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| Okay, how to get women to notice me offline.
Posted: 3/13/2007 9:12:43 AM |
You can't really know that for sure though because there are also photo's where I look really ugly on them. This is what makes things confusing for me on whether I actually am nice looking in real life or not.
Ross, go to Hair stylist and ask if the hair cut suits your face. ask for feed back. The more genuine feedback you get about your appearence, the more comfort you will feel about yourself boosting your confidence. You might consider going to a clothing store and stressing you need some help with your style, ask about first impressions. Ask the sales clerks to give you some feed back. As you can see the majority of people here are helping you in thier way but I think you dont' trust or actually feel what possibilities you do have, that is if its' about your appearence.
Or you could have a Party, call it whatever you like but ask your sister or your best girlfrind to gather critics and give you a possible make over.
Another thing, when your meeting people in the real world as in a date, your seeming slightly intimidated as your feeling out of sorts as to your confidence. Bring with you things that your passionate about and relate it to something you did that day and want to share 'it' to give her an idea of what your about. Not your family photo album but something about you. There is something exciting about a man feeling happy/content about his passions.  | |
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| Okay, how to get women to notice me offline.
Posted: 3/13/2007 12:54:58 PM | "I dont look as good as I do on my good photo's in real life" that is the problem right there.
Your underestimating yourself.. maybe really you do look better in life than your in your photos and they dont do u justice to yourself.. (you only see yourself in a mirror with fake expressions and in photos) this negative kinda thinking is probably the only problem you really have when it comes to attracting women.
Certain guys in a crowd stand out to me more than others, they arnt usually the ones who are the best looking, have the most money or nicest clothes. Something about them just stands out, and I really think its their personality, their additude, and how they think of themselves... and that is super attractive more so than ones who are wearing nice clothes and took longer to pick something out to wear than me! lol.
Going out when you already dont feel good about yourself isnt going to make you feel any better..
Being ugly isnt only on the exterior.. If your constantly critizing yourself, worrying, regretting, and just thinking negetivly like this it will show on the outside.
Sometimes whats on the outside is a reflection of what is on the inside.
I never used to think I was the prettiest, or even that great looking, I would always be nervous around guys, I never thought I was good enough, that guys were always checking out my friend instead of me. I used to be kinda shy and uptight, and just gernerally unstatisfied with myself. I think people catch onto this and thats why you become even more unattractive.
Once I given up trying to look good for everyone else or trying to be something that I wasnt, then I started to change. I wanted to look good for myself not for everyone else.. And I think that confidence is what makes someone more attractive.
People think alot of things, so show them what they assume isnt always right. I know its hard, I get it everyday, like I always have to prove my worth to someone, that im not just a bitch because I look kinda pretty. But most guys assume I am. I dont really get alot of people talking to me either.
So I figure I just need to make more of an effort to talk to people then.
Alot of decent guys on here I dont talk to or reply back to not because they are not good enough for me
but just because they havent made an real effort, so I dont either... and its not always that a girl doesnt want to talk to u, its just that maybe she is really busy talking with someone else..
Something to keep in mind. The more the effort you make, the more Im going to think you are worth me making an effort for.......
Believing in yourself can be a very powerful thing...
So next time you go out, think of all the good things you have to offer, all your best qualities..
just think about how good of a person you really are, instead of just how you look, I bet you will turn more heads, and start to wonder why people are starring at you so much.
being confident and comfortable with yourself, makes people want to be around you more...
its not fun being around someone who is constantly uncomfortable.. and its usually not hard to tell when they are.. makes other people question themselves too instead of just being your sweet selves.
When someone worries alot about themselves it only makes me worry about them too, like what are they hiding? and why are they so uncomfortable? should I be uncomfortable too, like should I have something to worry about.. what kinda person are they really?
Im sure your little worries are just that, just little worries.... alot of people turn stupid little things into big things that end up affecting their whole lives..
Find ways to relax and be happy with yourself and other people, especially females will notice.
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| Okay, how to get women to notice me offline.
Posted: 3/13/2007 2:43:53 PM |
"I dont look as good as I do on my good photo's in real life"
I never said that though, I said I may not look as good as I do on my good photo's in real life because I've also got photo's where I look ugly on them as well. | |
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| Okay, how to get women to notice me offline.
Posted: 3/13/2007 7:04:52 PM | | Ok, i'll be brutaly honest. Here why you look, and feel like crap. You have n0 sense in style, go ask a girl if they could help you. I did it, and they were happy too do it. Your negative energy is contagious, everyone around you can feel it. Stop been emo, and start thinking positive about yourself. MAN UP! You do the best you can about your looks, but worrying about looks is a woman job. They need too impress you! | |
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| Okay, how to get women to notice me offline.
Posted: 3/14/2007 6:43:22 AM | Lol, there's nothing wrong with my style IMO, true, in one of the pictures I was wearing some average jumper but that's about it.
And if that's you in your avatar you've got no right to critisize someone elses style, lmao. | |
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| Okay, how to get women to notice me offline.
Posted: 5/3/2007 9:10:16 AM | Make eye contact. Smile. Have a pleasant demeanor. Don't seem like you're in a hurry. (like in a store, act like you have a minute to notice her.) Say hello. Help her get something off a shelf that's taller than her. Ask her if she's tried some product like a spaghetti sauce, or something...
Say hi to women on the street. Smile. Make eye contact. | |
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