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Posted: 3/15/2007 11:51:11 AM |
I like to think of myself as Chairman of the Bored
Been drilling holes in guys' egos again?
Bore:
1. To perforate or penetrate, as a solid body, by turning an
auger, gimlet, drill, or other instrument; to make a round
hole in or through; to pierce; as, to bore a plank.
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| The Sexy Manifesto
Posted: 3/15/2007 11:57:50 AM | you know , women are really picky or insane when it comes to words or phrases so be care like as if you are walking on eggshells during initial contact or the first date .
even if you want to say anything special , think first women draw up alot of conclusione from any butterfly movement a guy does .
ON one of my first date a girl had a band around her ankle and little designs on her toe nails , some toe rings I was impressed she went into such details , it was beautiful to me, I told her what I have not supposed to say , I looked at her feet and said wow , what "gorgeous feet " that was it , date was over , she called me a creep and wanted to go home , thought I had a foot fetish or something, later I talked to her friend , and she did tell me her friend was creeped out on how much I liked her feet , I did not think I over did it by just saying her feet looked gorgeous after I told her she was beautiful initially, she kind of ignored that though .
Women can be very difficult to figure out and sometimes very scary , got to be careful
and not break some eggshells ,
"craaaack!!!!" oh Im' so screwed
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Posted: 3/15/2007 12:10:51 PM |
Been drilling holes in guys' egos again? Now eeek, what else would a man hating psycho b*tch like me do? Everyone needs a hobby.
Feel free to tell me that my feet are gorgeous anytime. | |
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Posted: 3/15/2007 12:23:40 PM |
Now eeek, what else would a man hating psycho b*tch like me do?
Well, I can think of a few things. Do you need a list?
Feel free to tell me that my feet are gorgeous anytime.
You'll need to put some feet pictures on your profile if you want that. You know, something besides those boob shots. (Ok, I'm running away now...)
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Posted: 3/15/2007 1:33:25 PM | Even when I am wearing a turtleneck, it's a boob shot.
I will be sure to add a picture of my feet later. | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/15/2007 4:51:36 PM | "In my mind...the woman that WOULD want to hear that is a bleach
blonde with mall bangs, filing her nails, lipstick smeared on her teeth and a
David Coverdale thong on...waiting for her leg warmers to dry. Notsomuch."
not even. the only women who want to hear that are fat ugly women who never
get hit on and so appreciate ANY compliment that comes their way, even
obscene ones...that or 13 year olds who havent learned that sluttiness isnt cool yet.
the above statements by the following posters is wrong on so many levels.
Nothing like stereotyping and generalizing in such an untasteful manner.
Oh should I say "good post" of course we all know bleach bolndes file their
nails in the mall and of course their lipsticks smeared on their teeth, after all they are
bleach bonde with "mall bangs" lol and last but not least, all bleach blondes of course
wear David Coverdale thongs. (my ribs are hurting fron laughing so hard ) dumb@sses
"not so much" more like not even close! So basically you saying based on a persons
appearance, they have no class, no standards, well what a load of BS.
And then we get to the "fat ugly women" comment. oh my goodness, that's just
plain out rude. What you may think of as fat and ugly others might think of as
beautifuland to speak of other women in such a way with whom you don't even know
makes me want to throw up in your face! Just because in your "books" the persons fat
and ugly doesn't mean that they would except such compliments. I was just wondering,
are you 13? because you come across as an uneducated minor :)
Since this thread was about compliments in emails and what do you think about using
"sexy" etc. not about people "you" think would like that compliment(if that infact is even a
compliment), gesh.....Sure it's not the best compliment persay, not even worthy but it doesn't
mean we can't express our opinions with constructive criticism without bashing and slashing
millions, omg. oh ya, FYI skank is a filthy word to use, period!!!!
to each their own
GPH
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/15/2007 5:01:06 PM | Great Purple Hairstreak
I only stopped by because I saw y0ur screen name. I love it! It is actually the best (IMO) I have ever seen LOVE IT
"Great Purple Hairstreak" -- so very cool. wow.
anyway I was just going to make a mention that it was stickgirl who made that comment and I like her. She is the neighborhood antagonist.
