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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/12/2008 8:21:26 AM | | I agree with SJS just talk to him.......kinda like training a puppy.....all you have to do is say over,up, down slower faster oh yes right there ......he'll learn soon enough | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/12/2008 5:27:40 PM | | OP didn't read all the other answers but I do know from experience this thing: communication, communication, communication. Be open and honest. Just because his face is down there, it doesn't mean you need to shut up. Be kind and gentle in pointing out what to do. Be positive and enjoy. This will get you what you want EVERY time! | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/12/2008 6:01:46 PM | I'd tell him to try it. The best way to be great at it is to love doing it. I think the ladies can back me up on the shoe on the other foot. Getting oral from a woman is COMPLETELY different when she loves it. Same in this case.
The rest is semantics...try different stuff until she either tells you, or you hear her/feel her intensify. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/12/2008 6:35:25 PM | Teach him to go in with his eyes open......in case he sticks his tongue in the wrong hole.
I was pretty naive as an 18 yr old trying oral sex for the first time....didn't know what to do.
Panicked...squeezed my eyes tight shut, stuck out my tongue and aimed between her legs....she must have tilted her pelvis up....because i hit the wrong hole.....lol
She jolted up and said " Wrong hole silly".....she said it smiling though and didn't get angry with me.
But, it was the first time anyone... other than my mum...to tell me to wash my mouth out with soap | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/12/2008 6:51:37 PM | My gift to you...print it and give it to him for Valentine's Day!
The Art of Licking ****
There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her ****. Pussies come in all different sizes, colors and shapes. Some are tucked inside and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nestled in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz. Others are shaved clean for that deliciously soft and sensual look.
Appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her special.
Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during lovemaking. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to give her a lasting impression and get her to BEG you for more. Hearing that you find her hot and sexy and that she smells good and tastes good while you are petting and stroking her beautiful ****, makes her feel incredibly vulnerable to you, and can make a huge difference to her entire dynamic with you.
A smart man knows how to be sincere and to a woman, this is the difference between being ****ed, and being made love to. An intimate man is much more arousing than one who doesn't know the art of being nurturing.
Most women are shy and insecure about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, and tell her how soft she is, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs.
Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn't it?
Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized****. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
Spreading a woman's **** apart is incredibly intimate. She knows you are seeing her most private parts and this turns her on. Being totally exposed, helps her to show you how much she trusts you.
Whenever you touch a woman's ****, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of its own and is extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit right away anyway. You have to work up to that.
Her anticipation of you licking it can be a great way to build her up to arousal. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled. Approach her **** slowly. Now spread the tops of her **** up until you can find her clit.
When you gently pull the hood down to expose her budding clitoris, it's like a little baby penis, red and wanton. It is very sensitive to touch, sucking, and blowing on.
Experiment with what makes her moan. She will let you know when you are hurting her. She would rather you explored her sensitivities by going too far, rather than being too gentle and ineffective.
Many women use vibrators or masturbate a lot with their finger, so their clits might be insensitive. Where you will find some women are very sensitive to a gentle touch, others might need a more wild, animalistic approach.
You can ask your woman which she prefers and proceed accordingly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. Teasing, by avoiding the contact with the clit for a long time, can send a woman into frenzy once you finally DO make that magic contact.
The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, and make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her ****, and then float away. Make her anticipate it.
Now lick the crease where her leg joins her ****. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her.
After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her, gently, then harder.
Now use your fingers to gently separate her **** lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of folds. Gently spread her legs more with your hands.
Everything you do with a woman you're about to eat must be done tenderly. Tongue-**** her. This feels divine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Use your chin as well. Tongue her from the bottom of the slit, deeply into her ****, and bring the chin through the path as well
If you have a day's worth of growth on your chin, this sandpaper effect feels wonderful on an aroused clitoris. You will notice her screams and moans when you complete the path by rubbing your chin firmly over the clit (rather like licking an ice cream cone).
Bald men can even rub their heads firmly up and down the area to further excite her and give a unique and rewarding experience.
Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience its presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it swell by licking the skin that covers it.
Lick hard now and press into her skin. Gently pull the **** lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder or her back to arch.
Once this happens, you had better be willing to go the distance.
When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. Suck the whole labia (inner lips, sometimes a big flap) into your mouth while tonguing it.
If she likes it, suck even harder. You can even bite down on the lips and clit a bit to heighten her sensations. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!'
There's a reason for that; most men stop too soon. She is letting you know that this action is what it is going to take to get her over the edge. It takes the same motion over and over again to get her to the crescendo that you are trying to achieve. More experienced gobblers know to continue doing the same motion until she cums.
There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger-**** her or use a dildo while she's enjoying your clit-licking talents, before, during or after. She'll really like it.
In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against during penetration.
Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three are too wide to get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. **** her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do.
If you're sucking her clit and finger-****ing her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your****alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms.
Each woman is unique. You may have one whose nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover.
When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her ****.
If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though; things are extremely sensitive just now. If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way.
A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm.
A more advanced technique that comes with experience is when you are ****ing her doggie style and you pull out, and get down and devour her **** from that angle. The sensations she feels with this technique make the difference between a good lover and a sensational lover.
A man who is about to cum while ****ing doggie style, but who pulls out because he knows his partner is not yet ready to join him in Cumming together, can make a wonderful offering by using this trick to get her more aroused. Some women can't cum in this position because they don't have the clitoral stimulation that they need, especially if the man has a smaller penis, and does not quite rub her g-spot enough to make her cum.
Of the women I have asked if a man has ever done this, the one's who have were totally delighted, and said it was rare but that they wished all men would do it.
The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her come, made her your slave by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she has come all the way down.
A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it.
Take your time, practice often, and pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself and your woman. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/12/2008 6:53:08 PM | Step 1: prepare the canvass for the artwork to follow....SHAVE.
Step 2: Practice make perfect. Have him do it often. The tongue and the jaw muscles needs to be made strong. If he never did it before, he probably has weak muscle and may tire before the woman reaches climax | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/13/2008 7:49:43 PM | | Imagine...it was my pleasure! Many people have benefited from this essay, and hopefully many more will in the future. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/13/2008 11:52:20 PM | | Other than my first girlfriend, who had never experienced oral sex before, most women I have been with weren't interested in oral sex all that much. Before I'm blamed for inability, the majority absolutely refused to let me perform on them, saying they had done it before and didn't like it. The few that liked it wanted to almost immediately move to regular intercourse, as if oral sex was too much of a tease. I maybe I was just inept. Too bad though, I really enjoy giving and recieving, and prefer to give while receiving. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/14/2008 1:59:28 AM | | Its all about positive incentive. If you have a guy whos worth your time he has a genuine interest in pleasing you and not just himself. The best thing you can do to teach him right is know yourself. If you know what you like than you can simply guide him the right way gently and show some signs of pleasure when he hits the spot you want if hes looking to please you than hes paying attention for a respons and encouragment all you need to do is give it too him. Even if he has a little expeirience every girl is different some like it right on some like it a little under some like it a little over and most find they like it a little different half way through.... just let them know when there doing something right a simple " yes " is fine and if you need a change give a lite nudge and then give another " yes " when they find the next right spot. They should be looking to please so once you figure out what you want its quite simple all you need to know is how to say YES | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/14/2008 2:15:52 AM | Watch girl on girl movies, or just let him watch them.
I picked up so many pointers on there, that I got REALLY good at it, and enjoy it immensely!
Its a more sensual experience, plus they know what each other like. Watching the guys do it looks so sloppy, it almost looks like they dont like it.
I enjoy it, always have always will.
If I had a choice between getting oral or giving it, I would be giving it.
Trust me! Its a good thing! | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 2/14/2008 4:37:15 AM | well if you have a real man and he knows hes not doing the job he should look up at u and say i take directions really well!!! that is if he wants to please his lady i must add that one in.  | |
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