| Men that expect to much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/6/2008 8:23:15 PM | See that snow ball you're holding Tony my dear? Hnag on to it for me til we meet...I think I'm going to need it I'm going to stir up a bees nest under your butt mister!
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/7/2008 4:29:40 AM | Hmm, do you have a thing about bananas  and butts....
Besides I have titanium skin, a lil bee has a hard time getting through it 
But if hodge doesn't mind you running around the place trying to smack my butt, maybe I can buy a peace drink.   
Either way, admit it, during 1/4 or your life, you have PMS, 1/4 of your life, you have a period, only 1/2 is close to normal
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/7/2008 11:40:00 AM | I agree that we see what we like first exspecially on these sites and being one of the wall flowers myself it sucks. but for the ladies out there that have kids that is a blessing, more to love. the hard part is the drama from the ex- and the ladies that have kids and don't want any more. I don't have a problem raising hers but charish the idea of raising ours. thanks for your time.
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/7/2008 5:16:49 PM | Sunsetseeker, that was really a nice comment.
Tony...I am really starting to question what the heck Jo saw in you. I think you are a male chauvanist. Do you remember who brought you into the world?...it sure wasn't a male. | |
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Yma67
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Joined: 1/7/2008
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/7/2008 5:55:18 PM | Whoa Tony, even for effect.. too much too far.
Don't blame the Uterus, it gave you life.
I know alot of men who are just as prickly as "woman on pms".. what's their excuse?
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| Men that expect to much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/7/2008 8:12:01 PM | Ah the attacks are coming now....
But seriously, actually I am a patience man and understand those things. I actually am sorry woman have to go though such things and have said that many times.
And I am not really a pig, just having a lil fun with the forum buddies.
Either way, DID YOU KNOW JOANNE GOT BANNED from the forums for 3 days! | |
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| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/8/2008 7:15:40 AM |
Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Yup, my life story. 'Cool' enough to hang out with and shoot the breeze with, but never pretty enough, skinny enough, cute enough for anything more than that.
pssst Tony,,,dont think our friend would appreciate you announcing that to the whole pond.  | |
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| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/8/2008 3:51:03 PM | Maybe we need to start a thread on the appropriateness of public gossiping....or lack of....ouch!!! I think someone is now TOAST
So how's the weather doing for everyone? It's been perfect here, we missed all those rainstorms they predicted, I think they stayed to the south maybe?
Rip...I'm cool enough for them to want to try to "hit it" as soon as they meet me but that's it...when I say no thanks, I'm not good enough for anything more. I'm always checking my back to see if there's a sign or something! Great for my self esteem...not.
Maybe that's why I always seem and sound bitter? How come they want to meet me and have sex but not want to just date me and get to know me first? | |
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| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/9/2008 9:47:17 AM |
pssst Tony,,,dont think our friend would appreciate you announcing that to the whole pond.
Oops, did I let the cat out of the bag?
Was that the cat's meow though, I can't believe it's just for posting to old message thread!
Or maybe it's that singing cats can be very noisy?
I think maybe it will be cat crazy when she's back..... | |
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| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/9/2008 12:07:45 PM |
How come they want to meet me and have sex but not want to just date me and get to know me first?
Yeah c'mon you guys! Fess up! We wanna know!
Yanno, ive read complaints in the global forums about women doing just what the men do,,,,,,using men for just sex! lol Hmmm,,honestly, i just cant believe that! Sure there might be some women out there who'll 'hit it' on the first date, but to use a man just for sex?? For real??? | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 4:32:35 PM | LOL Rip...I've read that a bunch of times too and every time I see it I have to laugh I just find it so hard to believe!! I always wonder if maybe what is happening is that the girl is really hmmm what's the right words here...easy, loose, etc and comes on to the guy way too forward and they take it as she is only after sex.
I just really really can't see a girl doing that and not because we are any better than men...women just don't have a problem finding sex if they really want it that bad. I just had this exact conversation with Hodge the other night...LOL, too funny, and I told him there is always a bar at closing time for the loose goose if they got that desperate but I know of NO ONE who has ever went after a man just for sex.
We have toys of every size shape and color and some I've never even heard of before to please the senses if we get to that point....can it really honestly be true? Females acting like males? No way....come on guys.... | |
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Yma67
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Joined: 1/7/2008
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| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/9/2008 4:46:37 PM | Okay, I have a theory on that. It's not so much I've ever used a man for just sex, but... if after giving gentle hints, then thumping him over the head with it.. if he don't pay attention to what does and does not work for me...and I explain why it's not going to work.. then let him take away from the experience he was just my play thing for the moment. I guess it's easier to say I was just using him then he just plain ol' didn't do it for me. (I know I'm going to take some hits for this one lol.. those egos are going to rev up in defensive mode I'm sure) But point is, maybe some people should explore that instead of her just using you, you weren't compatable. And, yes yes yes.. I know this goes both ways.
It's just a theory, my opinion.. I know that this doesn't apply for you studs out there
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| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/9/2008 5:51:30 PM | What? Use men for sex? WHO KNOWS IF IT'S GONNA BE ANY GOOD?????
'It' may not cooperate, he may not share your 'tastes'.....
I would stick with the V, personally. It never let's ya down! It's always there and ready when YOU are! It doesn't get tired! It's willing to go Round 3!
And it doesn't leave you.....for another V!
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| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/9/2008 7:06:03 PM | "It's not so much I've ever used a man for just sex, but... if after giving gentle hints, then thumping him over the head with it.."
I hunt the Deford State Game area. I guess all the warnings I recieved about the women in Caro being mean are true!!!!!!!! | |
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Yma67
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Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 141 | |
| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/9/2008 7:27:35 PM | Why kind sir (John), whatever do you mean? I have no clue what you're going on about! (I say in the most innocent Scarlett O'Hara voice) You know us good ol' country gals are nothing but love and sugah! We just know what we want and know how to tell you lol.
