| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/9/2007 3:45:41 PM | lane splitter: by your post it sounds as though you are saying women who are single aren't any fun/dull/ of no interest to anyone OR they love to be single cuz they like playing the field.
Sounds like a pretty narrow minded way of thinking to me... I'm single so does that mean I'm no fun/dull/ of no interest to anyone or that I like to play the field? Hardly!
With a mindset like that, I would guess you are going to be alone for a very long time | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/9/2007 4:01:02 PM | 1. She asks me to start wearing her panties.
2. She thinks I look good wearing a leather ball gag.
3. She has more toys than I have tools.
4. It feels like there is someone hiding in her closet!!!I just don't have the nerve to go and look!!!
5. her toys are 24 volts...and comes with a 1 hour charger,,,the guys will understand this one!!!
6. geesh, I could go on!!! | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/10/2007 1:18:54 AM | 1. Write both your last name on paper and discuss how you will put the names together when you both get married.
2. Call him pet names in front of his poker playing guy friends.
3. Call him several times a day and give him list of things to pick up from work.
4. Ask for his key so you can prepare dinner and clean his house.
5. Put personal items in his bathroom, along with your make up and shampoo. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/10/2007 1:48:33 AM | 1.) When...right off the bat they start in with the financial questions.
2.) They place more importance on "what" you do rather than "who" you are.
3.) They start to 'suggest' changes you could make career wise.
4.) They make statements like..."you could afford a bigger house".
5.) They discuss the fancy vacations they think you should pay to take them on.
ALL OF THESE ARE DEALBREAKER'S LADIES....MEN HATE GOLDIGGERS!!!! | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/10/2007 3:16:26 AM | To the earlier post about if a woman is single, she is just waiting for a man.
Hmmm, sometimes people aren't really needing someone in their lives. They might date, they might not. It's called living. A woman can be single and be very happy. I am the proof. =)
M | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/10/2007 3:22:11 AM | lying, negativity, constant talk about ex's, comparisons to ex's.
Lying and negativity are automatic deal breakers, there will never be another date. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/10/2007 12:21:46 PM | | Dam it! Thats why i lose the guy in five days .... she has more toys than i have tools LMAO. ... Her toys are 24 volts.. and comes with a 1 hour charger. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/10/2007 2:09:07 PM | | sexy731 THAT will keep me . NOT make me run . You say " I want you all to myself " I am yours . sex you bet . NOW , to get rid of this guy . | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/10/2007 2:13:59 PM | here is how I see it .
day 1 you start to lie
day 2 you tell him to give up his job
day 3 start telling lies to family members
day 4 ruin his credit . make him pay for everything even though he has no money
day 5 take over his place to live . thow him out and move your new boyfreind in . | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/10/2007 3:53:20 PM | 1) No sense of humor. Its suppose to be having fun isn't it?
2) Not being flexible if there is a valid reason to change plans and then whining about it.
3) The date is mine, so don't flirt with other guys and expect me not to notice, not even if Brad Pitt show'd up. I don't want to hear about on your ex's or be compared to other guys. Save that for your girlfriends.
4) And don't baffle me with your brains, I already know you're smart and probably paid attention in class more than I ever did.
5) Save the profanity or adult language for the bedroom or when we're alone. I might like it.
6) Wait, I'll open the door.
7) Let me pick up the check, if you want to pay, thats fine too.
8) And SMILE , like I said, this is suppose to be fun and leading to a repeat event right? | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 3:08:35 PM | Sure that can be a problem, but it also is in the aproch, I'm not talking about comeing over for a frist date and trying to play dad, I'm talking about judeing the person before you know what it is all about, You think that kids are out of control when you frist meat them , maybe it is just a bad day, maybe there excited upoon meeting YOU, maybe they are just out of control, But if you judge the frist thing you see then you probly have missed the whole point all togeather, also if there is a problem then why has not dad done something to help the situation ?, the point I was trying to make is if you judge then expect to get judged as being a couple of things swallow,non careing, and so on and so on. You can not just make an asumtion, I know several people with kids and if there is more than one yes things can tend to be a bit crazy, I think they call that a family.
Let me know what you think
Dean.
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 3:19:53 PM | | when a girl gives me sex too early...cant make a hoe a housewife...if she tries to have sex with me too early it shows she dont respect her body...its more of a turn on when a man needs to work to make love...this is all in my own opinion | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 5:45:08 PM | I realize that kids get out of control. But when it is a day to day deal and the kids aren't showing any respect to their mother or anyone else on a regular basis that is another deal entirely. Come on we have all seen kind I am talking about.
