| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 4/4/2008 6:42:36 AM | O.K. Ladies lets face the facts!!! We all feel good when a younger guy hits on us..It's a good feeling to know that "WE STILL GOT IT". I have always dated younger not by choice , just what I always attract. I for one never met a guy my age that turned my head in a spin. The guys in my age group look and act a heck of a lot older than they really are, "YUK" not interested!!! So while we still can, grab the brass ring and GO FOR IT!. We deserve it!!!..................... | |
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| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 4/4/2008 12:31:33 PM | IMO, I think that "Age Separation" really does decline as you get older.
There's a far bigger difference between the ages at 18 - 25. There's a lot of growing going on during that time. Once you hit your mid 20's, you're somewhat more stable and you grow slower mentally. So, age is simply a number and it's a rough gage of maturity IMO.
Soooo... Go for it ladies!
Older women rock! | |
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| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 4/12/2008 7:55:52 PM | " Oh, and there IS that little "extra" on my part ---the fact that I'm only attracted to white guys...but, that's a whole other post all together...LOL"
I'm curious. If you don't mind me asking, is there any particular reason for that? | |
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Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 155 | |
| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:28:26 AM | | Sounds good to me. I am 45 and would like a better sexual relationship as in longer active time and less work getting it there. yes ladies at thhis point it is all about sex. Have the kids (grown) the house, the job, an education etc... just dont have a good sex life, which sucks. Of course things take time but I am running out of that lol | |
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ddo
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Joined: 11/12/2007
Msg: 157 | |
| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 4/29/2008 6:36:17 PM | I have to say that I too, like younger men. Not into the 20 year olds, but 30's and so forth. Men my age are to old for me. I have a zest for life and want to do so much. Older men just want to hang and not do much. I'm sure that not all older men, but the ones I have met! Keep fishing and good luck!
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| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 5/19/2008 8:39:06 PM | | As long as everyone is having fun and safe whats the harm? Just dont send mixed messages but that can happen at any age | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 7:14:46 AM | | As my Plenty of Fish ID username indicates, I love older women. Contrary to popular belief, women get better with age! | |
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| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 6/19/2008 2:20:27 AM | I date older women because it's less of a headache than dealing with younger women. They know what they want and how to ask for it. They have more to offer when it comes down mental stimulation. Most of the older ladies I have dated have a greater understanding of passion, and know what truly turns them on. I hear my friends talk about these young girls and I laugh because I see them all stressed out dealing with all the games their lil girlfriends play. "Cougars" seem appreciate the time you spend with them. They show you that they value your time by making it pleasant; always willing to show you their appreciation via action. They are adventurous having a "life is too short for bullshit" mentality. I haven't dated a woman my age or younger since my junior year of high school. I think a woman's body gets better with time contrary to popular belief. I made the switch by the time when I was a senior in HS and never looked back...I don't miss the mind games either. Hats off to the sexy confident beautiful older women out there that are not afraid to do what makes them happy. You ladies Rule!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 3:42:25 PM | | I disagree - I was married to an older woman with 2 children 8 year diff - Some men dont just go for what they can get. Personally I am a great believer in the person not the date of birth on the passport | |
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| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 8/24/2008 10:22:26 AM | It's been my experience that younger men don't have all of the jadedness that older men have. The men in my age range (36-45) are looking for younger women who don't want the commitment because they have that "been there, done that" attitude and just want someone to hang around with at their leisure.
The younger guys are looking for someone with experience who they don't have to worry about dealing with the leftover teeny bopper silliness.
I've dated a few guys who were younger than me and the experience was an interesting one. One guy was very mature, intelligent, loving and kind but when it came to sticking to plans, he was a flake on more than one occasion. Other than that, I'm all for dating younger men.
I'm with the lady who said, "I'm a cougar and proud of it". If the men my age can't get it together then younger men is where it's at. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2008 10:36:36 PM | I really need to respond to you on this one Classyblondmale...
Older woman and younger men are the best combination since bread and butter...lol...
Most younger men who are into older women are sexy, fun, energetic, respectful and have amazing endurance in the bedroom. Older woman are more interested, more confident and more independent. All of which makes them sexy and sensual not to mention passionate and fun. (so not vanilla) Older women won't bring drama into the mix or stand for any. I make more money then 1/3 of the men I date so money is not a motive here at all. As far as wanting more children I'm done with that part of my life so you'll never hear honey... I have something to tell you...lol...............Older woman don't ask....... " WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL" They're too busy to realize you haven't done so.
" Younger girls MAKE you come home.. Older women make you WANT to come home"
Thursday I have a dinner date with a 32 year old man... any questions? I didn't think so....
Jeannie
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| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 10/4/2008 1:45:52 AM | Hon, I don't know what planet your are from, but let me share a little personal wisdom with you regarding A FEW OF THE THINGS "OLDER WOMEN HAVE TO OFFER:
1. Fine Older Women are established in their careers;
[Personally, -- I am a Jaguar/Cougar AND I am in Real Estate -- Currently earning in the high 6 Figures (B4T)].
