| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 11/28/2007 8:06:24 AM |
I've taken out batteries from my biological clock and put them in my ... never mind where... the point is why is there always an assumption that a woman has a biological clock and must wish to bear children?
Annoying, isn't it? | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 11/28/2007 1:53:14 PM | I have the opposite problem. I seem to attract the 50+ crowd, both online and in person. Do I really look that old?
I am keen to meet people close to my age. My "views" though are filled with people who could almost pass for my dad... | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 11/28/2007 3:12:55 PM | Majority of older men prefer young girls. Many of them prefer a relationship with someone who will allow them to be in total control. Young girls are after money and security and if the man is a jerk but can offer something, they'll stay and do whatever he asks, but if he wants to know if its real...just withhold his funds for one month, she'll back all her stuff and his and move back to her mama and 'em!
A mature woman most of the times does not NEED a man. she wants a man. like you say, you do not want to come home to an empty apt. At our age a man can enhance our lives the way we do his, but the challenge is YOU may CHALLENGE him, and we all know the minute a woman opens her m0uth to disagree, she is CRAZY!
All that i have said applies only if the woman is not a drama or insecure queen. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 11/28/2007 3:15:16 PM | | .....I have a different problem...If I ever want to have children...Realistically I have to be looking for someone in their late 30's or very early 40's...So..no I never shy away from a 3o something...But there are veeeeeeeeeeery few who want anything to do with a man of my age. Sorta sounds like I blew it huh??? | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 11/30/2007 2:14:21 AM |
I would like to attract men my own age; but honestly need some advice.
hi.
your age group of men often choose to date 25-30 year old women. in general they are more relaxed, no "biological clock" pressure to have kids immidiatelly.
as being a 35 year old man, I find myself much better common wavelength with somebody little younger, so around 25-30.
I would think that a 34-35 year old young landy is ideally best match with a man around 40-45, possibly a divorced man or a single but who lived for years in a stable relationship.
good luck | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 11/30/2007 7:20:18 AM | | I do because most of them have 2 or 3 kids already. A major turn off. You can go anywhere or do anything without bringing along some other man's kids. And women with kids make them a priority and I'm sorry, but at my age I refuse to come 2nd place to anybody...been there done that. If women on this site want a relationship then then need to learn to put their relationship first otherwise you may as well take your profile down. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 11/30/2007 9:01:38 AM | | younger guys love the older woman for the experience and its a learning curve,women date younger guys to prove theyve still got it,especially after a bad reletionship prior.most blokes your age are taken players or not ready to settle.its no different to the woman my age | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 11/30/2007 10:48:00 AM | In an online environment, most women in their 30's are looking for guys 25 and under.
No 'staying away' required, they'll beat you back with a flame thrower if need be.
In the real world, many women in their 30's have either gotten, umh, rather large, or have so much baggage or so much attitude (or any combination of the above) that getting anywhere near them is virtually impossible.
Once again, it's not a question of 'staying away', it's a question of there being too many roadblocks...... | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 12/4/2007 9:54:50 PM | ^^ In an online environment, many women in their 30's are getting emails from guys 25 and under... And, I have no idea what to do with those... I would trade two 25 year-olds for one 50 year old any day... one particularly comes to my mind right now
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 12/6/2007 8:32:37 PM | | I have the opposite problem; it's hard for me to relate to people my age, in their 30's. For the past decade, I spent a lot of time travelling and working abroad, being free, and enjoying my life. Meanwhile, most people my age have been working on their families and careers in ways I can't relate to. At work, for example, when the women start talking about their children, it's like my cue to fade out of the conversation. I can actually relate much better to my co-workers still in their 20's. I assume because they haven't started the career/family cycle just yet. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 12/6/2007 10:02:15 PM | Only if they have young children and/or want more.......
If the attraction is right......the age will not matter.....just all those other factors that become part of the equation......
Just my opinion.......   | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 12/6/2007 10:12:54 PM |
In an online environment, most women in their 30's are looking for guys 25 and under.
No 'staying away' required, they'll beat you back with a flame thrower if need be.
In the real world, many women in their 30's have either gotten, umh, rather large, or have so much baggage or so much attitude (or any combination of the above) that getting anywhere near them is virtually impossible.
Wow . . . that's some startling new data on the 30-something woman.
Excellent work . . . and I'm glad to hear you figured out why you're getting beaten back with flame throwers.
