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 packagedealx3

Joined: 2/4/2006
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 5:28:02 PM
As is so often noted on a thread of this nature, one the common denominator is you so you are likely picking vapid arm candy and deserve what you get. The other side of the coin is that people treat us the way we allow them to so if there is more than one ridiculous reason to break a date or not to call and you hang around again, you deserve what you get.

For the rocket scientist that revived the thread, what a putz.
 racer256

Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 77
Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 5:38:21 PM
Wow Im glad I didnt revive this thread...Id be a putz! and a rocket scientist...
 VirgoGrl

Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 78
Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 5:42:20 PM
Flakey is spelled flaky - but I shall overlook your FLAKINESS (also spelled wrong) due to your adorable physical appearance.
 racer256

Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 79
Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/8/2008 5:56:53 PM
VirgoGirl:, "Did I spell it originally"? The thread was spelled (flakey)...flaky...Hmmm...I learn something new everyday...Thanks, cutes...
Anyhow, "The doof that wrote this thread said, "all the woman he met were flakey...Stupid guy its (flaky)
 SillyTart

Joined: 4/6/2008
Msg: 80
Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/9/2008 5:27:26 PM
Coz they have dry skin and dandruff. Just nip down to the local chemist and buy the stuff needed it dont cost that much. Flakyness will go away.
 ~Scoundrel~

Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 81
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/9/2008 6:42:19 PM
Man meets woman. Man gets phone number. Man calls woman and makes a date. Then another man calls her and has a plan for something more fun to do. Then, a third man calls her on date day and has something enen better!

So, woman comes up with some lame escuse about needing to pick her friend at the airport, she's not feeling well, her friend was in an car crash etc. Then as the first two men call to be sure it's still on she blows them off in favor of extra fun date guy.

I used to watch my sister do this to guys. You see men, our value to her goes up or down depending on what she's doing when we call her. If we call and she washing clothes with no other plans for the night she'll likely go out with us. But, if we call and she's out having fun with her friends she's not likely to drop everything and come with us.
 Katietxgirl

Joined: 11/19/2007
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/9/2008 8:01:19 PM
I used to think men were flaky. Then I just realized this is somene's way of telling you they aren't into you. I bet most of these girls weren't flaky. They just didn't want to hurt your feelings or had a better offer. It happens a lot. Just keep going on and don't worry about it. It's happened to all of us.
 simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/13/2008 1:37:16 PM
She's keeping you on the back burner just in case. When women do it, they're called "flaky." When men do it, they're called "players." In either case, it's dishonest. If she's not that into you, she needs to set you free so you can move on and perhaps find someone who is that interested in you. It's so selfish on the parts of the people who do these things. They're looking out for their own best interests and they have no empathy for those on whom they use or hurt the interim.
 northeast25

Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 84
Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/24/2008 3:23:48 PM
There are many reasons why many women ( and men as well ) are flakes. Sometimes she met someone that she liked better. Sometimes she is just "testing the waters" and isn't really serious about meeting someone. Sometimes she might get "cold feet" about meeting someone from the internet.

The most annoying thing is when the woman actually makes initial contact with a man, asks him to meet up with her, then disappears when the man tries to set up or confirm plans.
 Johnny Scorpio

Joined: 8/9/2005
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/24/2008 3:40:39 PM
I sometimes think women live in the emotional moment... feelings rule over facts...
and in the emotional world there are no rules except what you feel at the moment. You can't make deals with women, you can't hold to rules with women... rules are a stick to beat men with and if you allow them to write the rules, you know they're subject to complete rewrite at any time.
Make sense yet?
Of course not

JS
 Gwendolyn2008

Joined: 1/22/2006
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/24/2008 3:45:31 PM
If women are truly this bad, I suggest that you cease and desist all contact with them--immediately. Matters will not get better.
 fire53167

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 87
Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/24/2008 4:22:52 PM
Either she's just not into you or she's juggling so many dates that she can't keep them all straight. You may be surprised that if you stopped trying to get in touch with her (phone, email, text, etc.), she'll be all over you.
 soaringangel86

Joined: 12/2/2007
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/24/2008 9:02:05 PM
"I don't know if it's an age thing ,I've met flaky women who were well into their 30's.I don't think it's a gender thing either.I just know I don't stand for it,I move on.Isn't it funny how a guy can start a thread about women being flaky or doing wuss tests or dumping you,the nice guy for a jerk,then when you post about,you suddenly get posts from women who claim they aren't the way you're complaining about.Funny thing...where were these women when you were looking for a date?"
Exactly....
 larwilliams2

Joined: 12/4/2007
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/24/2008 9:05:56 PM
The reason the average woman is flakey is because, if you do not tolerate her sh*t, some other guy will. That is as simple as that. Too many guys will tolerate anything just to get laid or whatever. Sad but true.
 Soul Union

Joined: 6/9/2007
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/24/2008 9:11:14 PM

I haven't ever come across a woman who wasn't flakey. Won't call when she says she will. Cancels at the last minute. Takes days to return a message. I keep having to end relationships because of flakeyness. Is this just a woman thing or something? - shespinsmeround

> Maybe your user-name has something to do with it. What you focus on is what you attract. You are, therefore, attracting women who spin you around.
> Your profile says you are also an astronaut. Maybe they are tired of waiting for you to come back home and put your feet on the ground.
> Good luck - Soul Union.
 thebugisback

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/24/2008 9:23:13 PM
"...you suddenly get posts from women who claim they aren't the way you're complaining about.Funny thing...where were these women when you were looking for a date?" Because some are overlooked by you guys? Plus when someone posts "most" about the opposite gender it's pretty degrading and puts people on the defensive. Flakiness is really not a man/woman thing. It's a people thing. Some people are flaky - pure and simple. We've all met at least one in our dating lives.
 Thatguy67

Joined: 9/20/2006
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/24/2008 9:44:44 PM
To me, women are flaky when they have a scalp condition.
 good guy75

Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 93
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Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/25/2008 7:21:38 AM
i dont think there flakey.look man if theses women want you they will go out of there way to keep dates and phone calls.try changing the type of girl you date and you will have better results.
 euphoric thoughts

Joined: 2/21/2008
Msg: 94
Why are most women so flakey?
Posted: 4/25/2008 8:16:49 AM
to the OP

why are men on dating sites so vague and full of "double speak?"
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