If her comments offended you then I'd look at some of her other posts. She is a riot! Yes, if someone makes comments in a mean-spirited way -to be hostile to someone else-to degrade or humiliate someone-that is one thing. But this is not that and perhaps you could look deeper into stickgirl. You will find someone who is irreverent, silly funny and adorable.
look at George Carlin's humour sometime. --he is in the same vein. Great Purple Hairstreak: ya just sometimes need to look at things from a different angle. Learn to laugh at life's absurdities! You will be much happier. Happy is good.
Happy! Happy!
I love self-effacing humor... I bash myself all the time. I wouldn't expect anyone to be offended by that anymore than a tounge in cheek satirical comment made referencing someone else.
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/15/2007 5:12:42 PM | She didn't offend me (personally) since clearly I'm not a bleach blonde nor
am I fat. I just thought that it was rude to generalize in such a manner. I believe
she is a riot since I have infact read numerous of her posts hence the "skank" comment.
All I'm saying is bashing so many other women in such a way is untaseful, period.
And when I read it, it was cruel. Not everyone was born with looks, BUT looks don't define
a person so becareful when you stereotype.
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Posted: 3/15/2007 5:40:23 PM | Not everyone understood that--I just figured she was insulting a bunch of people like normal and went from there.
I usually try to go for the underdog (Jacksonville Jaguars is my NFL team) but I could not find anything agreeable. But as our resident antagonist she is doing her job well. | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/15/2007 6:17:01 PM |
the only thing that bothered me about her post was I didn't understand "mall bangs"
Well, I certainly didn't get that one either. But, as usual, Google rapidly provided me with an answer. Mall bangs are a hair style, albeit one I have never heard of in my life. | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/15/2007 10:38:08 PM | "She is the neighborhood antagonist."
Gee, what a title. Must have a pretty boring life to have to be labeled like that. She must be oh-so-very proud. Some people just tend not to think before they speak / type. I love people that are impressed with other's sense of "humor" after obviously offending or annoying so many others.
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/16/2007 12:11:14 AM | Than you can laugh at all the drunkards and just people watch!
Usually, whoever is IN Denny's at that time, falls into the drunkard entertainment category. At least when applied to myself.
If I'm out eating that late....it's too keep the liquor in my stomach and off my shoes. | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/16/2007 2:51:02 AM | | Oooh, Roscoe's rocks, but the collard greens there are just so/so. I have never figured out why they serve the chicken and the waffles together though... In LA, if it's 2 AM and you need food there is Fred 62 or Canters too, House of Pies maybe? Here in the Inland Empire, it's pretty much Denny's or Norm's after 11 PM. I would rather eat at home! | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/16/2007 6:34:23 AM |
"She is the neighborhood antagonist."
Gee, what a title. Must have a pretty boring life to have to be labeled like that. She must be oh-so-very proud. Some people just tend not to think before they speak / type. I love people that are impressed with other's sense of "humor" after obviously offending or annoying so many others.
This place is a trip!!!
"She is the neighborhood antagonist."
She is the best I have ever seen and puts me in stitches!! –love her!
Gee, what a title. Must have a pretty boring life to have to be labeled like that
This cutting remark is unwarranted and offensive. “StickGirl®™” did absolutely nothing to offend you yet, you burst in here and blast her! Ppfftt!! ” Must have a pretty boring life to get your jollies by randomly viciously attacking others. sure...you are right—I AM mocking you! –Not because I am bored, but because you deserve it...disclaimer: .
This place is a trip!!!!
You need to take a trip—somewhere else.
I love people that are impressed with other's sense of "humor" after obviously offending or annoying so many others.
slprincess : Can you say " c o m e d i a n" ?
