| People who state I'm attractive in their profile.
Posted: 1/16/2008 5:28:19 PM | | do profiles say "not attractive" but give me a whirl anyway? For me beauty is in the eye of the beholder and this is something either you see or not. attractive can mean a number of things and I don't think the outside package is a sole factor in attractiveness. | |
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| People who state I'm attractive in their profile.
Posted: 1/16/2008 7:21:23 PM | | Attractive according to who???? I find it very arrogant when a woman writes in their profile that they are " Attractive". I always wonder who made the determination? Some are, but alot are not.......! Big turn off....! Let me be the judge. | |
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| People who state I'm attractive in their profile.
Posted: 8/13/2008 11:52:43 PM | A person who would say in their profile that they are attractive is over board. Giving a person a compliment on her/his looks is just a gesture that they got your attention ,their respond is thank you. But if you want an opening line to draw their attention to you ,you should have a better line than "You're Beautiful"....  | |
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| People who state I'm attractive in their profile.
Posted: 8/14/2008 5:17:19 AM | I think it will tend to push a lot of guys/girls away. The attitude of 'I'm attractive' is subjective. For me someone's personality is attractive first and foremost. How many can say that? I don't know but in reading many women's profile, they do talk about 'a funny,smart and responsible guy' but one must also read the fine print i.e. 'Must look good in speedo' as an example.
We don't know what's attractive if we only go by looks we have failed as a person. Look deeper than that. People we all need to stop being superficial  | |
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| People who state I'm attractive in their profile.
Posted: 8/14/2008 9:28:13 AM | | Maybe it is because I am from SoCal and we are all so damned superficial here (whatever) but I have no problem with someone who has high enough self esteem to either state they are attractive/intelligent or to say that others have said this about them. Marketing. I recognize that most posting to this thread disagree with my viewpoint. Maybe online dating is not for me! Best - S | |
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| People who state I'm attractive in their profile.
Posted: 8/14/2008 9:35:09 AM | | A woman's / man's opinion of her / his own looks is not that important in terms of getting dates. It's other people's opinion of her / his looks that count more. If anything, a person that states they are attractive could come across as arrogant or insecure. | |
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| People who state I'm attractive in their profile.
Posted: 10/4/2008 10:41:18 AM | Somewhat of a turn off when a man or woman feels the need to tell you how "attractive" they are....
If a person is really confident, they would realize that looks/attractiveness are all subjective anyway and realize that its up to the "viewer" to decide that for him/her self if they find you attractive or no...A lot to be said for modesty.
It's great to love yourself as a person .. your character /humor/ morals....not based on how good you think you look...
Tooting you own horn about your looks just smaks of arrogance and conceit which isn't attractive at all... | |
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