| weird thing about sex Posted: 3/10/2007 3:51:52 PM | | One simple solution. Get kinky. If you can comfortably talk about your sexual prefferences in public, they are not kinky enough. Try a little bondage, s&m, knife-play, do some research. Hell, I dated a chick that wanted me to nail her beef to a chair, litteraly, with a big ass claw hammer and 10 penny nails. Different strokes for different folks man. | |
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| weird thing about sex Posted: 3/10/2007 4:31:51 PM | yeh I can get bored if I'm with the same guy for too long, but have been with a somebody in a long term who never bored me, every time was as good as the first time, pretty sure he felt the same, actually no it just kept getting better sooo....
I think if you are bored, you are just with the wrong person. It's possible to not get bored.
and I suggest if you are bored, move on, life is too short. | |
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| weird thing about sex Posted: 3/10/2007 4:47:38 PM | If ya get bored - it's your fault - ya gotta keep things exciting by changing things up make things more spicy - different - kinky - don't go for the same old same old!! It takes two to make things boring - if one of you uses your imagination at least it will make things better - not boring!! | |
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| weird thing about sex Posted: 3/10/2007 5:59:38 PM | If sex gets boring, then it is time to re-evalute what you are doing and who you are doing it with.
There are several options for making a sex life exciting...explore sex toys, adult stores for costumes, books, watch porn (highly recommended!!), read erotic poetry, lotions, potions and POSITIONS!!!
Saturday night missionary gets old real quick!
If all else fails...venture out to one of the Sex shows that have seminars (free) and give tips of stirring up the bedroom or whereever else you feel the urge to do the wickedly pleasurable deed!
There are alot of useful websites that give great advice on sex and making it more exciting.
Just my humble opinion as always
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| weird thing about sex Posted: 3/10/2007 7:01:03 PM | If your bored with sex than your not doing it right, like redzed said your 20 and alot to learn yet. | |
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| weird thing about sex Posted: 3/10/2007 11:35:31 PM | | see that the thing i don't wannt to be im not selfish though i just got tired of it because it was always like me finishing and the girl saying i was great but half enjoyed it | |
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| weird thing about sex Posted: 3/11/2007 9:18:52 AM | | Maybe you have become de-sensitized to sex? If you are sexually and mentally attracted to your partner then try spicing things up a little with some role play......loads of teasing......keep building it up. maybe your not completely comfortable with your sexual partner and need to relax more. Dont be affraid to suggest different surroundings and situations. We all get bored and create excuses to avoid the same routine (yawn yawn) but if you sit down and talk to your partner and tell them what you would like and dislike it may actually have a real good result! | |
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| weird thing about sex Posted: 3/13/2007 12:11:21 AM | | msg 28, some people can't be worked with, some people are just boring and that's that. | |
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| weird thing about sex Posted: 3/20/2007 3:16:31 AM | i get bored sometimes like if we are doing the samething over and over again its not fun so u need to change things up a bit nothing too drastic but something fun | |
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| weird thing about sex Posted: 3/20/2007 3:41:54 AM | Just exactly what is it you think you were supposed to feel ? Sex is a very simple thing. I think maby you're expecting too much and not trying to have any fun with it. | |
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