Can you say...?
Lenny Bruce?
Andy Kaufman
Archie Bunker?
Red Foxx?
Richard Pryor?
Eddie Murphy?
Rodney Dangerfield?
Gee, what a title. Must have a pretty boring life to have to be labeled like that. She must be oh-so-very proud. Some people just tend not to think before they speak / type.
Can you say Irony? This reminds me of other comical ironies I have seen on this website, such as someone ranting on in a post about bad spelling, punctuation, grammatical errors..—sometimes slamming them for it—yet the author misspells several words –this is always comical to me. Irony – irony is funny.
I can see the irony in your post. Perhaps others do too. Perhaps you do not...OR—even better You actually do—, came in here, and deposited this gem O irony for everyone’s amusement. If that is the case then –ya got me!
However, the irony would be the only thing humorous about this. –Considering that, you really could have made this a bit funnier by actually adding some humour to it. –that would be my only complaint on that—(provided irony your goal)—then there is the issue of “well, if it were irony in the correct sense –then you could not really consider it irony then, could you? Are ya beginning to see this is simply not working? Irony would be rather difficult to intend—
It seems to me that the following is more likely:
A vicious personal attack on Stickgirl®™ was your intention
Your goal was to denigrate, defame, slander, malign, belittle, criticize and put down this young woman and that is just plain wrong...
Therein is the irony. You humiliate, disgrace, and make a public spectacle of Stickgirl®™ with hostility and contempt condemning her–For what! Is this how you get your jollies? While my friend Stickgirl®™ delivered her brilliance –in a comedic vein –in that context... You come in here and personally attack her! That is irony. It is also in very bad taste.
Do you not know when you scornfully scoff at, disparage, ridicule and demean another person without provocation; you are NOT only showing your own impertinence—in this particular case, you also display you insecurities?
When you criticize degrade, malign, and sadistically pass judgment on another person— --an attack on them personally-- -- venomously unleashing your hostility upon them with wrath and distain you only show you are coming from a state of mind characterized by self-doubt and vulnerability—you show yourself as being defensive. You show yourself to be lacking self-esteem.
This is sad for me to see. Why is this sad for me? No, not because you hurt Stickgirl®™’s feelings—in fact, you did not hurt Stickgirl®™’s feelings one little bit.
Stickgirl®™ has self worth, self-esteem, and is emotionally healthy. She knows she is not all those mean things you say about her. Why then would she feel a compelling need to defend herself?
She does not need me to defend her! You may ask, “Why then are you defending her?” I would say to that, “I am not defending her. She does not need me to defend her.
Maybe then, you may ask, “So what’s your point”? –to which I will reply “there are several points, and it would be better if you took your own advice:
Think! “
Then again—look at your record of accomplishment with regard to taking your own advice:
Your advice: “Some people just tend not to think before they speak”
Irony–amongst ironies—atop irony—beautiful cascading waterfalls of irony! –thanks—I am glad that is all of that.
. I did some thinking. –Fortunately, I learned early on in life to think before I speak. “I thought, therefore I speak” (hey, I loved that!—cool!)—sometimes I am amazed at my creativity. I like that about myself. So, I thought. I considered...I thought and considered—should I spend anymore time writing this? –after all, my fingers are tired.
Maybe it will be helpful for you –some of this may not have occurred to you. I hope this helps. It must really be difficult to live life running around all angry and everything
Here is a handy-dandy illustration of a point I just made.
Please follow me with this one. (Worth a mention here-though— it is subtle: here is an illustration of a point with an irony added)—interesting, eh?
Here it is!
Let us look at the usage of “Stickgirl®™” –why is it I call her Stickgirl®™? The “why do I call her “Stickgirl®™” should be very clear. Most see the humour in this. To my point Stickgirl®™ gets the humour in this. –Stickgirl®™ is not offended. Although this could be—depending on a person’s level of confidence and self-esteem—considered derogatory, she does not take it this way.
