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MB58SC

Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 26
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A bad relationship gets better after living together? Posted: 3/11/2007 6:07:02 AM
You had me at cheating 7 times. You're question makes the baby jesus cry.

ya472

Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 27

A bad relationship gets better after living together? Posted: 3/25/2007 10:24:00 AM
ok, once again to my 18 year old friend who has been dating a 27 year old for 7 months, who, in the past, cheated on her 7 times, broke up with her twice, pulled her hair, lied to her, etc. OK, once again....................... uhmmmm. How many times do you have to keep posting the same information ? Obviously there is NOTHING you can do for your friend, so maybe it is time for you to find a new friend ! GIVE it a REST.

black hole

Joined: 10/14/2006
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A bad relationship gets better after living together? Posted: 3/25/2007 12:13:34 PM
I deffinetly don't think that a bad relationship get's better when you move in with someone ....... i was and am in a similar situation i met my bf when i was 15 he was 22 and we've been together ever since he was really nasty and violent towards me .... and i thought moving in together would stop that but it did'nt it made it worse .... i was'nt aloud to do anything without his say so ..... my family would ring me all the time as they knew he had hurt me badly in the past they where worried .... but i just laughed made jokes n pretended i was alright as he was listening to the conversation when in reality i was sitting there with a black eye n broken nose feeling helpless ...... but hey thats enough about that Dear Deirdre ....... the same thing might be happening to your friend but on the other hand it might not , not every situation is the same ..... the best thing you can do is just be there for her .

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005
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A bad relationship gets better after living together? Posted: 3/25/2007 1:35:24 PM
she is keeping it all behind closed doors until the real big bomb hits and she is in the hospital or he is in jail .............. 18 thinking its love when its abuse and moving to quickly to feel secure when she is putting herself in danger............. like what next if she wants to go out with her friends and comes home late is he gonna have a knife at her throat ...................like come mon ........... if she is sleeping on the couch thats one clue that the abuse is still going on cus when u are newly weds u are inseperatable and sleep all tangled up lol she needs to see it for herself and realize she is in danger

Thattallguy

Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 30

A bad relationship gets better after living together? Posted: 3/25/2007 1:40:12 PM
Shes 18 and doesn't know better...thats my two cents.

karibabes

Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 31

A bad relationship gets better after living together? Posted: 3/31/2007 11:59:00 AM
pulled her hair, lied to her, etc. she moved in with the guy about a month ago, and i have not had a lot of contact with her since, all I know is that she was sleeping on the couch for the first few nights at his place, but when i do talk to her every few weeks, she says how happy she is and everything is good..she says they have their up and downs Your friend is caught in a classic domestic violence situation. She is so young that it is very easy for this man to convince her that he is her only option. Don't be judgemental. Be her friend. Listen when she talks and make sure she knows the number for the Domestic Violence Hotline in your area. If need be let her know that she can keep that number with you. Let her know that anything that hurts whether it is physical or emotional is not love, it is violence and will do serious damage.

yourworseguess

Joined: 3/27/2007
Msg: 32

A bad relationship gets better after living together? Posted: 3/31/2007 1:51:40 PM
blonde eh.... i have never heard of things improving aftter moving in and spending more time together.... this is crazy talk..... its a declining balance

SucidalBlissfullKisses

Joined: 2/8/2007
Msg: 33

A bad relationship gets better after living together? Posted: 3/31/2007 1:54:40 PM
a relationship that may seem uncool

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