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 eeek

Joined: 9/23/2005
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Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/14/2007 5:41:31 PM

Oooh, that Eeek is such a strumpet!


strumpet
n : a woman adulterer [syn: adulteress, fornicatress, hussy,
jade, loose woman, slut, trollop]

Are you saying I'm a woman? I'm all right with that but only if it comes with multiple orgasms. I do have my standards.
 Janet4now

Joined: 10/3/2006
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Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/14/2007 5:48:32 PM
oh EEEK... men, can have multi-o's too.

(I'm sure Mominatrix has that book too, ask her to borrow it -- It's a MUST read.)
 ItsaKelticthing

Joined: 6/8/2006
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Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/14/2007 5:52:23 PM
you're so cryptic,

and forgive whatever is it you said, tried to say, or tried not to say...

So I'm forgiven then???
 ItsaKelticthing

Joined: 6/8/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 5:59:21 PM

I'm all right with that but only if it comes with multiple orgasms

Isn't it enough to have the gift of gab? Sheesh..some people!
 aquashell

Joined: 1/16/2007
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Posted: 3/14/2007 6:42:16 PM
Pick up lines are just that.... lines , so if u only say it cause u know that girls like it, why don't u just say what u know we want to hear!!! Sorry just had to pick on u for a min LOL. No for real that might be rude.
People have always used the word cute to discribe me and I do hate it! I hate sexy even more!! It might just be me but I think of sexy as a way to describe your body not face, Or the whole u not only ¼ of u. I only put my face on most pics so I always laugh at guys who tell me I’m sexy. One day I’m going to put a real disgusting looking body on my face and send it back…..now do u think I’m sexy??? So if thats u u know whats comming.
For my business, I have to start conversations with strange people every day and I ‘m not saying I’m good at it, but there is a lot of ice breakers that are just as good as lines. Maybe complements should be on a subject they talked about in the blog. Like I heard someone say or ask them a question. I always talk to people no matter what they look like or what they say just because that’s me, but I do have a lot of friends that will run with that first impression. I was once somewhere and a guy told me I was almost hot LOL!!! Now that was original!!! I bet I will never here that again in my whole life. My friend told me “did he really say that? I should have hit him.” I thought it was funny and if I had had the time would have given him credit for trying. So anyway not 101 ways to pick up a girl but maybe ice breakers they may work a little better. That’s my take hope u liked it!!
 Spikeidaho

Joined: 8/26/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 6:56:19 PM
I guess telling her that she has a nice full rack is out, too. I also surmise that a man shouldn't tell her that her titties make him tingle. Another set of words to avoid are certain comparisons, such as "Your ass is like a shit house." That might offend a church girl. One final thought: don't tell her that you'd like to experiment on her sexually for the weekend. That tends to get a person arrested.
 eeek

Joined: 9/23/2005
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Posted: 3/14/2007 7:28:46 PM

(I'm sure Mominatrix has that book too, ask her to borrow it -- It's a MUST read.)


She has a new boyfriend. So it's probably being used. Might have to get my own copy. Do you have an ISBN?


I guess telling her that she has a nice full rack is out, too. I also surmise that a man shouldn't tell her that her titties make him tingle. Another set of words to avoid are certain comparisons, such as "Your ass is like a shit house."


Well, those certainly aren't very good for an initial email.


That might offend a church girl.


Probably has a good chance of offending many more than just church girls.
 CTR916

Joined: 11/27/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 9:59:44 PM
Why do women have such an issue with such a simple little word? Anything other than a dictionary definition can be too subjective if not explained.

So, can any rational and "independent" women explain how the word sexy (which can be used afterward) has been convoluted to mean: I want to bend you over the nearest horizontal surface?

