wocali
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Joined: 6/22/2006
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Posted: 3/28/2007 9:50:51 PM | | im 49 and im very attracted to younger men and they are attracted to me..im talking like 21 22 23 24 ish....the heart wants what the heart wants..i fel older women no more now then younger girls and we are much more experienced in the boudoir as well..there is going to be drama and baggage in every relationship unless u meet someone in high school and get married .....no one is perfect or has perfect lives if we did there wouldmt be any SSOAP OPERAS ON TV....NOT ALL MEN MAKE MORE $$$ THAN THE WOMAN.. one guy said that on here ..some women have the moolah.well thats my 2 cents and if there are any cute yung guys out there email me... | |
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Posted: 4/16/2007 3:44:46 PM | | Am I considered an older man ... at 45? I would certainly say that older woman are definitely more devine and interesting lovers. They are more intouch with their sensuallity and let themselve go free to enjoy the breath of sexual pleasures that are available. In the same breath I would also say ... that I feel very young at 45 and believe that my experience, finess and stamina are much seperior to the days of the 20's and early 30's. So madamoisel ... please do not throw out the good with the bad! | |
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Posted: 4/18/2007 1:10:13 PM | wocali, i would definitely not be embarrassed to be seen at a restaurant with you! 49 and still beautiful, though i have to admit curiosity at why your profile says 33? lol.
i can see how a 21 yo can be in a relationship with a 49 yo... expecially if she's active and fun. even one or two years down the line, no problem, but what about 10 years down the line. He'll be 31 and she'll be pushing 60. i have a hard time seeing any sort of lasting relationship when you can't physically do any of the activities he wants to do. i truly believe that love conquers all and if you really want it, go for it. i just don't see a lot of these relationships lasting past the thrill of being in a younger/older relationship. no matter which one is the elder. doesn't mean you can't keep looking. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2007 9:07:22 PM | Hi I am Longnthick, I am not sure about the more experience in everything with older women, but I do think older women have some baggage with them. I also believe they are set in their ways, this could be both good and bad. Really its up to what two people want in the relationship. Give and take is what make any age group work in a relationship. Age does play some factors in the relationship.
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Posted: 4/19/2007 9:27:57 AM | | So what IF an older woman is with a younger man. I happen to have a very caring relationship with a 19 year old guy. His mentality is far beyond his years. There is no drama in our relationship and yes I have kids and would love to have more but unfortunately can't. Where the **** do you get off saying that men make more money than women. I supported my ex-husband for the entire time we were married and continue to support myself. You get all high and mighty on the topic of older women and younger men and that we cougars bring nothing but drama to the table. But when an older man "snags" a younger woman than she becomes the "trophy", and that's ok with society. But older women dating younger men is somehow "wrong"? What's the difference? I have found that younger women bring more drama to any relationship. I have dated younger women as well as older women and alot of the younger ones don't know what they want out of life so what the hell makes you think they know what they want from a relationship? | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 2:33:29 PM | Maria82871, I agree with you completely! Men my age want to rest, relax, be settled. I did all that in my 20's. Now i want to get out, go out. Dance, actually LIVE life. My child is old enough that i don't have to keep an eye on her 24/7. So why sit around watching tv, and listening to a guy snore on the sofa? Younger men are ready to go out, explore, hike, drink, dance. Well just about anything. To put a disclaimer here, this is from MY personal experience. So yes i date younger men.
Also a question here. Why do men old enough to be my father hit on me? Why do men in there 60's and up, think i would ever go for them?? Just a curious question, ty. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 3:23:55 PM |
Why do men in there 60's and up, think i would ever go for them?? Just a curious question,
Because some of them are young in spirit. Some even look young enough to pull it off. As I have said, the heart will tell one where to go. I stopped considering ages many MANY years ago............. and I am going to say that many different ages "hit" on me. Some I am interested in, some I am not..............
