| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/2/2008 10:59:13 AM | kat you may find this hard to believe but I don't talk to a womans chest. I will say that if a woman wear a low cut top or a short skirt its because they want men to see their legs and boobage so it would be rude for me not to look!!!.
Then some women get upset because a mans eyes focus on what they are showing off.
Women check out guys the same way. I can't tell you how many times I've heard women discussing a guy they have seen when they are out and these women can be rather graphic and crude. I have even caught women checking out my skinny little butt and have confronted a few to ask them what they thought of it!!!!!
Men and women are both visual. If something is pleasing to the eye we look whether it be a picture, a building, the landscape or a human. Often our eyes are drawn to something we find ugly or unattractive. Our tastes may differ but the fact remains that we look. Its human nature to do so. | |
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/3/2008 5:39:28 PM | John....you little devil You know darn well it's the other way around! I have the pictures of you without your face showing but everything else, I've made tons of money off of them too If you had those kind of me peole would be paying you to not show them ever again eeekkkk scary things they'd be
Follow the hand, up, up, up, there you go....see I DO have eyes guys!
Tony... just for that, see if you get any details from me when I meet up with handsome!
Hodgie... I think he's on his way to Ohio soon
Rip, that was beautiful and you're right, we'd all be with our soul mates if we didnt have eyes | |
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/4/2008 7:08:23 AM | | I would say women do all of the above also, but you are right. A lot of men go for just looks. A lot of women promote that though. Some even call themselves future trophy wives, etc., but in the end a guy who thinks like that will pay in divorce court. | |
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/4/2008 10:44:54 AM | devilwentdown, you are right about that. i have a hard making ex-boyfriends disappear. they fell in love with me and not my beautiful size 22 body LOL LOL. if they'd learn to treat me right, i would not be here!!!! hehehehheehhehe and i think they realize more after i give them walking papers what a gem they HAD !!! | |
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/4/2008 7:06:59 PM | Awwww Hodgie Those words mean a lot to me. You better be careful, you're going to give guys a good name There really is some pretty nice ones still out here isnt there, and I caught the best | |
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/5/2008 3:49:48 AM | robitty, is that a bay city party? probably not at this time, but one never knows!!! i've been a party animal lately hehehehheheh
and i don't even but i sure
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/5/2008 4:39:02 AM | Hey everyone...I might as well put my two cents in on this post
I think that most guys have the "Goal Post" attitude. I am only speaking from my experiences that have all been really bad lately. Whatever happened to becoming friends first and not looking at just the body parts? Parts are Parts and what comes from the mind and heart are what is important. Is there anyone out there that agrees with that? When I meet someone, I am only looking at their heart and intellect. The rest can come later. Looks are an important factor but whatever happened to the "person" you are with? Right now, I'm thinking that you have to stick with the "eyes" . They say it all.
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/5/2008 5:41:54 AM | | I look at their smile. If a person can genuinly smile at me, then I feel there is a sort of connection. I think its funny though how men expect arm candy when they themselves havent kept themselves in great shape. It gets old being cast aside for a 'thinner' counter part when in reality, you know what a great person you are. Looks are not everything, ultimatly, its how you react to one another. Don't forget, in the end, you have to like your partner when the looks fade. Communication is key. You should still be each others best friend and lover no matter where the road leads. Thanks for listening. Have a great day everyone! | |
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/5/2008 9:36:33 AM | "Don't forget, in the end, you have to like your partner when the looks fade. Communication is key."
Looks don't fade when you like and love your patrner, looks fade when you don't. Communications is very important but commonality is more important. Commonality generates possitive communication instead of aguments. I've seen when communications is nothing but negative in nature. Just my opinion. | |
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/5/2008 11:52:16 AM |
Looks don't fade when you like and love your patrner, looks fade when you don't.
I agree with that, John. My grandmother who is 83 yrs old once told me that my grandfather still looks like that handsome man she fell in love with 60 yrs ago despite the 'few gray hairs and few wrinkles'. lol And you know what,,, she is right. When i look at his pictures of when he was that handsome young man, i can definitely see my grandpa there like she said, despite the 'few gray hairs and few wrinkles'. :) | |
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/5/2008 7:21:46 PM | Yes Jo....that'd be the one I'm talking about Lots of people invited, and I would LOVE to finally meet the face behind the typing...LOL!
Linda...(((HUGS)))
I am afraid true love doesn't normally win anymore, it seems like everyone is in too big of a hurry to not be alone. I don't like being alone but the idea of being with the wrong man versus alone is not something I want. This time I'm going to be very careful and take it nice and slow...even as I eyeball the stud muffin from here
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/5/2008 10:43:40 PM | I'm tired of women that expect to much and only look for look's.
There are "old fashion men that are truthful and caring" out there, you (and most other women) just don't give them a chance because they don't look enough like a movie star or underwear model or make enough money for your liking. | |
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/6/2008 4:46:24 AM |
I'm tired of women that expect to much and only look for look's.
There are "old fashion men that are truthful and caring" out there, you (and most other women) just don't give them a chance because they don't look enough like a movie star or underwear model or make enough money for your liking.
I have to agree. They complain they can't find quality guys, then pass us up like hot potatoes.... They complain about us wanting sex, then dress in such a way that makes it tough for you to keep your eyes in your head or tongue from hanging out.
But then they are women, complex, not easy to understand, and fruity as they come......
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/6/2008 6:16:52 PM |
I'm tired of women that expect to much and only look for look's.
There are "old fashion men that are truthful and caring" out there, you (and most other women) just don't give them a chance because they don't look enough like a movie star or underwear model or make enough money for your liking.
Oh wow...I know you're not talking to me ITZJUSTME...because if the shoe doesn't fit...I don't wear it! LOLOLOL I just looked at your pics, you look like an underwear model...awfully young to be so bitter and angry sounding! Come back and talk to me when you get dumped after 17 years of marriage for a 17 year younger than you person ok? I am NOT all about looks, never have been but I DO believe there has to be a physical connection/attraction or you don't have a basis to even start with and that is just my opinion and my way of thinking.
Mr Tony aka looking for trouble....
They complain about us wanting sex, then dress in such a way that makes it tough for you to keep your eyes in your head or tongue from hanging out.
But then they are women, complex, not easy to understand, and fruity as they come......
I already like you and think you are one of the good guys so I am going to blame this post of yours on the fact that you must have bumped your head hard or something!!! How I dress should not mean it is ok for men to openly google me! I shouldn't have to dress like a nun to avoid that. And fruity??? Fruity you say? Joanne??? Can you check your thread mate over for a concussion....he just referred to women as fruity, so before I go beat up on him I want to be sure he is physically competent
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/6/2008 8:15:50 PM | LOL, well of course I posted that stuff to stir up the bees nest....
But seriously, don't blame a guy for looking if you have it hanging all out there and naked. Hell I have seen some serious skin on some mean sexy looking clothes, and the ladies are like.... "Oh I only wear this old thing to impress the other ladies", RIGHT!  | |
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's Posted: 5/6/2008 8:20:50 PM |
Joanne??? Can you check your thread mate over for a concussion....he just referred to women as fruity, so before I go beat up on him I want to be sure he is physically competent
ROBITTY, I CAN ATTEST TO THE FACT THAT TONY IS OF SOUND MIND & BODY.........you do what you have to do dear!!!!!
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