Does it have the same connotation afterward, as well? In other words, if I call a woman I have a relationship with, sexy, does that mean I really just want to bend her over the nearest horizontal surface?
 lolnothnx

Joined: 2/19/2007
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Posted: 3/14/2007 10:25:35 PM
ahahaha i probably eat more in one day than you do in 3 days. im sorry you are bitter because your genetics suck.

thats funny youre calling me stick girl, yet say that my phjotos are sexual. um you do know that if i WAS anorexic it would most likely be to make myself LESS sexual right. Because what is sexual? Oh right FAT IS. breasts, ass. if you think i lack both, i could walk around half naked and it would be okay because skinny people are not sexual. fat people are. "curvy" people are. a D cup and an A cup could wear the same shirt and the D cup looks liek a raging skank while the A cup looks respectable/...so yeah, you can either call me a stick, or a skank, but you cant call me both

and honestly you have some major pedophilia issues if you think that photo is at all sexual. Seriously, you're sick. i hope the cops see you and lock you up. I didnt take that phtoot to attract anyone, i was just playing around. if i wanted to attract skanks, id tape up my tits and do a blurry webcam shots of them like so many seriously deranged girls on here do. Instead i call attention to the fact hat i DONT have a lot of curves so that people wont treat me like a slut.
 lolnothnx

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Posted: 3/14/2007 10:26:58 PM
I know what a catch 22 is.
You, who apparantly dropped out of middle school, does not, and are using words you have no clue about in hopes that no one in this forum is educated enough to catch the fact that you are just spitting shit out of your ass and have no idea what you're talking about.

thats sad, im losing respect for my elders every time i go on this site. its sad to think that people who are old enough to be my parents still act like teenagers
 Paddy O Furniture

Joined: 9/15/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 10:31:05 PM
Just when I thought it was safe to go back in the water........
 CreoleLibra

Joined: 7/2/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 10:33:48 PM
I agree with you paddyo, it would seem this is the third forum topic that I have come across where the young ones are so full of anger. Makes you wonder what their home lives where like.
 eeek

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Posted: 3/14/2007 10:34:25 PM

i probably eat more in one day than you do in 3 days


Well, why didn't you tell us you were gay in the first place, stickgirl®™?


Because what is sexual? Oh right FAT IS. breasts, ass.


Wrong, stickgirl®™. Not even close.


and honestly you have some major pedophilia issues if you think that photo is at all sexual


The pose is sexual whether you think it is or not. On the other hand I find you to be completely non-sexual. You do nothing for me other than make me laugh a bit.


Seriously, you're sick. i hope the cops see you and lock you up.


I don't think the cops care if I laugh at a stickgirl®™ with her legs in the air. Last tiem I looked laughing at silly girls wasn't a crime.


if i wanted to attract skanks, id tape up my tits and do a blurry webcam shots of them like so many seriously deranged girls on here do. Instead i call attention to the fact hat i DONT have a lot of curves so that people wont treat me like a slut.


You're obsessed with trying not to be a slut. Why is that? Sounds like you have some major issues with your sexuality. That's one of the reason I find you completely asexual.

Take my advice if you can. Get over yourself.
 CreoleLibra

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Posted: 3/14/2007 10:42:45 PM
No apparently you dont know what a Catch 22 is, but that is neither here nor there.

I probably have more degrees than you can shake your stick legs at, not that I would care to see you do that...and the only one that is spouting out dementia laced shit like a 2 year old is you.

I doubt seriously if any of your elders on this site or any other or in life cares if you respect them or not. First you must learn to respect yourself and I thank God I dont have a child like you I would be embarassed to say the least.


Ahhhh I remember hearing my elders saying "the beauty of youth" in the number of young adults that I have seen lately ranting as petulant little children, i would say more aptly "The ugliness of youth". I would also imagine that you fall in line with either Goths or Emos...you so seem so torn and sad!!!!!
 Paddy O Furniture

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Posted: 3/14/2007 10:53:16 PM
U guys are some vicious muthas.

