| The disappearing act?
Posted: 3/14/2007 6:52:50 PM | I read an article last week re: the 3 month dating period in a relationship and what they said is so true in your case. We all know that it takes approximately 3 months for someone to either date or ditch and the chances of it ending in ditch become even higher if one goes on vaction during that period. The reasoning behind this is that the initial 3 months of a relationship is the infactuation stage. It easily develops and it easily fades. So with you being out of the picture for a few days he probably was bored and was still shopping around here in order to keep himself occupied and probably found himself another fish to play with. This exact situation happened to me. Three months dating then I went away for a week and suddenly things went sour right after I got back. No more returned calls, no more returned texts or emails, no more anything. All I say is thank God because it just lead me one step closer to finding my current sweetheart. Cast your rod again honey, you're better off without him.
P.S. Seems to me he's doing the typical cowardly brushoff. Got to love a man without balls!!!! <<<(Sarcatically speaking of course). | |
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| The disappearing act?
Posted: 3/14/2007 7:10:18 PM | i prefer my men with balls. Thanks
I wouldn't sleep with anyone I met on this site in three months. Don't care who likes it and who don't. So I guess I'll have to figure out if he has balls while he's wearing clothes. | |
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| The disappearing act?
Posted: 3/15/2007 8:10:45 PM | Hey lets nominate the "Disappearing Act " as one of the new WONDERS of the WORLD !!!!!!!
Noone plays the break-up and get-backtogeather game anymore like they used to in the old days.
You know what.....them disappearing on ya is probably a Blessing in Disguise !!
I t wasn't meant to be so let them go find their next victim  | |
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| The disappearing act?
Posted: 3/15/2007 8:39:48 PM | Hey, now that's a great idea! Not only make it another wonder of the world...lets give it it's own tv show, like Chris Angel mind Freak.....
Mandevil WeakFreak?  | |
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| The disappearing act?
Posted: 3/15/2007 9:22:59 PM | I think the disappearing act is sort of like the dryer zone, you know...that special place where the socks go missing forever? | |
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| The disappearing act?
Posted: 3/15/2007 9:56:31 PM | Seems alot of this is going around... same thing happened to me here at POF too, talked for a long time, met, instant connection, everything was perfect, we spent endless hours together, concerts, festivals, family time (my family loved him)
3 months after we started dating, he just disappeared, deleted his POF account, his 360, his myspace, no answer to my messages on his cell & home phone, of course when last you see this person and everything is wonderful, your first thoughts will be OMG what if he's hurt... his brother has a POF account here, I emailed him, it showed under sent messages that he read my email, but never responded back. I called his son, left a message, nothing.... I finally gave up, I had cried all I was going to over a man who took the cowards way out, I dusted myself off, put on a smile, and started living again :) all I can say is...... HIS loss
Any chance this is the same man? I see alot of 3 month limits here  | |
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| The disappearing act?
Posted: 3/18/2007 10:26:36 AM | apparently this happens alot, both men and women do it. it is a cowards way out on either end, and that's interesting about the 3 months thing. I guess i should wait to plan any trips if i start dating someone again huh.....hahaha just teasing.
People like this aren't worth it anyway......his loss, my loss everyone's loss, lets just hope people like that are few and far between in my fish net! | |
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| The disappearing act?
Posted: 3/18/2007 10:44:33 AM |
lets just hope people like that are few and far between in my fish net!
thats' wishful thinking.. | |
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| The disappearing act?
Posted: 3/18/2007 2:19:22 PM | | ah ya never know, better to stay optomistic then become eternally jaded! | |
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Kengne
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Joined: 11/8/2006
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| The disappearing act?
Posted: 3/18/2007 3:41:44 PM | Ditto.
What other people do, I could care less. But no way in HELLLLLLL would I be sleeping with ANY guy in what, less than 3 months of dating? HA!
I don't have a time 'limit' or 'rule'. But I know 3 months, would not be nearly enough time for me to know that person or to be ready - mentally, emotionally and spiritually -for sex. And if a dude can't understand or respect that then this is me -> 
Sorry this dude took the easy way out. Alot of people will do that, but you juss gotta shake em offf and keep steppin!
K. | |
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