From the very moment, I read her posts—cracking me up as she did and does, I instantly “got her” –her role—the term I give in reference to her “the neighbourhood antagonist” is good-natured and given in a context of playfulness. “Stickgirl®™” was created to counter her “terrorism of the local fishes” –therefore a term which could be taken as hostile and demeaning is not at all.
I know that—she does not either. – (just in case you missed it that was another point) the fact she is a skinny runt is ok with her. She is ok with it— It actually has become a term of endearment.
Even if I were to come at her in a hostile aggressive way with ill intentions, she would not care—(why would she?) –she likes being just the way she is.
(Which I certainly would never, every do, that would be mean...I love people and would never verbally attack anyone—but for sake of offering clarity by way of example)
If you like who you are then what difference, does it make to you what anyone thinks? The idea of that is absurd!
Suppose a woman has freckles all over her face and body... (by the way, I find freckles extremely attractive and sexy! –Just a side mention—a “ Factoid-O-Bill.” )
–the pet name given to her by her new boyfriend was “FrecklyBabe®™? He had come up with this when he learned that while she was growing up your nickname was “Freckles” – some people still called her that. He wanted to be creative and unique and give you a special name. Considering he looked upon his girlfriend as a “Babe” and she had freckles all over her body it was clear—“FrecklyBabe” She loved it! She loved her freckles and was something she liked especially about herself...so it had extra special meaning to her.
Think for a moment how elementary school children can be mean with one another—it is not surprising to learn in her school there were mean boys who, as the nature attempted to make fun of her freckles—well this went over like a lead balloon. – She loved the idea of having freckles, and considered them beautiful. So what can you imagine happened to the teasing boys and their teasing? They did not continue—not at all and here is why. The motive(s) was to (1.) be mean. –maladjusted people do this—bullies bully because they feel lack of worth. They humiliate because inside they feel shame inside. By lashing out and making fun of others, their expectation is the picked upon person will be humiliated and suffer shame too—“misery loves company” in another way of looking at that idea. They feel badly about themselves, so they want to make damn sure you do to. It is “life sucks for me—no fair! I’ll make someone else miserable to even the score!”
Effectively, this is how things roll for them –it is an unconscious reaction to their own sickness of emotional –people just say “what an evil and mean person” –the mean bully does not think consciously ““life sucks for me—no fair! I’ll make someone else miserable” They are not aware of it.—their self-obsessions rule their thoughts and actions—their selfishness dictates their disregard for anyone else. They are literally compelled to victimize someone. This is a need for them.
Thusly, they appear to be mean and nasty—and by definition, they are. In reality, they are sick and hurting inside. As I mentioned—this makes me sad.
So, what happened to the girl with the freckles? –they had to move on to somebody else. The expected reaction did not happen. Teasing this particular girl was not working –they had to move on...unfortunately to someone else, “Freckles” simply lived her life with her friends and did her school work –went away to college and in her sophomore year she met a wonderful guy. She loved “FatAlbert®™” and he loved his “FrecklyBabe®™” who choose his particular nickname because when she was a kid, she adored the character on the cartoon show “Fat Albert” –and it was her favourite show. FrecklyBabe and FatAlbert®™ had much in common. They loved all the same music, and she even loved football. This was a very good thing. He was the popular linebacker for the Washington Huskies. Freckles absolutely adored FatAlbert—all 380 lbs. of him—she’d typically spend time watching him during practice—and in their interactions with one another one could tell how much love the had, both one for another...”oh, come over here you huge sexy tub-O-Lard”-“ok FrecklyBabe®™ let’s go get some pizza! ”
–“Ok, FatBoy®™” --she would say—“Oh, yeah, like you really need some pizza hahahahaha!” The variations on their nicknames were clever and witty, sometimes sarcastic. They always crack each other up.