As far as things tend to be a little crazy,yeah that is normally a family. I know thats the way it was here when the kids where growing up. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 6:10:44 PM | Really enjoyed reading this thread... it's helpful to know what the guys think is a turn off while on a date... or whatever... great posts everyone! Thanks!  | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 6:32:30 PM | That's funny, because I consider it a grand success and testament to my prowess as a lover when she lets herself go physically and mentally.
But hey I know what you mean, about weighing 600 pounds and watching TV all day. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 7:22:50 PM | Lane splitter.........while it is easy for women to meet men, it isnt always easy finding one that is right for that woman. In case you arent aware, there are liars, cheaters, players, men who are married or living with someone but are lying about it , superficial ***holes that expect women to be perfect when they arent perfect either,
and sometimes women are single because they ended their last relationship, not because they were left because they werent fun to be with, which Im sure happens, but is not the only reason someone might be single. If a woman's last relationship went sour of course she would have negative things to say about her ex, it doesnt mean that she's perfect or that she never did anything wrong, but it doesnt mean that she is making things up out of thin air, it is possible that she was treated like shit, which does happen. Im not saying that men dont get screwed around with either. Why are YOU single ? maybe its because YOURE not any fun to be with. Oh and if meeting men was so easy then there wouldnt be any single women. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 8:06:11 PM | wow. I never really thought about turn-offs. I always looked at what the turn-on's are. I guess that's optimism?
I don't think I really have many turn-off's, apart because I am somewhat of a socialpath and a pacifist (sp?). As long as there is something I like about her i'll give it my every effort to be with her. The biggest thing to me though is how she makes me feel. Yea, i'm a feminine in that sense. So anything that appears to be a turnoff doesn't really amount to much, nor justify ditching her. Of course, except a few things.
1. Disrespect for human nature and other people.
2. Excessive talking.
3. Spending too much time with themselves ( I am not sure of the correct word for this)
4. Well, i'm just trying to think of things now so the top 3 are all that I have to offer.
So I guess I put up with alot and don't expect to much. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 8:20:00 PM |
The problem I have with women is, why are they single anyway? If they wanted a guy they could get one. So they either want to be single, or else they are no fun to be with, and that's why the last guy is gone, no matter how many days it took.
You know what they say....
One person's trash is another's treasure. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 8:23:59 PM | | uses these words a lot---like --you know--whateverrrr--totally---eewwww---grosss-- pops chewing gum or twirls gum with finger. or cant do anything without that damn cell phone. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 11:00:32 PM | After reading this...
I am never getting a date...
Hey you brats get me an other beer, just push the F-ing garbage outta the way, where the he11 is my gum and cell, you sure you want to get married? I am a baby making machine... | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/11/2007 11:33:55 PM | | Oh yea, and if you act like you dont know much about life, but yet you can never shut up, haha I'm running. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 6:52:06 AM | OK, you asked for it;
1) Going into "just a friend" mode---I didn't start dating you to find "just a friend." If you tell me that this is how you start out with all your relationships, I'm gone. Look, either you've got that feeling about me or you don't, the chemistry is there or it's not. Which is it? Telling me first off how much you miss having someone special in your life, blah, blah, blah, then (ho-hum) "let's start off getting to know each other as friends" already has told me all I need to know---it's not. I'll e-mail you every few weeks to see how you're doing...
2) Complaining because I "don't call you enough." Thing I've learned, dear ladies, is that calling too much in early stages of dating really spoils the chemistry.
3) Showing me you have no brains. I don't mind you laughing when I'm joking around, in fact, I encourage it because I'm joking around a lot of the time. But, I want to see you joke me back; if possible, play off of my joke---it takes a quick, sharp wit to play off someone else's joke like that.
4) Asking me if there'll be another date. If there is, the anticipation is part of the enjoyment of it; but, most often, I won't decide that then and there unless you force the issue---and it'll be "no."
5) Constantly pulling out your cell phone to talk to another guy, no matter what the cause.
6) Pulling out your cell phone to update your girlfriends about how it's going. Dear lady, I'm dating you, not your circle of friends. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 3:29:46 PM | ./q I realize that kids get out of control. But when it is a day to day deal and the kids aren't showing any respect to their mother or anyone else on a regular basis that is another deal entirely. Come on we have all seen kind I am talking about.
As far as things tend to be a little crazy,yeah that is normally a family. I know thats the way it was here when the kids where growing up.
I See, Well seems to me that if you have been dateing the women long eneff to relize this on a daily basis, then you probley like her a bit and now would be a good time to help, You might be surperised kids do like to have boundrys makes them feel safe, the women might even apeceate you a bit more and you mifgt just end up a family :)
Dean | |
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