| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/5/2007 6:23:54 PM | | yes well i've had men send me flirts or nice emails and when i reply, they disappear, never to be heard from again so it's not only women who do this. or sometimes they will email me 3 weeks later!! where the hell were they all that time?? | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/5/2007 6:32:18 PM | Good answer Raven.
This is exactly what I was thinking.
This is not Gender oriented. And yes, sometimes you attract what you put outhere.
Cheers! | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/5/2007 6:36:41 PM | This is like asking why men are such dogs or buttheads. You tend to attract people who are somewhat like yourself. Ever consider that? | |
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Peggy7
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Joined: 10/6/2006
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/5/2007 6:39:42 PM | Oh please.. i could tell you a story about ONE MAJOR flake (a man) but whats the point... men who meet flakey think its all about women and women who meet flakey think its all about men... ITS JUST THE PERSON no matter the sex... like so many said b4 me... you have to weed out the flakey ones and keep trying... AND if you find yourself drawn to the flakey ones one hell of a lot! THEN CHANGE YOUR PRIORITIES PEOPLE!!!  | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/5/2007 6:54:50 PM | WELL YOU SAID WOMEN ARE FLAKEY, WELL I GOT NEWS FOR YOU MEN ARE WORSE THEN THAT. THEIR MAIN CONCERN ON LIFE IS WHATS BETWEEN THEIR LEGS. THEY SAY THEY ARE KIND, CARING AND COMPASSIONATE. WELL WHEN YOU SAY NO, THEY THINKS ITS THE END OF THE EARTH & I'M SURE THEY THINK A WOMENS BEING FLAKEY BECAUSE SHE DID'NT HOP IN BED AFTER THE FIRST 5 MINUTES OF MEETING THEM. WHO'S FLAKEY NOW???? | |
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 56 | |
| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/6/2007 7:39:27 AM |
When we do talk it's rarely and she says she misses me and wants to be with me. Still she won't return my call or text messages. This is what's known as "game playing".
Or, maybe it's you.
The one thing these women all seem to have in common is you...think about it.
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/6/2007 9:24:42 AM | | Wow, msg 27...KJ you are a very insightful man. You are bang on when it comes to what causes me to act "flakey", as very recent events in my world back up your statements to the letter. cut...paste...saving this one, thx! | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 11/26/2007 2:44:58 AM |
astrosky
Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/17/2005 9:35:55 PM
LOL women can always blame hormones, what excuse can men come up with?
Having to deal with those flaky women and their hormones everyday to the point that it rubs off on them. | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 11/26/2007 2:47:21 AM |
LOL women can always blame hormones, what excuse can men come up with?
No excuses here, if I cancel plans or don't reciprocate your efforts, I'm simply not interested. | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 11/26/2007 7:01:32 AM | she needs more moisturizer?
or maybe she's just not that interested.. "actions speaking louder", 'n all that.. | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 11/26/2007 7:13:18 AM | | They grow out of it. When young, women have a different guidance system than do men. They go by their mood. The younger she is, the more flighty her emotionals. Young women make perfect sense to themselves and you do well to remember that every event in their life is an emotional one. This only hardly coincides with any pragmatic algorithm of normal human behavior. What you would see as getting up in time to get dressed in time to get to work on time, they see as a ritual calamity of dramatic emotional triggers, making every morning a heroic struggle through whatever anticipation and fresh memory they are feeling as they wake that morning. If they have a dreary commute they will escape from it in fantasies and miss their bus stop or freeway exit, however most morning tardiness is due to a wardrobe crisis. Dressing is not a matter of covering nudity, it is to women the expression of their identity and an advertisement for their future happiness. Embrace the flakiness and do not begrudge women their emotional aspect. Soon enough she will settle into a routine where her emotions tread around dutifully in a rut beneath their bovine slippers. | |
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qu1nn
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Joined: 8/22/2007
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 11/26/2007 9:38:43 AM | ***You must be dating younger women guy. It's an age thing. Not a gender thing.***
Most definatly not an age thing. IMO both women and men start to talk to too many people online and its easy to get side stepped if your not bigger and better then the rest. I assume that most women talk to 3-4 guys at a time, guys try to, but only get 1-2 responses. I have had emails replied to that made no sense, I figured out it was meant to go else where, lol. I have even had some admit that it was a reply to another. Not that there was anything to revealing in the email.
