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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 4/26/2007 1:32:38 PM | | find the same as bigger guy, im 42 next week and my last 5 dates have been 23, 19, 27, 33, and 26 where am i going wrong, ps had only one of those dates form on here | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/16/2007 1:38:40 AM | | Truth be told, if I were to search for a woman under 38 years of age on POF, I'd be hard pressed to find one who doesn't exclude men over 30 from contacting them - at least in my city. It used to be commonplace to see guys in their late 30's to mid 40's dating women between 25 and 35. Now, it seems, that men over 40 are descriminated against by most women under the age of 40. No worries though, they're all missing out on this one. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/16/2007 2:34:25 AM | LeanClean
I agree with you totally though I believe men over 30 are now "not in favour" anymore
Lord knows I would be happy to find a woman my age (37)or close to it but they all seem to want the young males in their early 20's. I make this statement in reference to POF and out there in the real world as well .
There are no end of women in their 50's though that have expressed interest in me though which is nice in one way but in another disheartening in a greater way
oh well - I am never married no kids , educated , extremely fit and financially stable amongst other things
There is nothing you can do though but just let them do their thing
Go your own way look out for yourself and enjoy your life --- doing what you wish to do and answerable and responsible for no one but yourself | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/16/2007 6:10:14 AM | | I just turned 40 and most of the emails I get, and most of the people who have me in their "favorites" are in their 20's or in their 50's-60's. Men in my preferred age group apparently aren't interested in someone closer to their own age, they must be chasing the 20 year olds. They don't email me, and very few of the ones I've emailed have not replied. One or two, but no more. At this point I'm not emailing anyone anymore. Heck with it. the forums are more fun anyway. LOL! | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/16/2007 6:24:30 AM | | ^^^^ you have kids and dont want any -- men situation( never married no kids ) like my own MAY want a younger woman to have a family with -- that is HIS OWN dna family | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/16/2007 7:39:09 AM | Didn't check were the gents above me live...but I've dated nothing but women in their mid 30's for the past 6 years w/ only a few short periods of being 'single'.
They all (3 total) were beautiful, fit, single/ never married, no children, smart 'career' women who were college educated, financially stable & owned their own homes. They are fun, cool & a blast to be around (we're still friends & I count myself lucky for that).
All were looking for a man a few years older than themselves.
My current GF is 33......& fits all the above criteria (except the age spread). I love the vitality & experience combination that women of this age group have!  | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/16/2007 1:30:24 PM | I'm 37 and get hit on by men my own age and younger men more than older men. One reason is probably that I have no interest in older men and don't even look at them, let alone flirt. Not saying I couldn't fall for one but it doesn't seem to be my preference, that's for sure.
When I was younger, early 20's, a lot of older men were after me and I preferred them.
I perfer men my own age now, and I like people I have a few things in common with. I avoid men too much younger.
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/18/2007 9:07:25 AM | | Women tend to age and mature more than men so a woman in her thirties should be attracting men in their forties. Of course there are exceptions but generally thats the reason why older men go for younger women - they have more in common with them. And the marked differences are more pronounced beyond the thirties than below - that is waking up next to a bag of wrinkles no matter how much you love them is not likely to get the male smiling (Im joking here.........you dont have that problem based on your pic I understand....). Perhaps you are being unrealistic aiming for someone your own age and should aim for someone about ten yeards older. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/18/2007 9:13:49 AM | I agree with yahh - many women dont appreciate that men want to settle down once they mature in their thirties etc and therefore will want for biological reasons a healthy partner as well as entertianing intelligent artisan..........I dont want to upset anyone but really most guys, not all, dont want to raise or asupport another mans child! I do belive that is an incredibly selfish expectation some women have added to the fact that many dont want any more kids - so whats in it for the man??? Entertaining a lonely woman and looking after another mans kids??? There are exceptions but you can see from the guys perspective that he may want something more than that.......
From hospital studies its also clear that the highest frequency of healthy children come from women in their mid to late twenties with male partners about ten years older.
Of course not every man wants a kid nad some may have some already - perfect partenrs for the woman who is in the same boat - but of course I bet they arent interested..............in most cases..........hehehehe | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/18/2007 9:21:09 AM | | so long as your happy contented and fulfilled thats the main thing - one doesnt have to follow nature - there are also more mature women out there who like to mix with other women.................titillation is cheap and easy when responsibility is thrown out the window! | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/18/2007 9:27:52 AM | | I think one thing some people have to recognise is that if your not attractive to look at in the morning you can rationalise it as much as you want but it aint pleasant for the commanchero!!!! AND if youre one of those people that believes love conquers all and nauseating lines like in the 40yr old virigin then Id imagine youd be content sleeping in separate rooms since sex and physical attraction are not going to happen if one or both of you is damned ugly....... | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/18/2007 9:33:58 AM | | thats a really sensitive sweet analysis scorpio......... you are really nice - I have no doubt you are a perfect match for wen since you espouse so perfectly everythign she claims to be looking for! Let me know if you get her in bed.............. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/18/2007 9:44:47 AM | | wow what an answer gr eyes?! No baggae from the guy, yet the woman has it, he has to be younger than she and expect to want more than a shag.......wow what a "lifestyle" description! Im sure thats really inspiring to those women out there who want something abit deeper and more meaningful and dare it be said less selfish........gee teh amount of selfishness combined with self delusion and dishonesty I see in pof is astounding...... a woman like that may as well find another woman like that and play with each other - it wont be any less meaningful and they dont need condoms...........hehe | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/18/2007 9:49:07 AM | | I notice overweight women tende to use teh word sensuous and apssionate quite a bit and are easy preys for younger men who jsut want to let out fluids without feeling guilty when they walk away ............wahooooooo | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/18/2007 10:07:32 AM | I notice alot of women on here like Krissy10 and from who responds to my messages. It was like when I turned 30 it was cakewalk to get a response from a 34-38yo woman on here, way easier than anyone other age demographic, especially if divorced.
I mean that is all good if you just want to date and have fun but I think its pretty delusional to want to have a serious relationship with a guy 5 years younger until your 40 or so. Most likely your just going to be a mark for a guy who just wants sex. I wouldn't doubt that situation makes up a huge amount of the "player" posts by women on here. I'm sure I could date a 38yo woman for awhile, have alot of fun....but as far as taking you home to my parents, hanging out with my friends, just not happening. It really sucks for the 40+ guys who these type of women should be dating. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 8/18/2007 9:33:53 PM | | I know I do not stay away from younger women. If you are having trouble getting attention from more mature men, the try approaching these men. A glance, a smile, and body language will get the results you seek. Last but not least; if you like something, go get it. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 10/26/2007 9:58:36 PM | | Just cannot believe this statement! A lot of women use the words sensuous and passionate to describe their preference for making love i.e. slow and satisfying rather than quick and selfish! | |
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