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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 12/13/2007 8:26:25 PM | | Look at him and tell him you got something to teach him, and if he ain't intersted, let me know, I could use a refesher course. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/3/2008 8:02:04 PM | umm climb on his face when he's sleeping and say "start licking or suffocate"....instinct will kick in and he will get 'er done! | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/3/2008 9:18:42 PM | I have to "3rd" the recommendation for the book "She Comes First". This book has the knowledge to make any guy able to satisfy his woman. I found it especially intriguing has to how much is really goin on down there...
It ain't just the button! | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/9/2008 3:09:00 AM | | I suggest that you take your time to talk to the individual with care and concern carefully explaining to him what you want and how to get it done. Men don't understand the parts of a woman, how it feels to us so they don't understand where to go and what to do. I have had to do this in a relationship myself and it was helpful. I explained the sensitive parts, the parts that men concentrate on that women really don't find stimulating and the parts that drive us mad!!! it worked out well... i explained the parts that have less nerve endings that men usually work with and think that that does it for us..(lol) ... he learned alot and rather enjoyed the lesson ..Just he honest and tell the person what you want, you can't be satisfied if they don't know what you want and how to do it to you. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/9/2008 7:58:25 AM | | the first woman i was ever with taught me how to please her with my tongue. i was an older virgin (22) and really inexperienced. she basically talked me through it. she'd make suggestions about how to use my mouth and my tongue to please her, then kept instructions coming to direct me to maximise her pleasure. she enjoyed herself and thanks to her lessons i';ve never had any complaints about my skills. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/9/2008 8:01:04 AM | It's very easy.Take position 69, You give him head,he liks your ****.If he doesn't do that he doesn't know what is missing.Good luck Johan   | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/9/2008 9:33:18 AM | I think it just comes naturally for some guys and doesn't come at all for others. The man has to be someone who enjoys pleasing. If he doesn't enjoy seeing the woman get pleasure, and he is only about his OWN pleasure, then all the teaching, tutoring, practice in the world is not going to help a bit. If he is open to learning, and enjoys pleasing as much as being pleased, best way is just practice practice practice, even if that means you (as a woman) have to finish it yourself to get over the edge on occasion, since he is in training mode so to speak. Honestly if the guy wants to do it, it shouldn't be too hard. I myself enjoy going down, as do many guys, but some are just selfish. Also, the man needs to be open to constructive criticism..many guys get offended when their sexual performance is rated well..subpar..hopefully he is open minded enough to accept it and learn from it! | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/9/2008 10:20:26 AM | Hi there not a single lady 1:
I just saw this and wanted to reply to your OP before reading all the other replies.
My first thought was back to the day inmy youth when a girl friend told me how it is done and what to do to "train my tongue" for it.
The most fun and original way for you to teach your man what to do and how to do it is this:
Take him out for an ice cream cone. Make sure the cone is one of those waffle cones.
Then get him to lick the ice cream. Do not bite it or get in a hurry.
Then when he has licked the ice cream down to where he must bite the cone to get at it, tell him to continue licking the cream out of the cone w/o biting it away.
Eventually he will have to get really creative with his tongue to get at the ice cream in the bottom of that cone. Once he is done, I expect you will be so hot for his tongue on you and he for you that the two of you can figure out what "comes" next.
Have fun with it and I am sure he will get a kick out of it also.
A final note:
Once he has the idea and makes the connection between the ice cream cone and your honey pot, you may want to give him some guided direction with his face in the honey. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/9/2008 2:34:04 PM | hmmmm....I actually thought this was an urban legend...LOL....but I guess there are those who don't know how...since I'm all about being open, I would gently guide him to the right area and communicate what feels good and what doesn't. He shouldn't take offence to that since he does want to please you....practice practice practice makes perfect....and if that still doesn't work,, there's always the old standby of tattoooing a road map on your pelvis , arrows , wrong turns and all  | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/10/2008 10:51:33 AM | Here's a good website- http://content.libida.com/tips/page.aspx?id=4f720d71-2f86-4845-971f-76150638e54f
Personally, I have no problem with getting instructions direct from her, it's quite erotic! | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/10/2008 1:44:04 PM | as everyone as clearly stated communication is key. openly talk about what makes u feel good. then show him, masturbate for him...this will make him so hot for you and HE will want to be able to do that to you. when your touching yourself, then let him lick ur fingers to ease him into it... then invite him in...let him figure it out. respond to his touch, tell him what you want. tell him to use his fingers. none of this rapid in and out business, just nice deep pressure upward to the spot. while licking, sucking, nibbling on the clit. happy training!!   | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/10/2008 2:03:55 PM | are most of you guys from the US? It seems a lot of you (male & female) have a lot of hang ups regarding female hygeine.
what is that all about? no offence meant. If i was having sex with someone, oral would be a major part of it. I find hearing about guys that won't, a little odd. BHD | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/10/2008 2:23:28 PM | Well...I for one LOVE to give oral.....there is nothing better than to go down on a woman and have her reach climax with her **** in my mouth. To "teach" a guy I think is the wrong approach. If you do it for him just have that conversation. Ask him to try it....start by showering together and washing each other...that way he KNOWS you're clean.....it might be the hair thing to...I know for me, I have a HUGE gag reflex with hair......I really prefer a fully shaved or at least well trimmed lady.
I sure hope this helps because he doesn't know what he's missing. It is just sooooooo sweet. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/10/2008 3:00:01 PM | AHHH Simple,
although it will take a bit of prepatory work yourself!
Rearrange your lounge room so you have a couch/settee rearmost, a substatial coffee table in front of that and a tv/dvd arranged at the one o'clock position,
Get hold of a DVD that has lots of Oral content.
Sit him down on the couch and play dvd. A little way into the dvd make an excuse to leave the room for a few moments, You should be able to guess the time!
Reappear in the room starkers and place yourself directly in front of him on the coffee table and procceed to masturbate slowly.
By now he should have the fundumentles of The Art Of Oral entrenched into his brain. Ask him to replace your finger with his tounge and hopefully things should proceed from there! He always has your words and the tv that he should be able to see to guide him!
Happy Oraling!
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/10/2008 4:13:37 PM | Start with the inner thighs which are the single most erogenous zone. Softly and slowly kiss your way up. Once you're there, continue the soft kisses all over her aroused p*ssy. This teasing sends a sensual signal to your partner that will give her goose bumps and her legs will open more for you inviting you in.
Use the tip of your tongue to part her lips and tickel her clit. She's going to start getting wet (if she hasn't already had an orgasm) but don't dive in just yet. Suck her love button softly then gradually suck harder. She'll start to squirm and moan from the pleasure. Place your flat still tongue on her clit and leave it there for a few seconds. Let her start to push and grind against your mouth. When she can't take it anymore, spring back with a series of fast vertical and diagonal tongue strokes. Lick her senseless with a short burst of energy and then return to the flat still tongue waiting for yet another opportune moment to spring to life again.
Some of the best orgasims from oral sex is when the clitoris is stimulated so pay close attention to this area before chowing down on the rest of her. | |
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