Lol.. I thought "thumping" was a great metaphore. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 10:34:30 PM | "You know us good ol' country gals are nothing but love and sugah! "
Love and sugah huh? Do you work at Pioneer ? 
"thumping" can be taken more than one way. Its kind of like when a guy says he wants to "hit it".  | |
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| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/10/2008 1:13:02 AM | Well Susie,,call me naive (however the hell thats spelled! haha)! I know there are some women out there who will have one night stands for the sake of just having a good roll in the sack, but im talking about women who some of these men in the global forums are saying that women are just downright out and out out there looking for sex. These men are stating that in a womans profile, the woman is misleading about what she wants and when these men date them, all the woman is out for is just sex. lolol Female version of male players! lolol
So yeah,,in that respect,,i didnt think women were THAT ruthless! haha | |
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| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/10/2008 4:31:51 AM | Hey Everyone
Maybe women should start acting like men! They could see how we feel about the way they do their "hunting".
It always takes two to "Tango" (well most of the time) and if that is what both want , then it's OK. I think it is usually a onesided deal in the beginning of a relationship.
Some Men think when there is some intimacy that you have to finish the game. Well, when the game is over, they usually move on. S - x should be the last thing that two people discover about each other. Getting to know someone is most of the fun. Obviously, this is only my opinion. I am playing the "Friendship First" game and I'm not going to change. If I never meet Mr. Right then it is meant to be. Like I said in other threads....taking care of my dandleions and dealing with the blisters is painful but not as much as finding a relationship!
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Posted: 5/10/2008 5:29:12 AM | Okay Susie...you can call me naive but then you have to explain to me WHY women would use a man for JUST sex. You said "other things" which I can accept and understand, I have a honey do list ten feet long (no I'm not looking to find me a man to use to get it done) but sex Susie?
I'm with my Lighthouse Babe...stick with the V til I find the man of my dreams, why in the WORLD would I want to use a man for sex and cause drama in my life when I could please myself when the need arises
Give me the man for the other things I miss that I can't do alone take a walk and hold his hand, dance real slow and look into his eyes, cuddle up together and share a good movie, have a great conversation over a drink or cup of coffee, have a fun argument over politics, garden together in the back yard, go bowl or play pool together and pick on one another...the fun things in life...then give me the sex with that same man when its important and special, it's far more hot and steamy when its with someone you really care for in my HO | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 8:04:50 AM | Women players generally are much more ruthless then men. Don't kid yourselves.. Just as there are women who are out to get a mans money there are those out there that are out to get other things too...
Women tend to be able to be more selective since they do have more choices. But there are definetly women out there that present themselves to be looking for things they are not and get what they want and move on.
I have known women who were into the variety of sex with different men. One in particular would brag about how many men she had been with, if she ended up sleeping with a man who was married or had a steady girlfriend it was that much more exciting for her. It was all about building her self esteem and making her think she was someone important. She would also try and get guys to buy stuff for her. She had different guys she would have around for different reasons. And she would use sex as a tool to get what she wanted. Her favorite line was "Try em all and keep the best". If she got a guy to buy her clothes she would brag about it.. Or if she could get someone to buy her jewelry she would brag as well..
I have met married women who were big time players as well.. They did NOT want the commitment. They just wanted to repeat the excitement and newness of someone new as often as they could. They have a lot of one night stands but then also might have a couple where they keep em around for a while before dumping them. In their cases alot of the time their husbands were CEOs of big companies or somehow rich. They married them for the money and lifestyle but ended up becoming players to get the sex they wanted.
All I can say is it takes all kinds...
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Yma67
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Msg: 149 | |
| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/10/2008 8:29:57 AM | "was all about building her self esteem and making her think she was someone important"
She was actually self destructing her self esteem. People like that put on a happy face and tell their fish stories, but find them in the dark place and alone... and you meet a totally differnt person. Don't let the bragging fool you, people who don't demand respect from others or treat others with respect, don't respect themselves. Using people for personal gains is low and manipulative.
Could get into all kinds of psycho babble on this, but I've been getting too long winded lately lol. | |
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| Men that expect too much and only look for look's
Posted: 5/10/2008 8:32:45 AM | If we take a look at the big picture we are all users!!!! Whether it be for night or a life time we are with someone because we are getting something we want. It doesn’t have to be bad or hurt someone when you use them. Any time it takes more than just yourself to do something you are in fact using someone to achieve your goal. Often its two people using each other to get what they want such as the things Robin said;
“Give me the man for the other things I miss that I can't do alone, take a walk and hold his hand, dance real slow and look into his eyes, cuddle up together and share a good movie, have a great conversation over a drink or cup of coffee, have a fun argument over politics, garden together in the back yard, go bowl or play pool together and pick on one another...the fun things in life…”
When two people use each other with neither feeling like they are being used its called compatibility, As I said before, it might be for a night or a life time depending on the people.
Life is a game we all play. We are all players if you think about it.
“ Some Men think when there is some intimacy that you have to finish the game. Well, when the game is over, they usually move on. S - x should be the last thing that two people discover about each other. Getting to know someone is most of the fun. Obviously, this is only my opinion. I am playing the "Friendship First" game and I'm not going to change.”
Not everyone is playing the same game. Even if they are playing the same game they may not be playing it by the same rules. When you find someone playing by the same rules it can be fun but the length of the game needs to be agreed upon by the players before you start. Once again, it may be for a night or a life time.
When deception is used to get someone to unknowingly play your game, what ever it might be, it will cause hurt and problems. Not everyone is able to play the same game. People need to get in the game they are prepared to play. | |
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