| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 4/19/2007 11:33:29 PM | 1. Eating twice as much as me and then looking for more
2. Giving out her number to other guys in front of me
(at least wait until I go to the restroom!)
3. Dancing with everyone but me
4. Ask me "What are you thinking right now?"
5. Talk about her ex husband the whole time. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 4/19/2007 11:38:45 PM | OP why 5 Days? Has North America become a place where slacking is the norm? Where is your sense of Continental pride? I read today the Russians and Asians are doing it in 2 days. And in Taiwan there is a group fo women claiming they can do it in 1. I would suggest instead of quibbling here in the forums, you put your collective noses to the collective grindstones and figure out a means by which you can do it by end of the first text message. From what I have read on occasion in these forums it would appear some of you are clearly up to the challenge. So go for it! Good Luck!
Have fun ;)! | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 4/20/2007 12:37:45 AM |
Msg: 49 -- pulling out your cell phone
MY phone is either on "silent mode" or turned off when I'm on a date. I expect hers to be the same. If she talks on that phone for ANY reason while I'm with her, she won't have a second chance to be rude and disrespectful to me. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 4/20/2007 7:01:38 AM | I can tell you how to lose him in 1 date.
Tell him that for the first time...the voices in your head agree with each other. They all like him.  | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 4/20/2007 7:56:49 AM | It CAN be tough......................
I had one guy fall for me. No crap 2nd date he told me he wanted to sign the contact to be my bf..........LMAO I sort of thought he was kidding, had NO CLUE how needy he was!!!!!!!
Stupidly (understatement) we had date #3..........................OK, found out things I did not want to know, that I was not comfortable with....he popped a beer while we were driving down the road, wanted me to meet his 6 year old, was diabetic and obviously had alcohol issues. He also worked 2 hrs away(stayed out of town while he did) and told me he'd drive home every night to be with me(but he didn't for his daughter????????)
So, I said ......flat out (phone conversation, me trying to LOSE HIM).............well, seeing how you drink and that it is a big part of your life...........well you ARE diabetic and drinking is pretty much a no no to diabetics........ and you drink and drive........ I have issues with alcohol and just can't see someone caring about me who doesn't care enough about himself to not drink while he's driving and who drinks excessively knowing that it is bad for his health.
OMG.......2 hrs later he calls me back and says:
I CHOOSE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He had this heart to heart w/ his best friend, decides I am a pretty smart woman and the first person to ever tell him like she sees it and he realizes I am right and his mom/family/friends have been saying this to him for years and he says that he wants to be with me enough to quit drinking FOR ME............
I bolted.
Sorry, that was too much on MY shoulders, red flags were a flying I was so outta there I left skid marks.
Please Lord, forgive me if he never stops drinking................................................ | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 4/20/2007 1:00:03 PM | Talking about nothing when I am on top of her kissing her. 
Talking poorly about people who don't have the right occupation. 
Constantly asking me if I'm seeing someone else.
Constantly accusing me of lying about my number of sexual partners. 
I had a girl do those 4 in one night and left and stopped answering her phone calls. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 4/20/2007 1:40:14 PM | I think the real concern of "How to lose a guy in X days", isn't the first few dates, but it's right after the first few dates when you're entering the realm of 'kinda dating' him (as opposed to a guy that you went out on a few dates with). By this time, if he sees you again, all the things like attitude on the surface, hygene, general sense of humor -- all these broad ones he accepts. So, I'll throw out 5 things that are too detailed to be commonly thrown out there, and assuming you've already gone out on a couple dates...
1. She's not talkative. She was talkative before, but she isn't anymore, and it's like she expects you to come up with conversation solely on your own and continue it on your own, which only leads to you just talking about yourself -- which nobody wants. Conversation takes two -- some women may not understand that, and it may be due to #2 which encompases it...
2. She's fully expecting a guy to 'entertain' her in the strictest sense. Now, I'm not talking about choosing the resturant or bar to go out to, or pointing things out that she make like, etc. I'm talking about her being like a child and expecting the guy to set up everything (mindreading her mood or style in what she likes the best in everything of course), and practically be doing juggling acts in front of her (comedic routines, stories, etc.), and essentially making the date one-sided while she sits back and enjoys herself. A few women may defend this extreme and say they want to be 'pampered' or treated like a princess. But, if mutally engaging in conversation & entertainment WITH a guy is 'work', then you're not ready for dating -- you're ready for a professional male escort. :)
3. She's bitter or even just plain untrustworthy of guys, and you get the vibe that she has feelings for a recent guy broken up (no, words about being totally over 'him' are meaningless ladies).
4. She craves attention, and her eyes light up when guys walk into the room, and will flirt or welcome approaches when you're in the bathroom or talking to a friend, etc. Even if she does seem to really dig you, it's not worth dealing with. This may make a guy want her more, but after dating for a while, you learn your lesson to bolt. And I do believe most women who do this have no idea to what they're doing.
5. Her stories don't match up. She gives two conflicting stories about herself, when in relation to some key items (ex/girl's night out/'guy friend'/online folk), but they're WAY off. Not in the picky sense, but you know she's hiding something. That's a huge red flag.