I try to not tell a woman that I am open many nights of the week, if your week is open, then I think its easier to get knocked back a bit, she can get you in another night, but the guys who are busy all week, and only have this 1 night... well they just got you booted. | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 11/26/2007 1:49:56 PM |
LOL women can always blame hormones, what excuse can men come up with?
"......Annnnddddddd... the award for 'The biggest crock of Sh*t in one sentence" goes tooooooo...
.........astrosky!!"
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 3/30/2008 6:37:45 AM | Woman are flakey no matter the age, I'm almost 44,
and trust me the majority of them are flakey, no matter what the age.
If you find a good one hang on to her, because it will be rare. | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 1:04:44 PM | | here is my flakiest story...Me and the 28 year old i was dating were walking thru walmart when she stopped at the barbie jeeps and talked about buying one and getting tags and insurance for it so she could drive it!!!!....I told her if u could do that u would have seen other people driving them ( i was trying to be nice...lol )..and her reply was maybe no one else had ever thought about it!!!!.......Turned my head so she wouldn't see me laugh and told her i would be in the car.....lol..... | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 1:10:07 PM | op said: I haven't ever come across a woman who wasn't flakey. Won't call when she says she will. Cancels at the last minute. Takes days to return a message. I keep having to end relationships because of flakeyness. Is this just a woman thing or something
I said: LOL | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 1:19:55 PM | | maybe it's the women you are choosing. try going for a different type...someone with a bit of depth. | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 1:28:20 PM | Sign of the times mate.
But it's not only just women... Men can be so apt at BS too! And as a Teacher, I've come to appreciate just how much BS my students come up with... It's one of the highlights of my day... Dealing with BS... There's just sooo much of it around.
Oh... And let's not even get started on our politicians or those big guns in business. BS is here... And it's here to stay. The art of "saying what you mean" and "meaning what you say", has become a rare art indeed.
Yeah... Thanks to our fast paced, hectic and shallow lifestyles... General respect, straight talking, down to Earth human interaction is fast going out of that proverbial window.
Welcome... To the 21st century...  | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 1:56:31 PM | Diddo and I can say the same for men. Why are men so flakey?
The simplified version would be that flakes in general have O respect for other people, but wait! Lets back up a bit.....
Heres a thought......
They dont respect themselves!
Wow what a concept!
You see...........
When you respect yourself you respect other people and you treat other's as you would like to be treated
Flakes are the ultimate is lame-o behavior and a definite deal breaker for me.
Say a prayer for us all | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 4:56:37 PM | Think about this for a minute now.... She is flaking on you because you are letting her..
next time she flakes on you end the conversation right there and say..
"Whoa. I'll tell you what, I have a pet peeve,
and I HATE it when people flake out on me. So, if
you're gonna flake, just tell me now. I'm only
going to make plans if you're CERTAIN that you're
going to be there."
Now, a lot of times when you say something like
this, you'll scare a woman off. But it's worth it.
The last thing you need in your life is a flaky
woman.
Better to get it handled early on.
But, if she's NOT a flaky woman... but only
trying to figure out how to flake on YOU because
you acted like a DUMB A-S-S, then this might change
things.
When a woman sees you standing up for yourself,
and basically saying "Look, if you're going to
flake out or be late, then I don't want to meet
you", it shows her beyond the shadow of a doubt
that YOUR TIME is more important to you than HER.
This is a good thing.
This kind of comment will often result in a
woman saying "No, no... I'll be there. I'll be
there."
Now like I said earlier she's flakying on you b/c you let her do so... It may be you call her too much or drive her crazy... buy my goodness stop worrying about it and move on.. Get rid of flakey women up front. | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 5:01:54 PM | Is this just a woman thing or something?
Nope, OP, it's a YOUR women thing. You're picking them.
Edit:
Oh, crap, I didn't notice how old it is. I hardly ever do that. | |
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| Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 5:18:19 PM | Old thread...To the guy that wrote this thread 3 years ago... ..Every woman is flakey to you?..Wow, "you really got it going on"..Poor guy..Its whiney guys like you that help (some) woman turn flakey...Of coarse it could not be the choices your makin, "being you are such a together guy".. ...Keep fishing kido... | |
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