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 ~curlygirl~
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 151
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if we're talking a true psychological diagnosis, nymphomania is an addictive overwhelming need for sex...any outlet or partner will do, it's indiscriminate. a true nymphomaniac might not have the control to be faithful.

however, if we're talking social definitions of a nympho...basically just a normal woman with a very high sex drive...well then, yes, she's just as capable of monogamy as any other woman. but take your vitamins, you'll have to work your ass (and other parts) off to keep her satisfied in the bedroom. lack of satisfaction won't make her stray any more than any other woman, but when either person in a couple isn't having their needs met/acknowledged it can eventually damage the foundation of the relationship.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 152
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Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/4/2008 10:48:33 AM
The answer to that is ABSOLUTELY YES. Just because a woman loves sex doesn't mean she is a cheater.
 sam-spade
Joined: 12/2/2007
Msg: 153
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/4/2008 11:11:54 AM
No she can't. You're in for a world of pain if you do this dude. But you know this right?

Fair warning.
 The Minister of Dudeness
Joined: 6/11/2006
Msg: 154
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/4/2008 11:44:34 AM
Not when they're married to me.
 Mirage111
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 155
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/4/2008 11:47:17 AM
nympho...deeper issues. that would have to be addressed before...the faithful comment..
 LILLEFTOVERS
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 156
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I miss my x )=
Posted: 4/4/2008 11:56:07 AM
she'd have sex with me for hours every time I came over, she was hot so I never minded she was horney all the time lol.
 kthyg
Joined: 11/24/2006
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Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/4/2008 12:46:02 PM
Did you ask her if she wants to be faithful to you? You have to set the terms of your relationship and live by them. Even those of us with very high sex drives can control ourselves if we choose. You just have to figure out if she wants to do the monogomy thing or not. It's that simple in my mind.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 158
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/4/2008 5:26:17 PM
What do you think qualifies a girl as a ``nympho?'' That she has sex? That she has sex for something other than procreation? That she occasionally wants sex when you haven't asked? That she actually likes sex and had it with at least one guy besides you? That she wants to have sex more often than you do?
 agentnbx5
Joined: 3/17/2008
Msg: 159
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/4/2008 5:58:47 PM
As far as the my answer to the topic's title question: Yes of course. It depends on if he or she has self-control and a sense of honor too.

As far as your date question: Like the others have said, have an open & honest discussion. Ask her, and listen.
 Renaissance Mun
Joined: 8/9/2007
Msg: 160
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/4/2008 7:51:39 PM
I think the accurate term here is sex addict, but nympho will do. They are literally insatiable. I know of a cop who has a beautiful wife who is a nymphomaniac. After several years of marriage, he can't keep up, so he allows other men to have sex with her to meet her needs and has no problem with it, as long as he's there (I don't know if there means being in the bed room or in just on the premises). Couldn't believe it, but I know this to be true. She likes to have sex many times a day, from what I understand. So, there are those kinds of people and there are certainly men who are insatiable (not me). I remember reading the book about the Boston Strangler and his wife reported that he would masturbate up to 12+ times a day. He had a constant urge. My two cents.
 VirgoGrl
Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 161
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/19/2008 4:12:45 PM
Yes she can depending on the girl - can't she be a nympho for you only? Ask her.
 LisaDobie
Joined: 7/13/2007
Msg: 162
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/20/2008 11:23:14 AM
I'm a nympho and yes I am always faithful my husband was often away in Iraq for 6 months at a time, and I won't sleep around just to fufil my needs so I use toys instead.
 pdu82
Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 163
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 3/31/2009 10:49:02 AM
Yes they CAN. Will they... that's another story. Let's see... I met one nympho who was so faithful she was willing to limit herself only to her partner giving up both genders in the process.
I met another nympho who had 3 boyfriends. No wait... she was just bi and had a problem saying no.
I met a third who was cheating with an ex-con and her best friend.

She may already be cheating on you. Ask the girl flat out if she's capable of monogamy. Make sure to define monogamy.

There are different types of sexual compulsion problems as well.

If you can tolerate some cheating...... no dating other men, no women with boyfriends. This is the bare minimum to avoid a 'social destruct'. XD
Good luck.... and be wary.
 hereshecomesagain
Joined: 3/20/2008
Msg: 164
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 3/31/2009 11:07:19 AM
Yes. I always was faithful. ALWAYS and absolutely. And I'm just craving sex all the time and I have a bad habit of being with men who would cold-shoulder me to get back at me or get their way, which makes the guys at work laugh because their wives do that to them. Then I discovered the magic of *OPEN* relationships which actually require a LOT of maturity and communication and fidelity is a about honesty and working things out, not about deprivation.
 allInkedup
Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 165
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 3/31/2009 11:08:14 AM
As long as you can keep up she will be....
 upforsomething
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 166
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 3/31/2009 11:28:52 AM
Yes....a person with high sexual desires can be faithful....I think that your real question should be "can I get over the hurt from the last time" because if you don't let that go....whether she's faithful or not won't matter-you'll forever wonder.
 metonfish
Joined: 3/27/2009
Msg: 167
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 3/31/2009 1:07:33 PM
The question is can you please one?

I have dated women who wanted it all the time, it became work after a while. I am talking in the AM, wanted to meet at lunch, PM, more than once. It is nice at first but after a while it gets old.

I broke up with one and the other ended up cheating and using me as the reason, did not give it her enough.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
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Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 3/31/2009 3:14:44 PM
To answer your question in one word - YES, we can be faithful to one man.
 cute_asme
Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 169
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 3/31/2009 4:37:08 PM
hell no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 getyou
Joined: 6/2/2006
Msg: 170
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/2/2009 12:27:05 PM
being faithfull can be only loveing you faithfull is a state of mind i think even if a woman gets raped she is faithfull to her partner you cant really judge a person because of the way nature treats her/him its a drive that never quits but her heart does not always reside in her genitals that one lesson hookers have to learn fast we all could look closer at ourselves and see if in our minds have we strayed often the answer is yes but the heart remains at home!
 floatman
Joined: 12/2/2008
Msg: 171
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/2/2009 1:22:09 PM
Satyrs are interesting mythological characters. I've been described as such.

On topic - sure she can be faithful. Open the lines of communication and ask her if she's cheated in the past, what the circumstances were, and why she did it, if she did, in fact, cheat.

Therein lies your answer to your question. I agree cheating is a bad thing, but opening up the lines of communication can be extremely beneficial in the long run.

Good luck and have fun!
 WhereIsElvis
Joined: 6/14/2008
Msg: 172
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Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/2/2009 1:31:00 PM
Come on OP... you just want the sex with her, nothing more. She'll probably cheat on you or even leave you when she's done riding you or when someone else with a bigger johnson comes along. Next question.....
 taylordane67
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 173
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/2/2009 1:39:26 PM
true yes am niff..and hope my fella just knows how lucky he is..dont let me slip away....and yes he cant 100 percent trust me cos if you like love some one ..then yes you can be good girl ....
 taylordane67
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 174
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/2/2009 2:00:17 PM
yes niff can be very happy specialy if he see to her needs ..and you see to his ..make each other happy ..and have realy hot sex . like me my partner do ..
 VF102
Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 175
Can a nympho be faithful?
Posted: 4/2/2009 2:02:47 PM
Enjoy it while you can Bubba!

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