| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 4:32:27 AM | three words.... The Kama Sutra.
if the guy is genuinely into you then he should wanna do whatever he can to satisfy you sexually. I remember being with an older woman years ago and I worshipped the ground she walked on, there was definitely a lot of chemistry there and we were close on all levels before we "went all the way", giving her an orgasm with oral was foreplay.
whatever you do though, dont bark orders or whatever, I had some nasty experiences with an ex who was like that, you'd do everything you could to please her but it was never good enough, yet she did nothing to please you. the barking orders and abruptness bit I found obnoxious and a real turn off and on more than one occasion I told her so.
so I think there has to be a bit of chemistry, communication (not necessarily talking, but subtle hints and guidance during foreplay) and patience.... sex is just another form of self expression and communication of feelings. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 5:27:57 AM | This thread is amazing if by amazing you mean horrifying and disturbing. I mean, the advice runs the gamut from using comestibles to help the guy find the area (what? are you women dating Rainman? "It's Tuesday, Tuesday is clitoris day, Tuesday." or Slingblade? " I like to lick em mmm hmmm") like a rat escaping an electric shock grid in a psych lab maze. Unreal.
And the stunningly brilliant advice of giving him oral first then he'll do a wonderful job on you. Are you kidding? Give most men oral first and after they've climaxed you're in for the sexy sounds of snoring. He'll perform oral then? Lucky if he's stays awake long enough to eat that sammich you're fixing him (that wasn't a double entendre ,I mean seriously, you ladies should be fixing snacks for your men after sex if you're really serious about long term relationships).
I think all the confused and labyrinthine advice on this thread, meandering here and there, contradictory and chock full of old wive's tails, I mean "tales," just reinforces the simple and inescapably true notion that if a woman wants really good oral she's going to just have to learn to give it to herself.
I hope this helps! | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 11:02:43 AM | I would most definately have to agree with BobRuinedTheDate....if you want to have a long term relationship with a man, you should MOST CERTAINLY be fixing snacks for your man after sex......plan on fixing him breakfast too........but seriously, if you have to ask the question......how do you teach a guy to give oral, you would be better served asking the question.....how do I make my dog stop licking his own nuts........cause if you think he doesn't know how....you would be mistaken, they all know how, they just need motivation. SO MOTIVATE THEM!!!!
by the way arguing, complaining, being possessive, witchy, catty, neurotic or psychotic are NOT good motivators.....
Do not complain to the man about him going out with the boys and drinking beer and then expect him to want to go down on you....ITS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN
Do not ask him if your ass is too big and then expect him to go down on you......NOT GONNA HAPPEN!!!!!!
I could go on and on, but I think you get the point.....don't be that chick | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 12:12:02 PM | | First get him a harmonica, then a flute, then a trumpet and finally a tuba. Kind of like in Rocky, he didn't beat his meat really well till Gonna fly now was playing. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 12:12:12 PM | | Tell him what you like Period. If he doesn't know how can he be effective? So many times women are too vague about what they really want. You really want to help him then show him how you want it done. If he is doing something wrong suggest things that would make it more enjoyable. Eventually he will pick up on this stuff and start to surprise you. If he is putting too much or not enough pressure in certain areas that you think he should or shouldn't let him know. But do it in a way that wont bruise his ego or your relationship. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 4:00:39 PM | | You woman can forget about giving us any kinda of blue prints or written instructions no if you can kindly remove you thighs from our ears we will gladly listen to you | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 6:11:48 PM | but seriously, though.... I've found women are different about this. Are you too sensitive to be licked on the clitoris - I know some girls who are. They enjoy licking (and light biting) everywhere else - but not on the clit. So you have to figure out what you like first - and assuming you're a rookie at it (not a bad thing) - have the conversation while he explores. Doesn't have to be a screaming "o" type conversation - but moaning and a little shifting around when he gets it right is certainly encouraging. If you're like most women I've been with, you'll also have things that change from time to time and the communication has to continue. If your guys are anything like me, they'll enjoy it and reallllllly enjoy the idea of turning you inside out with their mouths. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 6:35:31 PM | | This is coming from a lesbian....lol. Guide him in the direction you want him to go. Show him were you want him to be and when he goes off course gently lead him back. He'll be able to figure it out, if YOU take your time. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 7:12:18 PM | I learned early from my first partner who was 18 and I was 16. That might be why I love oral.
I will say that feedback is very important. Wife 1.0 learned from her mom that Girls who had orgasms were sluts and Lord help the lady who had multiples! Nympho time!
I knew none of this until the last chance counseling before a divorce. I spent long periods of foreplay trying to please her without knowing about the baggage she carried. What little progress I made, I ruined when I got her to squirt, I thought she was pissing on me.
Feedback, Feedback, Feedback.
Cheers!
Mark | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 7:24:21 PM | Wait... why would I want a snack after SNACKING?
See, I just don't understand this "So Motivate them!"... Do I want a winning Lotto ticket? hmmmmm... let me think? What is my motivation here?
Cheers!
Mark | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/21/2007 10:47:57 PM | lay down open the legs and if it's good keep your mouth shut.
if it's bad tell him what feels good.
you could have come up with this on your own you know ,any other advice will be billable. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/22/2007 1:10:36 AM | Dude... loose lips sink ships...
lay down open the legs and if it's good keep your mouth shut.
if it's bad tell him what feels good.
you could have come up with this on your own you know ,any other advice will be billable.