#1-#4 means that she isn't that into you anyway. :) | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 4/20/2007 3:23:27 PM | OOOOOooooooHHHHHHHhhhhhh
I know ........lol
Tell them they can't under any circumstances live with you.
For some reason this turn men around, from I love you and want to be with you forever.........
To why are you rejecting me.
hehehehehehe
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 10/19/2007 8:34:25 AM |  Is there a thread on how to loose a girl in 5 days because I sure would like to post on that ? ! | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 10/19/2007 8:47:43 AM | HELL you people are awful slow, just give me 5 minutes to get my stuff and i'm gone
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 10/19/2007 8:55:27 AM |
lane splitter wrote:
> The problem I have with women is, why are they single anyway? If they wanted a guy
> they could get one. So they either want to be single, or else they are no fun to be with,
> and that's why the last guy is gone, no matter how many days it took.
Lane, you might be overlooking something here, namely a classy lady who's
single because she values herself enough to be patient to find a guy who's
equally worthy of her. Putting it another way, some gals have learned -- often
by much painful trial and error -- that they're better off being by themselves
rather than being in some relationship with any fellow who just won't treat
them right.
Such woman may not want to be single at all. But neither are they willing to settle
for a poor relationship. And why? Because one way or another, they've learned
from the past, taken stock and realize the good things they themselves have to
bring to the table in any relationship, and wisely they simply value themselves
enough not to tolerate anything less than their own good worth.
So keep an eye out for those gals... they might be real keepers.... just so long as we ourselves also have something of good and meaningful value to bring to the table.
The riches of a good relationship are not so much found where you live, but rather
who you are, and who you're with. And perhaps some of the very best ladies will
well know their own value and likewise will be patient enough until they find a
fellow who will best enrich their lives.
Or so it seems to me.
CJ | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 10/19/2007 8:56:14 AM | | Thank you very much for your insightful comments guys. May I offer some insights of my own? There are just as many whinner men out there as there are women and I have heard my share of ex bashing from the mens side, I really would like a guy to notice that I have brains and not be so obsesssed with my body, If some men were more attentive in bed a women would not need to use a battery operated boy friend, not all women are after a mans money......in fact many women just want a guy to be romantic and shivalrous. While a women does tend to be more relationship orientated this is true, and we all know how scary that can be for a guy, women have to deal with some men who are non commital sex starved little boys. Point I am making is that there are many reasons why women dont want a second date either! | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 10/19/2007 9:34:53 AM | lessee the best ways to do it for me..
1. Have a crazy 'supposedly' ex-husband that comes over to your house all the time and constantly gives you shit under the pretext of visiting his son. By shit I mean, generally rifling through your stuff, beating on you, and getting onto your computer and messaging all your friends until he finds the one guy you're dating and his contact information. Pretends to be you, convinces guy to give him his home number again because 'you' lost it, and then decides to constantly call the guy she's dating 'me' and talk smack about how I should leave his 'wife' alone.
2. Putting up with the above fellow, including constantly taking his phone calls while you and I are on a romantic date, and going outside for this every five minutes..
3. Constantly wanting to dump your baggage on me, while getting pissed if I ever try to actually discuss our relationship in any way that doesn't make her seem like the most rainbowriffiv person in the world.
4. continually stands you up, leaving you stranded in the parking lot of ranger joe's, subway, the waffle house, a local hospital.. etc. (number 4 was all the same girl and I didnt have a vehicle at the time so took a cab everywhere)
5. Tell me you have an std.. thankfully i'm not one to 'whip it out' without just cause.. lol. So I never have to really worry too much about that. (though it's nice of her to tell me such)
6. Secret other boyfriends.
7. The kid she's been watching for her sister/brother is actually her own, and she has two more just like him that she didn't bother telling me about.
8. "Honey.. can you watch my son for me today." after one date. (once or twice I might.. but if it becomes a habit, then i'll start chargin a sitter fee. I was trying to be with her, not date her toddler.)
disclaimer: kids are awesome. I love the lil buggers. However, i'm no ones babysitter. You want me to constantly watch your kids then you had best put a ring on my finger honey. lol
9. Constant racial degradation of random people. I can tolerate someone's right to think what they want. I just don't want to hear it every five seconds. It's idiotic, hurtful, and rather lame.
10. Spend more time talking to the random guys that come up to us on our first dates, than talking to me. (this includes constant cell phone chatter.) I don't mind if you have to make or take a few calls. However, if every few seconds you're getting excited because such and such called, and you HAAAAVE to call right back.. by all means do.. and by the way "check please!" I'm out.
Thank you, that is all. We now return you to regularly broadcast BS channels. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 10/19/2007 5:56:00 PM | Nutty kids
asking "where are you?" all the time
playing games
asking over and over if I wanna be with them
Neeeding to talk everyday | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 10/19/2007 6:20:54 PM | 1. Asking to borrow money big no no!!
2. Finding out she is a drug user.
3. She drinks every night.
4. Doesnt have high sex drive. and
5. Smokes too much
Anyone of these im gone. | |
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| How to lose a guy in 5 days
Posted: 10/19/2007 6:24:35 PM | 1. Asking to borrow money big no no!!
2. Finding out she is a drug user.
3. She drinks every night.
4. Doesnt have high sex drive. and
5. Smokes too much
Anyone of these im gone. | |
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