I don't think all guys are stupid...just cautious.
And coming from a women in Vancouver, I dare say you know why as well !
I'll have to agree, guys can't take hints.
I disagree with that, it's more a case of knowing how the game is play and how it's going to be thrown in your face instantly with the "You just want me for sex" etc.
Open your mouth and just say it.
Yes that is the ideal, though to admit to wanting something doesn’t put you in a position of power, manipulating someone else into wanting it from you does.
guys aren't stupid, that's such a igorant and rude thing to label them as
Makes treating them such eaiser though if you belive that to start with, makes side stepping responsabilitie eaiser too.
men are capable of detecting the slightest whiff of a subtlety, it just depends on the context
Hilarious, as said by a women, visual detection being the same as being empathic and mind reading, wow good thinking Sherlock..... Shall I tell you what it's like to be female ? No I didn't think so ....
You assume he wants yours?
Another good point, there is a whiff of arrogance with the origional assumption.
OH MY GOD!!!! FOR THE MILLIONTH TIME...GUYS DO NOT GET HINTS - NOT SUBTLE ONES - NOT OBVIOUS ONES! NO HINTS! IF YOU WANT SOMETHING THEN TELL US!!!!
Speak for yourself.
<div class="quote">i have liked this guy for months, dropped mega hints other than going up to him in my undies with "i want you,r ass" written on my bum. he still dosent seem to get it, whats with that?
Because it's a typical ploy to entice guys into making sexual advances so the women can reject the guy for an ego boost or power play within the relationship and more and more men are getting wise to it. Getting someone to do all the hard work and risk the rejection for what most of the time is going to be a cruel power game opposed to anything honest isn't worth it the vast majority of the time, especially as your not willing to do it yourself, weak.
Try doing something radical ......... like, talking maybe ?