Wow... you know you're getting quality info when you get it from a guy with the name chadster! (Notice the strategic exclamation placement...I bet he's quite the ladies man). I know I am... except when I'm not... which is almost all the time... But I get by, with my semi-crappy good looks, socially unacceptable personality traits, and a whole lot of half-truths and gorilla dust.
the giggleparts - Haha, suck it, I sunk your battleship! Yeah, you think that's real funny don't cha'.. You know what? What? You're a failure... like in life.... in general.... That might be true... but I still kicked your stank monkey ass at battleship beeeeotch! Yeah.... well... YEAH!.... Well, you're not my friend anymore! Oh, yeah! Well, you're not in the band anymore!!!11ELEVEN! .... Geeze... I was just screwing with you... sour grapes anyone... Dude, you're so gay.... Takes one to know one. What the hell does that even mean? Exactly. AHHHHH, I can't believe I let you date my sister! Oh yeah, I sunk her battleship... DEEP! I'm leaving. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/22/2007 2:40:53 AM |
Posted By: sunflowers32 on 3/22/2007 5:02:43 AM
Subject: How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Message: I would most definately have to agree with BobRuinedTheDate....if you want to have a long term relationship with a man, you should MOST CERTAINLY be fixing snacks for your man after sex......plan on fixing him breakfast too........but seriously, if you have to ask the question......how do you teach a guy to give oral, you would be better served asking the question.....how do I make my dog stop licking his own nuts........cause if you think he doesn't know how....you would be mistaken, they all know how, they just need motivation. SO MOTIVATE THEM!!!!
by the way arguing, complaining, being possessive, witchy, catty, neurotic or psychotic are NOT good motivators.....
Do not complain to the man about him going out with the boys and drinking beer and then expect him to want to go down on you....ITS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN
Do not ask him if your ass is too big and then expect him to go down on you......NOT GONNA HAPPEN!!!!!!
I could go on and on, but I think you get the point.....don't be that chick
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amen to that, thats probably the best advice I've read on here,
will you marry me? (just jokes)
oh and yeah unless you like the sound of snoring dont give the bloke oral first, dont use giving him head as a bribe fullstop, it's a relationship? not a business deal. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/22/2007 2:46:56 AM | | Dang girl. you dont teach a man to do that. He just does not want to please you that way. if you met a nice man who cared for you, he would, but all those men you have been with, just wonna **** you silly and say bye,bye, (yes). | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/22/2007 7:46:55 AM | | Well...damn I was going to say just jump on his face but you want more originality.....if I was in this situation..I would make it fun...like first both of you taking a shower together....getting all lathered up and getting oh so fresh and so clean..so there would be no possibility of him thinkin...how she goin to taste..etc..etc..then kinda do the 69 position so hes not just doing it by himself....and I think it should come naturally for him.... | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/23/2007 10:52:44 AM | Maybe he doesn't like the idea of licking and sucking that part of a woman. If that's the case, you're not going to teach him. Some women don't do it... Not all men do either. I don't know any, but apparently you've found a new sub-species, 'sans-cunnilingus erectus'
Have you asked him? Perhaps that would be a good start. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/23/2007 10:55:04 AM |
What little progress I made, I ruined when I got her to squirt, I thought she was pissing on me.
Hahahaha, nice!
Now that's funny, I don't care who you are. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/23/2007 11:19:20 AM | | theres nothing more romantic than pleasing your lover,tell him you like it,esp if he likes u giving head,show him where to go,and be patient with him,he will get the hang of it,also,he might do something else down there that u will like,something u havent felt yet! | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/25/2007 6:23:19 AM | Ok well why not another fecking post here ? Yeah I bet U can give me lots of good reasons stfu :D
List of people that can lick my p***Y anytime : ( if I had one :D)
sexy_temptress,sunflowers32,missnaughtynnice,TRGL
BobRuinedTheDate,speaking of disturbing posts.Yours was fecking outrageous.Liked the hell out of it though.Amen to the snacks :D
List of people I think are cool as feck: ( if I had one lol )
Piercedstuff, MarknDallas, chadster!,giggleparts and of course the ever popular BobRuinedTheDate.
PS,if Uve been left out of either of my lists.I apologize.Im sure Ive missed lots of worthy people.Either that or U suckazz :D
PS,...Im listening to Elvis,what are U listening 2 ?
feck something thread related,ummm tell him to stick hiz tongue tab A.Into your slot tab B | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/25/2007 7:54:59 AM |
I've heard that the clit is pretty key, so i primarily focus on the clit throwing in some variations now and then. Is there any truth to the clit being most important? I've usually had girls say something like "yeah right there" or "a little to the left" then I just fire away haha. definately. the clit is the most sensitive. iff u want to get a girl off quick then the clit is the way to go  | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/25/2007 8:07:57 AM | Teach him by taking his index finger and do to his finger what you like done to you. Then show him where you like this.
We are all different and like different modes of satisfaction. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 11/30/2007 6:24:12 PM | Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself.
How do you teach a guy to give oral?
lots more at http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/howto.htm | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 11/30/2007 7:01:28 PM | in a perfect world, she invites her girlfriend over, then has her show you how she likes it. complete with naked pillow fight and jello wrestling. -i never saw that episode on fantasy island -sooooo its probibly never gonna happan.
only thing i could suggest is lots of tequila, chocolate syrup, whipped cream,
or frosty alcoholic drinks that numb his tongue - women seem to like cold down there -when applied to the right places | |
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