage. I have had sex outside of marriage before....but I can't honestly say it did not affect me.........it did......because between what I believe and what I have been taught.....even outside of my Christianity........I feel it is wrong. I am not saying that Christianity is the only belief either, because I respect everyone's right to what they believe.
I am NOT JUDGING ANYONE..........lest I judge myself. I am human and have the same basic need for love, affection, sex, etc as anyone else.
I just have to stop and ask myself is what I am about to do, going to be worth the guilt I will feel.
That applys to being angry with someone for little or no reason, ommission of not doing something I know to be right, sex, using someone........even if they are willing, so many things.

I know a lot of people that have no religion at all or are agnostic...that have very high morals.
I don't honestly think everyone is trying to judge someone. For me at least, I am no better, no more moralistic than anyone else....but I must admit that SOMETIMES I am just FLAT OUT FLABBERGASTED at what is considered right and wrong these days.

I know I was protected and sheltered in some ways by being the only girl of five, and having a loving protective husband that cherished me.....but some of these things I read are waaaaaaaaaaaaay out there.
I have a male friend that is also on here... we talk sometimes about the forums.......he thinks I am still very naive in some ways.. and hold to a strong set of values..........maybe so.........but.......I don't think that is a BAD thing
 VVendy

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Posted: 3/22/2009 6:26:19 PM
Humans have no morals if you do not believe me look at the news and open a history book. Without some outside force to keep them controlled they are worse than animals as most animals do not kill for sport.

Religion gives moral guide lines but it has to be followed and corrupt leadership makes it laughable at times if you read the Bible at one point God said he'd like to talk but every one is so drunk that they could not hear Him.
 taurus516

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Posted: 4/10/2009 1:12:12 PM
Here is a point of view from scientist and science fiction writer, the late Arthur C. Clarke:


“The greatest tragedy in mankind's entire history may be
the hijacking of morality by religion.”

Arthur C Clarke


Religion and morality go together like boiled beef and carrots. You often find them together but it is perfectly possible to have one without the other.

Many people have swallowed the idea that morality started with religion to such an extent that they cannot separate the two. I myself was under the impression that religion had a significant causative link to morality until quite recently when I came to see the truth.

Man is a primate. All primates have innate morality. A moral sense is vitally important to the efficient running of any society or group. There are no amoral primate groups anywhere. The Mafia have morals, baboons have codes. There are differences between the various groups and their codes of morality but all primate groups have some morals and standards of behaviour. Religion is also very common but it is not universal and it did not cause the codes or the instinct to observe them. These are facts that need to be clearly stated. Morality does not require religion.

In Eastern Europe and the Soviet Union millions of people were brought up during the middle decades of the twentieth century in a state that was thoroughly atheist and many of the households and communities within those states were also atheist. There was no collapse of morality. You were not more likely to be robbed, raped, murdered or cheated in Leningrad than you were in Manchester. Why? Why did people freed from the fear of divine retribution not suddenly start behaving like amoral animals? Because we are animals. We are political animals, animals that need to live within societies and feel respected by them.

Religion is not the bulwark of morality any more than the****rel crowing if the cause of the dawn or the virgin sacrifices are the cause of the volcano keeping quiet. This trick has been perpetrated on people for centuries and people continue to fall for it. It is very reminiscent of the great Santa Claus conspiracy. The surest way to lose a job on television is to state clearly that there is no such person as Santa Claus. No adult believes in Santa Claus, but most are part of the conspiracy. We mustn't let children know that there is no Santa Claus because ... er, well, because. And we mustn't let the people, especially the poor, know there is no God because, well, because. We wouldn't want to face those consequences would we?

What is there to be afraid of in the truth that God is just as much an imaginary being as the bogeyman, the Easter Bunny, Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy? None whatsoever. Morality in our species does not rest upon fear of God. We act morally because to do so makes us feel good about ourselves and makes us better friends and allies. Being good and moral is the right thing to do for your own selfish self interest. The best thing we can do as a society to make morality more widespread and more potent is to strip away all aspects of religion from it. Being good is the right thing to do because it simply is the right thing. We as a species have an innate sense of morality just as we have an innate ability to learn language. We need it. We are political animals. We have an innate sense of what is or is not fair. We need respect and the esteem of our neighbours, friends and colleagues. This makes us behave morally.

Our morality breaks down with anonymity. It is no surprise that the biggest cities in the world have the most selfish drivers. If you drive in a small town in Kansas you see people being polite and well mannered not because they fear the wrath of God but simply because in small communities people expect to interact again with you at another time. In contrast in New York, Hong Kong or Rome the rule of the road is to curse and never trust the other driver.

The way to keep morality and lose the encumbrances of religion is to promote morality in and of itself. We as a species know what morality is and we recognize moral behaviour when we see it. We are naturally moral because we have developed complex instincts to help us in social situations. These instincts work as long as we allow them instead of burying them in external threats and admonishments. The ten commandments do not help us discover ultimate morality. We all know it when we see it. The way to get people to behave in a moral way is to trust them, to integrate them and to allow them to develop fully as individuals in a caring society. People will only act as amoral criminals if they fall into a criminal subculture, are mentally deficient in morality (rare conditions do exist that cause these problems) or are in a situation in which crime really does pay in a way that can become a life choice.