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Posted: 4/20/2007 3:03:12 PM | | Idealistically age shouldn't be a factor either way in a relationship. My parents were 20yrs apart, mind you it was my dad that was the older. But they had a great relationship, and honestly he NEVER looked his age...LOL I think my mom kept him young. The only problem I have with the age thing is, as a mom... I think this kid could be my son. And that's something I have a hard time getting past. | |
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Posted: 4/20/2007 5:41:58 PM | | give me a break. not all older women have kids, i don't. i have a great life and if i want to share it with someone young and handsome, why shouldn't i???? what do older women bring to the table? how about, maturity, sensibility, experience, kindness, their own bank account and homes? i am also pretty sure i make more than enough money to be happy. i like younger men for their company, we never have to meet their friends or families, to most younger men an older woman is their dirty little secret. i don't need a man, i just like them. stick that in your pipe and smoke it! | |
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Posted: 4/20/2007 6:21:51 PM | | No one said all older women have kids. A queston was asked, and answered. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I see from your post you like to date younger men, and be their dirty little secret. Well good for you. And good luck with that. But don't condemn someone for not thinking the way you do. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2007 8:27:12 PM | | I guess you haven't meet the right older women yet, because if you did you wouldn't have that attitude. We are great, we don't have any cares and our family is all grown up and we can do whatever we feel like doing and going. Sooooooooooooooooooo like I said you haven't meet the right one yet. To bad you don't know what your missing. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2007 8:31:20 PM | | good for you!!!! I see you know your not missing anything because you get it. And we older women love men with your outlook. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2007 9:12:24 PM | Its all speculative.....It is ignorance that dictates choices, not age (to a point) and so forth. Though I do believe above 10 years at most may not be so healthy. Nothing is written in stone, my two aunts are both married to younger men by 10 years, theyve been married over 25 years, happily. My father went for the younger gold digger who by age 50 ballooned up, was very unattractive and inflicted by bad health. He could run circles around her and so could my mom who was 10 years older then her. The older gal younger guy has been around for quite along time. Getting married and having children is very nice, it also is not easy and its not for everyone. So, unfortunately, close-mindedness may close the door for many which may have found the right person. Nothing is written in stone and I really despise all these criteria's, you get one life, live it your way & with whom makes you happy as opposed to the way that others choose you to. | |
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Posted: 4/24/2007 7:04:13 AM | An older woman esp. if she is very attractive to the older man and there is a chemistry is in an advantageous situation to enjoy herself with a for now exp. so to speak. Although it may not have a future or even may yet is really not open to the outside judgement. People Judge!
What goes on between two should remain so.
Younger men have far less issues at times than older and less baggage ~
Older men see nothing wrong with a younger woman, why should it be hypocritically different for women. People in this society place a lot of emphasis on how old people are and the age of those they date whether older or younger. Just live life ~ | |
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Posted: 4/24/2007 9:22:25 AM | As I stated earlier in this thread, not all older woman are "cougars". Cougars are those who deliberately go after young men and boys for the intention of sexual encounters.
Now, when a young man approaches me and wants to date me, hell - I'm fine with that. Why not? That doesn't make me a cougar or any other such derogatory acronym. It makes me a vital, sexy, attractive older woman.
As long as the couple are consenting adults, what does it matter? | |
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Posted: 4/24/2007 9:53:07 AM | I love the fact that there are so many women on this particular post that are on the same page!!! | |
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Posted: 4/25/2007 7:05:53 AM | it's def a double standard but it goes both ways. i went out with a 41 yo for a while and all my male friends thought i was insane and my female friends shrugged and didn't care. but when i dated a 19 yo my male friends were thrilled and my female friends thought it was gross that i would date someone that young even though she was technically closer to my age than the 41 yo. it's all a matter of perspective. personally unless they're underage i don't even ask about age. if i like a person i like them and we go from there.
there's also a cultural aspect. i was talking to this asian girl and her cousin the other day and when she found out i was 29 she wouldn't tell me her age. it turned out that both her and her cousin didn't think i would want to date an older woman and she was embarrassed to tell me her age. finally i got it out of her... she was 31. it was a struggle not to laugh. i've never met anyone so worried about a 2 year difference but it was a big deal for both of them, they thought i wouldn't be interested in her anymore... on the other hand, older hispanic women twice my age seem to have NO problem walking up and talking to me. lol. | |
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Mia828
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Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 72 | |
| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 4/25/2007 7:56:27 AM | Thank you Redrihannon
I went on a date with a very nice man in his 40's. [10 years old] Oh and very handsome. The whole time I wanted to go shot pool maybe have a drink after dinner not just a glass of wine with dinner. He just wanted to eat, walk around the city and hold my hand. Don't get me...he is sweet. But I don't know you well enough to hold your hand and we're walking around the city [west side village] and there were so many happening spots. All he talked about was his job, retirement, and ect.
I feel bad now, but I end the night fast with him. 
Later that evening I met a very nice younger man 28 yo. at one of the spots I wanted to check out. Let me tell you I had a great time with him. We sat we at the bar, share some chicken wings, drink a beer and listen to the band place. That's all it took for me to have a good time. Not so fancy dinner and then mindless chatter. Just some real fun.
Safe for me to say...I do prefer younger men. But that's because I look and act younger. So it depends on the person. You know what I mean? | |
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Posted: 4/25/2007 9:23:26 AM | | there does seem to be a pattern. overall it seems women get more relaxed and fun loving as they get older and men get more serious. that's why you'll never see me dating an older man. | |
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Mia828
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Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 74 | |
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Posted: 4/25/2007 10:28:03 AM | | Are you in the habit of dating men more your own age, Swede?! What are you divulging here?! LMAO | |
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