Remind me to never get on your sh*t list
 ItsaKelticthing

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Posted: 3/14/2007 11:00:57 PM

Remind me to never get on your sh*t list

I thought you helped write the sh!t l!st Paddy.
By the way, that's a fine Irish name ya got there...are ya related to Erin D' Brah?
 Paddy O Furniture

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Posted: 3/14/2007 11:02:56 PM

I thought you helped write the sh!t l!st Paddy


I just wrote the forwarding remarks
 slprincess

Joined: 3/6/2007
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Posted: 3/15/2007 12:16:29 AM
How funny, I was reading all the messages and than saw I had a new message- I went to view it and POW!!!! Just guess what it said???
"HEY WHATS UP SEXY? HIT ME BACK..."
All I can do at this point is giggle cause it was just perfect funny timing. My response to the original post is gone but I do have one question.... Can't anyone come up with a more original line? It like calling me "Baby" or "Babe". Just kind of makes my skin crawl. But than again, this is a dating site and we are first going off of what the picture looks like so I will see it as getting carded for alcohol. If it stops (being called "sexy") than Ill worry. For now, Ill just let it ride and chalk it up to someone who cannot be original in their initial pick-up method.

XXOO
Your Phat Sexy Princess
(lol, that part IS a joke)
 Mominatrix

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Posted: 3/15/2007 12:38:47 AM

Why do women have such an issue with such a simple little word? Anything other than a dictionary definition can be too subjective if not explained.
So, can any rational and "independent" women explain how the word sexy (which can be used afterward) has been convoluted to mean: I want to bend you over the nearest horizontal surface?
The thing I love about these kinds of posts, is when they are posted by men, about women, when the women have been telling the men repeatedly, directly, exactly how they feel and why. It's so deliciously obtuse. You guys wonder why we think some of you just never listen? Times like this are the reason that women think this.

We live with you men, and your toys, and the playoffs, and the tools and while we may not understand why you do something, we accept it. Some of us have boundaries regarding how we like to be treated. Many of us don't like to be sexualized by men we don't even know. Face it buddy. We are different than men. Deal with it. Stop your whining about it.


She has a new boyfriend. So it's probably being used. Might have to get my own copy. Do you have an ISBN?
He's not that new, it's been a good while now. We are done working through the book if you want it. :)
 Billbutler8

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Posted: 3/15/2007 7:46:52 AM
I wrote a four page word document essay on the word "sexy" last night. I did not set out to do this , it just happened. I suppose I was board I was writing a post for this thread. Then it just went on and on and on...

I like parts of it, I dislike some of it...and the rest of it basically sucks big time.

because of the length of it, I cannot the entire thing on here. Because it sucks it is likely no one will.
 Janet4now

Joined: 10/3/2006
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Posted: 3/15/2007 7:52:54 AM
Bill, were you board or bored?
 Billbutler8

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Posted: 3/15/2007 8:22:00 AM
I was planked, Janet. Planked.

Well, actually, and to be accurate-- for as you know I am a perfectionist, -- I woke up board -- then as the day progressed, I went completely Planked...It truly was so bad... I ended up coming up with these fantasies - I fantasized I had an aquarium.

That way I could feed the fish and maybe I could snap out of my current boardum . My thought was if I had some fish to feed, I would not be as board<<--------see, this is boring and not funny either .

it was very boring. so I wrote you an email - ...2342 emails back and forth to eeek - and I , as previously noted , wrote four page .doc page essay on the word "sexy" I am very proud of my work, but I admit it sucks really, really bad.

Yesterday I was board.

Today I am simply bored.



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see all that crap up there? ( ^^^ ) ---it is all a big festering distraction to pull
attention away from the fact I was busted for a spelling error. I am not even going to
claim t y p o ! typos happen. This was not a typo. I had a moment -- a lapse-- lack of vitamin C and potassium... not enough spinich ... lack of lover in my life.
the insomnia... the lack of fish, or fish food.
Yeah, I am crazy. I am if you think I am. It's ok though...
50 years from now it is very likely all of this will be a distant memory. I think.
 Paddy O Furniture

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Posted: 3/15/2007 8:41:21 AM
I hope that the movie turns out better than the Da Vinci Code
 tdbc

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Posted: 3/15/2007 8:44:01 AM
Sexy doesn't bother me, though, personally, I might think it but not say it on the first date. What I REALLY can't stand is when a guy calls me 'honey' especially when he's never met me. It just bugs......why do guys do that?
 Mominatrix

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Posted: 3/15/2007 8:47:21 AM
I like to think of myself as Chairman of the Bored.

Almost anything would have to Paddy.
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