However you cannot create a moral society with nothing but kindness. We also need something else, something deeply unfashionable but vital to the healthy running of any society: intolerance. We must promote intolerance of criminality and cheating. We as social animals naturally despise the cheat and the thief, but too many liberal bed-wetter types have been telling us that the thief only steals because of what we do to him. This line must be resisted and fought from both ends. We must both minimize the lure of cheating by ensuring that all can live without falling into crime and at the same time promote natural justice in the community. Criminals must be ostracized. But this is not enough. People who use the glamour of crime and immorality vicariously to achieve their legal business ends must also be shunned. Refuse to watch films that glamorize crime and violence. Refuse to buy music produced by violently antisocial people. Walk away from people who talk about such things. If you are introduced to somebody who makes their living from glorifying violence and crime wipe your hand and walk away. They might claim that they are just satisfying a demand, they are right, but we as individuals should see to it that we never add to that demand and do all we can to spurn those that do.

God cannot punish the wrongdoer or the man who sells his products with images of crime and violence but we can. How many crimes have been prevented by the fear of God? Do Christians never commit crime or sin? Do atheists spend all their days stealing from charity collection boxes, murdering strangers and sexually abusing children? There is no link between belief in the supernatural and God and morality. If the only reason a Christian can give for continued belief in his incredible theory is the idea that such a belief is a useful tool to keep the poor from falling into immorality then his religion is morally bankrupt. The only purpose I can see in religion is as a way to catch the attention in order to reinforce the messages of the natural morality that we as a species are already responding to. It cannot be beyond the wit of our species to come up with other ways to spread lessons of morality than this. Surely the poor and the dangerous will be inclined to listen more clearly if we treat them as adults rather than simply threatening them with the bogeyman again?

“When I was a kid, I used to pray every night for a new bicycle. Then I realized that the Lord, in his wisdom, didn't work that way. So I just stole one and asked him to forgive me.”
Emo Philips


Religion is NOT needed for morality to exist.
 RSwindol

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^^^Nice article. I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one that understands this.
Simply put, morals aren't driven by religion, but religion is driven by existing morals.

To prove my point further, take a look at how many divorced people are churchgoers. 50 years ago there were very, very few divorcees found in churches because is was considered a great sin. Today, even though it's still considered a sin, it's become a well accepted sin (like a little white lie) due to the dramatic rise of the divorce rate. So religion had to adapt. If they were to shun every member that has been through a divorce, then there would be few members left, and their congregations would dwindle to nothing.

I would be surprised if churches even taught that divorce was wrong thirty years from now. And like I said, this is only one example of how modern religion is constantly in transition to keep up with our morals.
 JPubLLC

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Posted: 4/16/2009 3:07:43 PM
As for moralls without religion, well there have been plenty enough studies to show that religion is completely unnecisery to having a moral compas. Just look at the top ten list of athiest countries.
"1. Sweden (up to 85% non-believer, atheist, agnostic)
2. Vietnam
3. Denmark
4. Norway
5. Japan
6. Czech Republic
7. Finland
8. France
9. South Korea
10. Estonia (up to 49% non-believer, atheist, agnostic)


I need to get a ticket for a vacation in sweden. My second choice would be Japan. I can't deal with people who believe in invisible people in the sky.
 The Black wolf

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Posted: 7/29/2009 1:10:59 PM
jpubllc,

I have to agree with you on that one as i was growing up i was raised to respect others to not swear etc and religion had nothing to do with it having morals.

What is a moral lets find out, A moral is teaching or exhibiting goodness or correctness of character and behavior another words learning whats right from wrong then again how could something have the impulse to take the right course of action if there was no right or wrong to begin with?



Morals could not have been the source of itself. If morals were the product of evolution then why should the strong cooperate with the weak when its all about survival of the fittest"? Why should we feel compassion for the weak, unable, and retarded people? If evolution strives to ultimately aim for survival then how can it explain why people commit suicide, engaged in destructive behavior with substance abuse, or take noble risk of their lives for others? If one group of species were in direct competition to their equal counter parts but were more moral, does that mean that they would out do their competition?

But again when you see someone being mugged and calling for help, our stronger instinct tells us to be safe by running away as oppose to our weaker instinct telling us to help. However, there is a third thing that suppress the stronger one and encourages the weaker one that we ought to help and that itself can not be instinct.

If morals had a natural source through genetics, then it is not objective or absolute, there is no right or wrong, and our values are equivalent to that in which we came from, slime, since we have no grounds to say we are morally better; The only reason why you are understanding about morals is because you are genetically engineered to do so.

Even if morals were genetically subjective, then we shouldn't blame people for murder, rape, and stealing because they were hard wired like that. Its permissible. It would just be one's opinion over the other so get over it and stop whining and complaining!!

What does religion have to do with morals?

Well religion just packages that in belief and dogma and passes it off as its own teacings
To say it's a sin to do something wrong what if the person was not wrong and was in the right another words if you where calthic and you where told to not have sex untill marriage but you had feeling for your partner why is that wrong to exspress your feeling if it's a part of nature why does marriage have to do with a relationshipwhat if they dont want marriage is that wrong?
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