| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 3:31:30 PM | No I have been through that once. If she can't keep them controlled now it WILL become a bone of contention when her boyfriend starts trying to correct the children.
A person does not enter into a package deal and automatically have the right to discipline the other persons children. Also there is the fact that I can't think of one single parent who would allow that or condone it.
The simple fact is if you even imply to a woman that her parenting skills, yes that does include discipline, are lacking you are in for a severe argument. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 4:04:11 PM | 1. Be boring
2. Few or no common interests
3. Too flirty
4. send SMSs
5. Too intense | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 5:11:50 PM | | i know how to lose a guy in 5 seconds could help myself here; say you have 7kids and they have a.d.d. and if he want to meet them and be a dady to them he runs away fast.thats all you have to say does the trick for most guys.or teel thim you have a crazy boyfriend whos comming out of jail that works too / its funny how the thing you say can make guys run. or if you strong woman some hate that aswell/ lol. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 5:31:00 PM | What I find so comical about this site is that so many of the comments here are the exact same things that are deal breakers for me
1. Talks and talks and talks and talks...about himself for ever!
2. Can't quit talking about his ex. Plays the victim.
3. Kids in jail, rehab, or hasn't seen them in 10 years...wife raises them. Not his problem.
4. Only interested in sex. AND MAKES IT VERY OBVIOUS.
5. Opens the door, then walks right through it...before me. Oh yeah, you're gone. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 5:39:16 PM | I love single moms but hate it when they let their kids get out of control. I don't want my kid to pick up their kid's bad habits.
Ones that show that all they're interested in is a sugar daddy. My favorite is when they talk about their bills racking up, utilities threatened to get shut off etc and hinting that it would sure be nice if 'someone' could help out. Yeah I'm so sure it was your ex-roomate that racked up your phone bill.
Victims that blame their ex, their friends, life, the universe for everything that's wrong in their life. Wahhhhh go grab a diaper and solve your own problems because I'm not gonna do it for you.
Talking about their ex. If all their exes are jerks I'll know the problem is her. I'm on friendly terms with every ex-girlfriend I've ever had.
Her cell rings off the hook and she has a conversation with every person that calls her.
If they want to have sex right away. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 5:50:59 PM | | its say on the form how to lose a guy in 5 days doesnt it not how to keep one in 5 days. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 8:20:20 PM |
sorry ,BWG but that made my head hurt to try to read that.
That's probably because you're Fupped Duck! | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 8:50:21 PM | In response to lane splitter:
I definately like men. I like everything about them. Even the stuff about them that gets on my nerves, ends up being endearing to me in a way. I consider myself friendly, and as you say, they (women) are the ones who "have the pick of the crop". Yet, here I am alone, in front of my computer responding to this board. Please note that the tone of this post is written in the utmost respectful way. No negativity is felt what so ever while typing this.
Ok sorry, had to get that out of the way.
I have been back on the dating scene for almost a year now. I have dated a lot, and I mean a lot of men since then. Recently, I was hospitalized for internal bleeding, yadda yadda, been in excruciating pain, blah blah blah, and since have really taken a good look at my life. I have dated a couple of really great guys and many many duds. (my point is coming, I promise) I used to be baffled why these guys never called after the first date. DUUHHHH!!!!
I was putting out the wrong energy. Everyone hears, "be yourself"....and I scream inside myself...."I AM!!" But I was too clouded by being a "perfect" self, that my true self stayed hidden under all the garbage I have filled my life with. Stress, worry, worry, stress....
THEN,,,,on top of that worry about should I call him? Should I email him??
YUKK!! Stop the freaking madness!
My body sure did decide to stop me....
I have enough in my life to take care of then to worry about stupid crapola... if I want to call a guy, I will call him. If he thinks I am being needy....TOO BAD!!
Then he isn't worth ME.
I am a very loving, loyal person to those I choose to surround myself with. These people know that I will call to say hello, set up times to hang out, etc. I feel truly loved when I am spending time with people in my life. We as humans are becoming more and more detatched from each other. All we have in life is each other.
It is refreshing, however, to see these postings, and see how we come together to lift each other up, or bonk each other on the head when we are being dumb.
Ok, I realize that I went entirelly off subject, but I appreciate the opportunity to step on the soap box.
Next time you see someone you love,,,,,Give em a big ole smooch!! | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 11:33:13 PM | In Order of Precedence
The Do Not List:
1)Small Talking when I'm on top of them trying to kiss them in bed.
2)Complaining about x-bf when I'm on top of them trying to kiss them in bed.
3)"What are you thinking about" "What are you thinking about" "What are you thinking about" "What are you thinking about" "What are you thinking about" in bed
4)Constantly interrupting me when I'm talking
(To the point where I can't tell a story, it's gotta be pretty bad if I notice it, I'm not much of a talker).