The fact they have much in common went beyond food, and sports, and music, and the like...of particular note, they both were happy with themselves, liked themselves and had a healthy outlook on life. They have many friends, are generous in helping others, and are very giving and supportive people. This characterized their lived, and they had this in common. People say they are “birds of a feather” Indeed they were.
Wait. I am going on an assumption. If you wanted further help, you can ask me. An additional thought was (while I was thinking that it has been my experience attempting to help a person; sharing information with them which could benefit them, enabling them to grow and heal
To me it is a ridiculous assumption to make you will be different. Some listen, some do not. On the other hand, should I write more arriving at some helpful suggestions after the point? –Another thought was—well there are so many points to make—maybe just pick a couple main points and a minor one.
.On second thought, I think I’d rather you ask me yourself. I would love to help. My intention for posting—(motive) is to help—as I see someone in need. Due to your vehement display of hostility, I see you could use some help. Sometimes people would rather not be helped— sometimes my offer to help has been met with hostility similar to that which you directed at Stickgirl®™ This is when my care and concern ends. I like the idea that I like people; I always have liked that about myself. I do not really mind when someone points out something in me such as “Bill, you are really a nice guy”
I do not mind, though truthfully, I do not really care... I do not really see things in terms of being “nice:” In fact “being nice” to me implies actively pursuing this impression. Life to me is not about “making impressions” This is useless for me. I can better use my time to do what works.
Life to me is doing the best I can. To do the best I can requires I do what works best for me. What works best for me is helping others and I suppose you could say that is my motive.
This looked from a different angle —one might say I have selfish motives. This is true. I know helping others helps me feel good. Others say I am “nice” –whatever. To be “nice” is not a motive. Doing what works is.
Therefore, this is for you. I did not spend time writing this to be “nice” Neither did I to “be mean”—(as in raking you over the coals for your unwarranted attack on my friend.)
I write this because this is what I do.
There are a couple of things to remember: To develop self-esteem requires doing something estimable –this always works.
The better you feel, the more you get out of life—the happier you are—the more you like people, the more often you do estimable things—this goes on and on and on...this is how self-esteem is developed.
Everyone knows that money properly invested grows exponentially—that’s a fact jack Growing money is very easy to do, a more difficult task and a more urgent matter to be concerned with is to make damn sure your love and concern for others grows exponentially.
Developing self-esteem is a bit more difficult as it requires deliberately (as in “on purpose”)—earnestly and selflessly giving to others without demand or expectation for reward or acclamation.(giving while expecting back is not giving at all, it is merely an exchange) —getting over the completely counterintuitive nature of it all is a concept, which trips people up.
–that phrase often heard: “O, try to be nice” is—b u l l s h i t. –I cringe when I hear that. A better phrase is “Be good to yourself, do for others”
“Being nice” is actually nothing at all... Running around “trying to be nice” is part of the problem. Making yourself useful serves a purpose and is solid and tangible—it is productive and worthwhile. When we have purpose in our life –we feel good. If we are doing something worthwhile, we feel worthy— when we feel worthy, we have self-esteem.
When a person has purpose and great self-esteem, there is nothing anyone can say which will offend because that person is secure in his or her worthiness.
As illustrated with “FrecklyBabe®™”, “FatAbbert®™”, and “StickGirl®™”, this is the truth, and my point. | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/16/2007 8:40:06 AM | Some people are threatened when others get more attention than them. So they slam 'em. And they end up getting the attention they were seeking. We tend to "feed the flamers" and wonder why they do it.
Being a smart ass is more fun than being a dumb one. If its not an area that you feel you can compete, you can always resort to sending out "you are sexy" emails... | |
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| Saying Sexy, in the first contact, creepy or complimentary?
Posted: 3/16/2007 8:46:58 AM | Usually, whoever is IN Denny's at that time, falls into the drunkard entertainment category
It's much more than that. Its surreal people watching at its best. It's a slice of life in all its glory. The best way to describe it is as a mix between a Quentin Tarantino Film and a Tom Waits Song. | |
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