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Posted: 3/13/2007 7:44:37 AM | This will not stand...
As of today, 0942 hrs CST, you are to turn in your "guy card" immediately. All rights and priveleges attached to this card are hereby revoked. You are requested, nay... ordered to punch yourself in the gonads as hard as is humanly possible, and you are to hang your head in shame for 30 days.
Case dismissed...
It's not love, brother... she did marvelous, magical things to your willy, and you percieve that as love. Sorry to say, it ain't. You will know love when it comes to you. | |
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Posted: 3/13/2007 9:59:17 AM | Dude, I'm sorry. I know it sucks, I know it hurts, but you have to let it go.
The only chance you have at this point to "win her back" is to back off...break off contact. Don't email her, call her, or IM her. Just stop. And, whatever you do, don't email, call, or IM her to TELL her that you're not going to emal, call, or IM her. Let her wonder. Let her miss you. The only bargaining chip that you have is your effection, and if she's not conducting herself in such a way that she deserves it, TAKE IT AWAY!!
This will produce one of two results: Either she cares, and she will get anxious and straighten up her act, or she doesn't care, and nothing you do will change that. Wouldn't you rather know?
If she does start to call, don't always answer...don't call her back immediately. Let her wonder, let her miss you. Get busy with your own life. And then, when you talk to her, don't accuse, don't confront, don't bring up any heavy conversation...let her do that. If it matters to her, she will. Instead, tell her about all the cool stuff you've been doing while she wasn't around. And don't make it up...actually go out and do some cool stuff!!
Edit: I should also add that many people in a relationship, male and female, will often test your "addiction" level by bad behavior...she wants to see what you will put up with. Putting up with it will cause her to lose respect for you, which will make you less attractive. Do you want to become less attractive to her? 2 months, DUDE!! She is probably rolling her eyes every time she sees an email from you at this point. You've failed her test!! It's disqusting behavior on her part to test you, and it's doormat behavior on your part to let her.
Put your foot down without saying a word. Just stop contacting her. | |
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Posted: 3/13/2007 12:51:40 PM | | Love u all! U all have awsome Advice.. I was worried at first about posting this here. Im Moving on once and for all! I havnt contacted her in 5 days anyways.. SO | |
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Posted: 3/13/2007 1:02:15 PM | Good... now follow that advice. You have to be strong, brother. No one can do it for you.
Best of luck... | |
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AlexSB
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Joined: 6/29/2006
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Posted: 3/13/2007 1:08:38 PM | Sounds like she's playin' ya...thats harsh...I feel your pain brother.
At what point do women grow up (men included)? I mean, I could never do that in a million years, but understand why some people might. It's better to be the player than the played. | |
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Posted: 3/13/2007 2:21:11 PM | she says she loves you? but then doesnt go out with u when u ask? in 2 months.. she still doesnt know you yet even in 4 months and shes probably just waiting and wants things to be right in her life.. and yours, especially since you told her you were going to arizona. she doesnt know what your going to do next so why should she commit to you so soon or fall for you again?
some people end up going out and they are like living together within 4-6 months and already arguing and shit.. then they end up being together for years and always breaking up and getting back together.
So since she says she loves you she probably cares alot about you and doesnt want things to be over just as fast as they started so she is trying to make more time for herself to get to know you even if that means not going out with you right away again. She doesnt want to go out with you and like you alot then you be the one to change your mind about her and again say your moving to arizona.
maybe she has someone else she likes to and cant decide.. maybe she thinks you have someone else to and thats why you were moving before or looking for a new job.
maybe just take things slow, ask her if she ever wants to see u again and go from there. 4months inst a really long time to get to know a person especially to love them... but some people do know right away if they could ever love someone. maybe you need to talk to her more and not just over email.. and if she doesnt talk to you then move on... if you meet again in the future good for you if not you will find someone else ;) | |
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