5)Wearing WAY too much makeup.
6)Asking "are you going to call me tomarrow", "yes", "no you won't" ~ being insecure
7)Telling me that they don't date people who don't have good enough jobs.
8)Condescending on anything superficial. (job, race, social class, gender)
(Condescending on someone who you have taken the time to get to know and who genuinely stupid is ok, but best if avoided)
9)Constantly rescheduling plans.
10)Unable to take care of themselves (no license, can't cook, need support from family members for basic survival.)
*If they complain that all men are jerks, I say "oh you know men so well"* | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/12/2007 11:41:44 PM | Opens the door, then walks right through it...before me. Oh yeah, you're gone.
That one seems kind of harsh. Sometimes a simple "I like it when you open the door for me" ;) makes the difference. If something small like that is a deal breaker, I want it broken asap, because there are going to be other things which I don't catch which she will expect me to do and not outright tell me she wants them done.
If it makes you happy, let me know I will do it for you. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/13/2007 1:23:15 PM |
Well I must be some sort of tard then, I really have not had to much trouble with this, matbe it is all in how you bring up the situation. I have not been told off,gotten yelled at or any other thing, in fact I have had a couple of gals say thanks that they were really at a loss as to what to do, I help them and also help them educate them selves in the areas they were lacking, they really did not want thair kids like that but did not have alot of parenting skills taught by thair parents, someone needs to help when help is needed
Dean | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/13/2007 2:47:27 PM | | you did get the sense of hummor here how to lose a guy in five days.I could help myself here. i know how to lose one in 5minutes or less that was the point. it says on the form how to lose a guy in5 days . Not how to get one or keep one that was the piont i was making. some of you have no hummor . | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/13/2007 2:57:40 PM | i would say ex bashing and hearing it was all his fault and complaining about your body
no one is perfect but u may be just what im looking for. lets move forward mot stay stuck in the past | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/13/2007 3:02:31 PM | | To many texts and phone calls almost to the point of stalking, thats get me cross. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/13/2007 9:10:14 PM | I am not a guy but i recently noticed the big things that turns guys off are being insecure, whiny, crying a lot, acting psycho, pushing them into something serious very fast like marriage, moving in, etc., saying i love you after the first time you have sex or on the first date, starting a fight with them for no apparent reason but because they forgot to call or you need attention, saying i love you after every phone call, guys think that is annoying. Also, yelling at them at any given time over petty stuff such as being 15 minutes late to pick you up. Accuse them of cheating when they probably aren't, especially if you just started dating.. Also, calling a guy 30 times in an hour, because you are begging to see them right now or because you feel they could be cheating. This is a big one. GUYS HATE IT WHEN you excessively call. They like their space.
That stuff will most definitely scare off a new potential suitor. And if it doesn't, well then, he must be into you or just doesn't want you to have the satisfaction of getting rid of him first...either way...i wouldn't recommend doing these things.
Probably a dozen other ways.......that i don't know about. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/13/2007 9:42:31 PM | Bad manners , for example not calling when they said they would.
Fifthy home, i dont mean messy, messy is ok, i mean DIRTY!! and ive seen some doozies!
Lying!
Appearing to be Too easy , if you know what i mean. Because i'd wonder if they were so easy with others. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:14:14 PM | We I go based on behavioral patterns such as....
Chewing with you mouth open while taking a call on your cell from your trucker mouth baby sitter while she ****es about your X....see ya!!!!!! = drama queen!
Shift eyes = nervousness
Compulsive nail biting and hair playing = OCD Note: hair playing is also a sign of flirting, but you guys know what I mean.
Smoking!! Blah = addictive personality/mood swings, co-dependent behavior.
Caked on make up! = hiding something, low self esteem
Talk about feminine products and hygiene (we know that it happens, we do not need to hear about it) = just freaking rude and unnecessary
Way to many "when I was younger” stories = regrets and eventless life in the present
Blatantly lying to appear attractive = desperate and lonely!
Rude to waiter and waitresses = superiority complex, but if your server sucks then you have all power to be rude.
Bad tippers = cheap ass!
Poor eye contact = low self esteem!
Temper tantrums = nut ball!
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:16:40 PM | | ^^^^^^^ spazy uncontrollable kids.......she could be the nicest person in the world, but if her kids are out of control, there is no way I could be in that type of lifestyle….. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 4/19/2007 11:25:08 PM | Keep making plans with him or telling him to call you at a certain time and never show up or answer and offer no excuse, then call him and complain for never doing anything with you or having time to spend.
Take him shopping and look at foreign imported cars, expensive jewerly, or plan an elaborate 5 star trip and let him know you expect him to pay for it.
Disagree with everything he says and tell him you are going to put him on a plan to "change" him. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 4/19/2007 11:32:46 PM | | If it takes that long to loose a guy maybe you just need to call the police for help. | |
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