2. IF they (Older Women) have kids, they have left the nest;
[I Have NO KIDS! THUS NO STRETCH MARKS!!]
3. This is NYC, in (the year of our lord ) 2008, -- Most of us take Very Good Care of Ourselves.
[ I HAVE AN A** THAT MAKES 20 YEAR OLDS "HOLLA" When I walk By!
In fact, if I hear "Hey Ma, You Have a Hell Of A Future in Front of You --- AND Not A BAD PAST" one more time I may scream].
4. We (Older Women)have put all of that "Young Girl" drama to the side.
[ We do not NEED a Man to "Get Our Hair or Nails Done". Nor do WE NEED a man to Pay OUR Cell Phone Bills!
Fact is, my Water, Sewer, Electrical, Gas, Oil and Property Tax Bills are all easily paid - on-time -- every time by Me.
Personally, I would not have it any other way!! This way, Should he leave, "it ain't no skin off my teeth". I would not fell the necessity to replace him quickly or go on a F***ing Spree to find my next benefactor!]
5. Our Men do not have to worry : If He IS The Baby's Father"
[We have FAR TO MUCH Respect FOR Ourselves FOR THAT. ]
6. We are Well Seasoned Lovers................;
7. Our lives are pretty much set to where we want them to be, AND we know our Worth;
[Thus We do not need to NAG and/or Ride the backs of our men].
8. We OWN Our OWN HOMES -- Mortgages PAID IN FULL;
9. WE OWN OUR CARS -- PAID IN FULL!!;
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10. Some of Us Own The BUILDINGS and HOMES YOU YOUNGER WOMEN Are STRUGGLING to LIVE IN!]
10. Furthermore, Many of US are SOOO Busy Traveling, we have Neither the Time nor the Desire to Suck all of the Life out of out men -- BEING NEEDY. Calling him 50 times per day, to ask." What are you doing? Where are you? Where are you going" "Do you miss me?"
If you KNOW YOUR WORTH, you DO NOT t NEED A MAN OR ANYONE TO VALIDATE YOU!!
[Further, we know that If your Man Loves and Respects you, he will carry himself that way, and you will not have a need to "Bug the hell out of him"].
[ The same goes for Mature/Older Woman. We Know how to treat our men, thus there is no need for him to doubt what he has. That is the reason, so few of them Leave their Older Wives/Girlfriends for the "cute piece of ass that happens to low rate themselves -- brushing their asses on the crotches of men in the club -- for what 2 Free Drinks - a quick f*** and 100.00 toward your rent???? Really!]
11. Finally (for now anyway) We have had enough experience to know when a Man Ain't Sh*T, and Enough Sense and Pride in Ourselves to Let Go of an A***** when we run into one --- BEFORE we Spread the LEGS!. It is called Dating!
12. We Date Men before we BED Them.
13. the GOOD MEN get to Hang Around Long Enough for Us to PUT IT ON THEM!!
So you see, Youngster, That, My Dear is but a few -- off -the- cuff reasons why Older Women Rule and Partially lists exactly " What Older Women Have to Offer"!
Lastly,WE KNOW HOW TO SPELL AND/OR USE THE SPELL CHECKER FEATURE LOCATED ON THE TOOL BAR OF EVERY WEB BROWSER !!! | |
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| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 10/19/2008 12:51:23 PM | | hello ms me ,well this is mr, me lol when you get the chance i would definitly like you to email me so i can show you more of me. and for the record im 25 | |
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| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 10/19/2008 5:01:44 PM | I think older women and younger are a great match and I can speak from experience because I host parties for older women and younger guys.
My group "Real Live People Party" was recently interviewed for an HBO series to dispel the negative myths that surround older women and younger guys. Get over it.
You'd be amazed how many matches are made at our events. It's important not to generalize because cougars and cubs each have their own reasons for liking this match combo. It's not just about regular "hooking up" which some people may want to do. And that would be no different from other people looking to hook up. Then there's the other types of cougars and cubs who are really looking for a relationship or to spend quality time with someone or who are in a place in their lives where they want this type of relationship, etc.
Can't we just all be cool about people choosing other options even if it isn't what we would like in our own lives?
Or, better still, come to an event and see the great quality of cougars and cubs who attend. I'm not just saying this to plug the event but to encourage people to be more accepting of those who are different from them or who make different choices to them.
Cheers, Ilana (aka Aussie Cougar) | |
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| NY: Older Women, Younger Men
Posted: 10/20/2008 5:35:51 AM | I am that "jaded older man" LaDivaRose's mentioned.
In my case Marriage/Divorce has hurt me so much financially that I don't want any commitment. On the flip side my ex now has some money to last her until she finds her next benefactor - and with the surgical alterations she had that should make it a bit easier. I can't blame her for wanting a younger man who has a high sex drive if that is what she desires, she is probably starving for it because I became disinterested a while ago when things started to fall apart.
So I say go for that younger man...if the sea is full of men with my attitude you really don't have much other choice. Get him while he is younger because in 10 years he will be me. | |
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