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Ender
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Joined: 2/1/2004
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 8/5/2007 3:37:18 AM | If girl posts pictures of herself in her underwear and then acts like a self righteous **** when a guy sends her a compliment for it then she's a stupid ****.
Just my thoughts on the whole subject. I mean FFS ladies if you don't want a guy to comment in that manner, then don't stick a picture of your cleavage or your ass on your main profile picture. | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 8/5/2007 6:13:10 PM | | It really depends on how it's done. Most cannot do it with much charm. It needs to be personable, original and nonthreatening. Most men don't understand the art of social charm at all. Need to watch 10 or 20 period flicks. Nohing is free. Just being callous, boring or doing something 10,000 other guys do just doesn't get it. It needs style, flair, originality and sincerity. | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 8/7/2007 5:18:56 PM | I have never said sexy in the first contact. I have said, "I love your eyes in this light."
"You are taller than I thought." "You look different from your picture, your hair is darker, but I recognised your eyes.""That dress becomes you."" You have an infectious smile.""Your picture does not do you justice.""You have a very Angelic voice." The amazing thing is that it was true every time.
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 8/7/2007 7:48:49 PM | My bad. I was thinking first face to face type contact. First e-mail contact? Geese. "I liked your profile.""I am a "bust man" in the sculptural sense. Necks and shoulders. Yours are nice." (I know ) "Intense eyes."Crap I am feeling creepy. Usually I comment on the profile not the picture. I respond to far more first contacts than i instigate. Leaving the forum with my tail between my legs. | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 8/7/2007 7:56:14 PM | I think it depends on who's uttering the sexy comment. Sometimes I get creeped out, other times I simply get amused. I'm still waiting for that toe-curling feeling when Clooney emails how sexy I am.
The amusement is usually brought on by the comments from the 21-year-olds. Most of the time "sexy" is spelled wrong. And apparently my name is "Hunni".
Gotta love those gen-x-ers. | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 8/7/2007 10:36:18 PM | | It's not creepy or complimentary....it's annoying! You just know that when it starts out that way it isn't going to go anywhere and it will just be a waste of time. (By the way new to the sight. Hello all!) Just last night, I got an intro with a "you're sexy, describe the rest of you." Come on! Tell me, am I going to have to go to an "e harmony" or "chemistry" and pay $$$ to find someone of interest and with some cooth and intelegence? | |
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