| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/18/2009 11:02:38 PM | Hmmm. Like training a dog? You take a rolled up newspaper, smack him on the nose and in a firm voice say "no. no, bad." Then give him a scooby snack and let him go play outside.
guess what...message this short and yada yada | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/29/2009 7:43:53 AM | Comunicate it the best you can. Sooooo many do it wrong or too rough. It helps to have a woman who will tell you what feels good without making you feel stupid.
It's a little different for each woman what they like or feels good to them ? ( 2 cent smiley goes here ) | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/29/2009 9:41:15 AM | Nice Gixxer, Noelcatman!
I am with you, it's a two-way thing, look up at her, watch her to see if she is enjoying it, change the pace, ask her, and she should let you know, without being afraid. Don't expect perfection first time, it will come. It helps if you enjoy it, but first time it might feel a bit unfamiliar - like the first beer or the first cigarette or the first bite of blue cheese (but try not to think of blue cheese when you are down there) - you may get to like it better the more you have of it.
I like to ask but I like to do my own thing, although I found that once she is ready to come you should keep to the same pace and pressure, and not stop or change - just finish her off! It helps giving your jaw and tongue some relief if you alternate with your hands and with the tip of your nose (yes, it works)...
I love giving oral... yum! | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 3/29/2009 7:31:22 PM | | Simply talk to him about it - If he wants to learn and do it right he'll listen....If he doesn't want to learn and you know this don't pressure him. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 4/1/2009 5:19:56 AM | | Just use the internet or a book of anatomy and point out the relevant parts, if he is hesitant barter, offer him something he wants. Oral is not complicated. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/13/2009 6:52:53 PM | Oral is the best bit!!
And being bald i am used to being a C_ U_ M_ Dome too and God the amount of women that loved to wait until my head was in position for that moment and well, use natures very own lube 
Seriously though, isn't it great to give her what she wants first and bow down and worship at her holiest of holies and offer sacrafices to hear those screams that would wake the dead?
I love foreplay, and then I love giving Oral...my favourite part of lovemaking and I agree with the comments about getting to know her inside out, if you will forgive the pun, to help her climax.
Why is it that guys can't eat her out and bring her to climax yet expect her to suck their****?
Life sure is strange!! | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/13/2009 8:35:21 PM | | how much work is this for you anyway? what is he doing about it? i am a hard ass, but tell him to look it up on the internet, and get practicing! lol. tell him when to stop, do something else, go back, try this, longer, shorter, harder, whatever...build his ego but he has to want this as much as you or more...otherwise, dump him. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/13/2009 8:44:35 PM | If I was with you and wanting to give it for the first time ever, I would really appreciate someone who knows how to talk through, and for incentive, use the guy's penis as an example if you are short on words, a picture is worth a 1000 words.
You do it on him the way you ask him to
Back to givng verbal instructions, tell him how to start, technique,speed, pressure, where, maybe use your hands to guide his head if he is not on the right spot.
If you are in touch with your body, feel free to tell him what it does.
("That feels good" is not good enoug alone)
As things progress and you are heating up you keeptelling him. Maybe at some point you want him to do something different; like speed, pressure, technique, location.
Another way is to "finger" him, maybe on the head or neck or shoulder the way you want it, you use the words for higher, lower. talk about it with your guyand cme upwith a way you are both fine with. Too much work? I don't think so, I wished someone had done it for me when I started. Anyway, it's your reward. If it was me going down on you, it would be my reward too. ood luck, go pleasure.
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/13/2009 8:49:00 PM | have you ever had good ... or bad oral sex?
if bad that explains your lack of luck.
so many women complain about their men yet not willing to give them a chance to be who they can be for you. it took me a bit of trying to get it right because I learned on my own, the gal was lucky I had in mind to satisfy her but she would not help a beginner. maybe I should have stopped just before she was out to get it. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/13/2009 8:49:46 PM | It's kind of like teaching him how to drive standard transmission.
You can talk him through it, even show him how, but until he gets
a feel for shifting gears, learns to finesse and pop the clutch, it's...
practice, practice, practice. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/14/2009 10:56:55 AM | Porn.
It's the best teacher... think of it as lessons from a pro. How easy of a question was this to answer? Where do ALL guys learn their craft??? Come on now.
Porn porn porn porn (is this message long enough now?) Porn porn | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/14/2009 11:02:08 AM | jakeya,
You are a guy. No wonder. I don't think porn (well, mainstream porn anyhow) ever taught a man to be a good lover. The porn I've seen of men giving head involves them doing the same thing over and over again, far enough away from her body that the camera can see, while she screams and writhes rhythmically. I would get bored fast. Nope, best way to learn is from your partner herself. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/14/2009 11:12:20 AM | porn is the best teacher? are you serious? 
yeah, because people pretending and acting are so clued in what is good for everyone.
good one dirk diggler... now back to reality.
it is simple to "teach" someone what turns you on and makes you hot: communicate... albeit some dont get the signals of when someone is moaning or reacting a certain way, so its best to just openly communicate... seriously, what's to be shamed? you are both naked making the "o face"... | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/14/2009 12:40:00 PM | | I don't know......I think if it's something the guy really likes doing, something he can really see himself doing, so to speak, and something he really desires, then it should just kind of come naturally because he'll be so voracious about it (I mean, within reason, and in a good way) that it will just 'work'. He will unleash his passion while doing it, and will be happy to be doing it, and therefore it will feel good to her. That has been my experience with this at least, as a guy. It hasn't been an issue, because it has been something I have enjoyed or been passionate about. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:11:22 PM | | me..not into virgins..I guess to each their own. But, like everything in sex, talk to him..that's the best way. We're all different anyway. My partner always knows what I like =) just sayin' | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/14/2009 9:25:57 PM | | ask him,if he says i don't know how then let him explore and when he hits that SPOT let him know.if he won't then maybe you need to find someone else.you could always talk him through it. | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/14/2009 9:38:47 PM | You're pretty much directing your own movie here..
"lick here..."
"A little higher..."
"left a bit..."
"There!"
"HARDER..."
"FASTER...."
"yes...."
"Yes..."
"YES!!!" | |
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| How do you teach a guy to give oral?
Posted: 9/15/2009 12:22:16 AM | | I am not sure you can teach all men this. First off they have to want to learn/get better. Some guys just don't like doing it me personally i love it therefore I think I am pretty good at it. Woman confirm this and yes I can tell there not lying while I perform. I beleive if you are pasionate about something you will want to improve it. But if you just don't care all the coaching in the world won't help. | |
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