Honestly, I can't see any OTHER reason for it. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 12/7/2007 4:36:18 AM | I guess it is an attitude of mind, I am in my late 40's and want a woman in her 30's because I believe I am suited to this, I want more kids and it has taken me till now to grow up and learn. I find women my own age to be like my mother and some even like my granmother! Maybe getting old to some people is just an age thing and for women its nice to know that a younger guy wants them. Whe I was in my early 20's I went to bed with a 40 year old..wow but I would not marry them because its I wanted a family.
Do you know what you want? it does not sound lke you do, if you do then just go for it and you will get what you want! | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 7/4/2008 10:21:25 AM |
Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Not me. I personally love all healthy women. If you are over 18, disease free, uninhibited and height/weight proportionate and you love life then I don't care how old you are. Life is short and we only have so much time to enjoy it. I don't care if you are single, attached, widowed, married... Just be discrete, female and up for a good time.
At least this is my take on the topic. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:10:09 AM | | Geezerbloke, I disagree hun :) Older women date younger guys for the same reasons some men want to date young women its because they're HOT lol, sorry I couldn't help myslf I just had to jump in there hehe | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:19:55 AM | | I've tended to shy away from dating women in their 30's for several reasons. It's always very flattering to get asked out, or contacted, but I believe there are major differences there, for me. Most women in their 30's must be very involved in their childrens day to day lives, plus soccer, T-ball, dance classes ect. I've been there and done that, not that there would be anything wrong with doing it again, but, I seem to be searching for a more spontanious and flexable relationship. Plus, the age differences seem to create different interests for music, appreciation for the era we grew up in, and what seems to be our 'common roots.' Women in their 30's are beautiful, and can be very exciting, no doubt, but, my experiences have led me to stay with a closer age range. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:16:29 AM | No they don't and I have first hand experience with that.
I have a similar issue with only large women contacting me and thats not my thing.
Also, coming home to an empty apartment and having no one to hold at night or wake up next to...I know exactly how you feel. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 7/5/2008 9:02:48 AM | | hello, jeez i read this and instantly thought, god, thats me!! im 34 single no kids etc and i do also seem to attract the younger guys, my friends say i look in my 20s and this is the problem, im hardworking, honest,and just want to find that special someone. ive been single for 4 years. ive dated people, but no joy.also, i do for some reason seem to attract married men! why is this? do i look like a mistress!?? i never get asked out on a date etc, men just dont approach me, they might smile from across the room, but they never speak. i dont have the confidence to go and chat a guy up, i guess im old fashioned in thinking the guy sholuld ask me etc.. maybe im waiting for this guy and hes not there? my 'married' and 'in relationship' friends are envious of me living the single life, but really im the one who envies them because they are in a loving relationship. maybe i should just grow some balls and approach men but if i crashed and burned (as ive done before) i wouldnt do it again! because you feel stupid if they turn round and say sorry ive got a girlfriend, or sorry im gay lol | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 7/10/2008 5:13:10 PM |
Wenlex I have the same problem. The day I turned 30, and I kid you not. Men my own age quit replying to me and the young 20 year old replies went up. From what I gather and I could be way off on this is that I'm too old for the 30 year olds as they are busy chasing the younger ladies. The younger lads think that because we are in our 30's our hormones are off the wall and they want to "learn".
It's a vicious cycle and a very cruel joke.
yes, yes and more yes!
for some, teaching is a calling. me? i'm all about hitting the ground running! i'd love to meet a nice, intelligent man around 38 or 40 but not much luck.
now, put me in a grocery store with some 20 y/o in big tee-shirts and gold front teeth? i can't get to the parking lot without a phone number. lol granted, it could be i'm the only woman in the grocery store who looks like she can cook, and they're hungry, but you get my point. | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 7/10/2008 5:56:18 PM | I'm 35. When I got divorced I found myself going out with woman of all ages. From 45 down to 21. I've come to realize no matter the age they are all just crazy & full of drama. Maybe I'm just having a run of bad luck.
The women over 30 all seem jaded & feel that ALL men are liars & will screw them over at some point. The women under 30 are into games or freak when they realize that I do have 3 kids & should anything develop - bang! instant family.
Just my thoughts anyway.... | |
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| Do older men stay away from women in their 30's?
Posted: 7/11/2008 1:15:59 AM | that is the key:
you are trying to get attraction, and that can come accross.
when you are around men of different age (younger, older) you are more the free yourself: natural.
I would like to attract men my own age
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